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Information and resources to help children and families talk about important issues. Read on to learn more about minimizing a child's risk of sexual abuse.
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Hatfield, PA
19440
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Lori Stauffer, Ph.D. is the founder and President of Hope for Families, Inc. Hope for Families is a Company which produces educational materials and programs regarding sexual abuse and other issues which impact families. Over 25,000 copies of Dr. Stauffer's children's books have been sold around the world to help in the treatment and prevention of child sexual abuse. Over the past 20 years, Dr. Stauffer has been actively involved in treating children, adolescents and adults who suffered child sexual abuse. She has also been involved in developing and conducting research examining various aspects of child sexual abuse. Dr. Stauffer has published and presented research at national conferences. Dr. Stauffer's research has been funded by the National Center on Child Abuse and Neglect and the Institute of Mental Health. Dr. Stauffer writes: While it is unfair to EXPECT children to prevent or stop physical or sexual abuse, it is also unfair to fail to provide them with information, skills and an environment of openness that may help them to avoid, stop or tell about abusive experiences. It is important that the education we provide to children be presented in a way that is helpful to all children and does not inadvertently increase the feelings of guilt and shame experienced by children who have already suffered from abuse. It is with this in mind that I set a goal for myself 10 years ago of developing a different kind of educational program for children. When I first met with my co-author, Dr. Esther Deblinger, it was the spring of 1990 and I was a first year graduate student at the University of Pennsylvania. I was meeting with her to interview for a training position at the Center for Children’s Support at the School of Osteopathic Medicine of the University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey. The Center is a multidisciplinary program that specializes in the evaluation and treatment of child sexual abuse. During that interview I told Esther of my dream, for that truly is what it was at the time (and still is), of developing an educational program that would not be hurtful to children who heard it and had already been abused and would not cause any child to feel bad if they did not prevent or stop abuse in the future. I began working as a graduate student in training at the Center in September 1990 and I joined their professional staff in 1994 after I graduated. Throughout my years at the Center I would come home and work on work books for use with our groups of young children who had been sexually abused and I thought that maybe someday I would turn them into that different kind of educational program that I dreamed of. Over the years I became more focused on working with the children who had already been abused, and my thoughts of developing a program faded into the background. Then, in 1998, amidst lots of changes in my life, I began focusing again on that dream. With the support of my husband, Brett, I incorporated in October 1998 as Hope for Families, Inc. with the goal of producing materials and educational presentations that will be helpful to children and families—beginning with the issue of abuse and personal safety. My first book was to be an interactive book regarding personal safety that contained the knowledge and language of a trained therapist, but that any caring adult could read with a child. There were many bumps along the road in 1998 and 1999, but after my first child, Benjamin, was born on July 29, 1999 I was inspired to finish my book. Having finished it, the next task was finding the funding to pay to print the book and cover other business expenses which were building up. My husband very lovingly agreed for us to obtain a personal loan, because the business did not have any track record to support a loan, to cover expenses and allow us to move closer to making my dream a reality. On November 8th I held the first copy of my book in my hands hot off the press. My mother and I were there to see it completed—oh what an amazing feeling! The book was printed at Boyertown Publishing Company, which is the company where my mother worked from the time I was 2 until she retired when I was 25. I also worked there the summer after graduating high school, as had several of my sisters and my brother before me. It was truly an amazing experience to be back there with my mother to see my first book printed. And so, having the book completed and printed, my dream has come a few very big steps closer to reality. My dream is not complete. Although the first book is completed, now comes the challenging task of getting the book and the information out to as many children and families as possible. And then come the next steps of other projects, because just one book is not enough and will not work for all children and teens. On my current list of projects are: a musical tape/CD with songs related to the messages in the book, a book for younger children (age 3 to 6), a book for older children (ages 9 to 12), a book for teens, and a series of videotapes. This dream is important enough to me that I, and my family, have made a considerable investment of time, energy and money. And we continue to make those investments with the hope of spreading the word and getting as many caring adults as possible talking about these issues among themselves and with children. Although it is unfair to expect children to prevent or stop abuse, it is crucial that we provide them with the knowledge, skills and sense of empowerment to help them recognize abuse, get away and tell about it as soon as possible. The best protection we can offer children is a sense of empowerment and control over their bodies and their experiences combined with open communication regarding their feelings, their bodies and their experiences. It is my goal to help share this information with as many adults and children as possible. Please join me in my efforts by using the information from this website and my book in your interactions with children. copyright Hope for Families, Inc.
