30/07/2024
"Am 30yrs old, I'm not the stepmother type, am too young, i can't live under the same roof with another woman's child
Am actually worried cos my Fiancé has a 4 yr-old daughter, her mother passed away while giving birth to her. So, he has been raising her ever since then with the help of his family.
But, the thing is, I am now in the picture & we're getting married next year, I'm even 7 months pregnant with his son. I very well know, I won't treat his daughter thesame way as my son.To be honest, she annoys me! She looks exactly like her mother so, she constantly reminds my man of his late wife & to make things worse she's very attached to her daddy, which makes me worried even more,..
It's obvious my son will not be able to bond with his father because of her, I can't live with her under the same roof. I mean her both grandparents are still alive & healthy, she can go live with them or better still we can find her a nice couple that wants to adopt a child. My worry now is, don't know how to approach this situation to my man but really, I need to find a way to convince my fiancé'..
Pls note that I'm not a b@dd person, I'm just trying to look out for my son & make sure that he will get all his father's love & attention that he deserves. Which is exactly what every woman in my shoe will do, i also need space with my husband, her presence is only going to be a distraction..
pls, kindly advice me on how to approach my husband with this issue i need some guidance 🙏"