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21/11/2022

HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF

(1) Stop looking for who is not looking for you.

(2) Stop begging.

(3) Stop saying more than is necessary.

(4) When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.

(5) Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.

(6) Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it.

(7) Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.

(8) Stop entertaining gossip about other people.

(9) Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.

(10) Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.

(11) Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.

(12) Respect your time.

(13) Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.

(14) Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.

(15) Be scarce sometimes.

(16) Be a giver more than a receiver.

(17) Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.

(18) Treat people exactly the way they deserve.

(19) Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.

(20) Be good at what you do. Be the best.

© Rose

20/11/2022

“Not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring. Some of them love us dearly. Many of them have good intentions. Most are toxic to our being simply because their needs and way of existing in the world force us to compromise ourselves and our happiness. They aren’t inherently bad people, but they aren’t the right people for us. And as hard as it is, we have to let them go. Life is hard enough without being around people who bring you down, and as much as you care, you can’t destroy yourself for the sake of someone else. You have to make your wellbeing a priority. Whether that means breaking up with someone you care about, loving a family member from a distance, letting go of a friend, or removing yourself from a situation that feels painful — you have every right to leave and create a safer space for yourself.

Author: Daniell Koepke

Artist: Unknown

19/04/2022

Smile look good on me right 👌

15/03/2022

13/12/2021

What's good ninjas

08/12/2021

If good time was a zoo we would be the big 5

19/11/2021

MEN HAVE PAINS TOO

A woman said to me, 'It took me years to really know that men cry too. I took my husband for a superhuman. I see him leave the house every day and come back providing for us. One day as I have left the house and he was at home, I remembered that I needed to take something along, I turned back and headed home. As I got home, I tried going through the back door which was closer to the window of our room. I heard my husband crying like a baby asking God to help me get a job so I can help him fend for the family. He has never complained to me before but that day, I broke down in tears realizing that my husband has held much of his pains alone"

A young married lady went to her mother and complained that her husband has not always bought things she wanted from him. The mother asked her, 'How many of those things have you bought for yourself?". She stayed quiet and said, 'But he is my husband?". The mother replied her, 'Have you ever found out the things your husband wants you to buy for him?".

Men always try to hide their pains.

Men can be financially broke and pretend to have everything.

Most men are married but they have a lonely life. Sometimes, ask your husband out. Men are not always busy as women think.

You have to understand that your husband has pains and needs too. Don't judge him by things you want from him. Sometimes, your husband doesn't have the things you want.

Men also have emotional needs and problems. Men cry, Men hurt, Men feels .

23/07/2021

Marcus Garvey was born in Jamaica in 1887. He established massive black businesses and created thousands and thousands of jobs for black people.

In 1918 he established an Afrocentric weekly newspaper called Negro World Newspaper; which was geared towards awaking black people and had a reach of over five hundred thousand people world over, it was translated and printed in French, Spanish and English, it is said that Madam C J Walker (who was a well renowned African millionaire in the 20th century) was one of the biggest funders of the Negro World.

Moreover, in 1919 Marcus founded the Negro Factories Corporation. He produced almost everything that African Americans consumed on a day to day basis. His business enterprises comprised of but not limited to: a chain of grocery stores, restaurants, steam laundry, tailor shop, dress making shop, millinery store (clothing, fashion, hats, accessories, etc.), publishing and printing plant and Black doll factory. Owned several buildings, owned a fleet of trucks and a fleet of ships (called the Black Star line ship) his ships were geared towards promoting trade amongst Africans in all corners of the world spanning the continent to the diaspora. N:B it was exclusively Africans who had shares in his business establishments.

Regardless of all the economic racism and sanctions that were imposed upon Africans back then, Marcus Garvey cemented a lasting legacy that outlived him and he did it for us. Now it's upon us to carry the torch and continue where he left of (prior his businesses were sabotaged by the racist US government). And push until the fire of black self determination and reliance is lit, after all we are living in an information and globalized age, therefore we have no excuse.

By way of conclusion, let me borrow from the words of Garvey, "Up you mighty race and accomplish what you will, without confidence you twice defeated in the race of life, however with confidence you have won even before you have started".

Dr Khulani Sikhosana
via Vuka Da**ie

23/07/2021

His majesty

"We must become bigger than we have been: more courageous, greater in spirit, larger in outlook."


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20/07/2021

"S*x is not just s*x, s*x is more of soul ties. When you sleep with different guys or ladies, you tie your soul with theirs💏, their souls may come in different forms of darkness. Some of souls could possibly destroy you or delay your Blessings.😐✋

Sometimes we act so strange , so weird , because of body is full of different darkness of souls.As you go chasing for girls lusting after girls , sleeping with different girls lusting after guys , keep this on your mind , s*x is not just s*x✋, but a soul ties.

Having s*x with different bodies means your body has different Shadows consist of different souls, you are not you, but different people in you. 😕😕

Now think of this, your partner is faithful to you, but you go sleeping around and come back sleep with your partner( him/ her), that means you transferring all shadows to your faithful partner , Don't you think you are heartless? 😕, careless or selfish by doing that??

Let's think before we do things . No amount of condom can protect your soul . just pick one
partner and make him/ her your King/ Queen, have self control and do what is right for you. you won't go early to grave.

Only mature people will understand what am saying!!😊😉

15/07/2021

08/07/2021

Repost:

The primary reason why the apartheid government ended the apartheid system in 1990 was because of the international economic sanctions that were imposed upon them by the international community were becoming more economically unsustainable and unviable. Meaning they couldn't trade with the international community, by virtue of being boycotted.

The primary reason why the US government abolished slavery in 1865 was because there wasn't much need for black labour in white plantations by virtue of the fact that industrial technology would do the labour. They also needed black customers to buy the surplus of products they produced.

Moreover, the reason why the racist USA outlawed segregation in 1954, was because black people were more self sufficient and self reliant during segregation. And black businesses were thriving and fruitful during the era of segregation. Then integration made black people to lose their economic independence. Meaning they can be now integrated in white businesses, as a consequence they lost the ability to do for themselves.

The primary reason why BEE (Black Economic Empowerment) was introduced in 2003, was to give black people in South Africa that illusion of economic inclusion. By way of economically uplifting a handful of blacks. In fact BEE was founded by white people masqueraded as the black government, in order to front with black faces, and also to continue to receive government procurement. Hence why BEE benefits white people more than black people....

In a nutshell, slavery gave birth to racism and colonialism (which gave Europeans an economic power to economically exclude Africans) in 1652. In 1884, the Berlin conference gave birth to borders in Africa. Colonization gave birth to apartheid 1948. Apartheid gave birth to rainbow nation (an illusion of inclusion) in 1994. Rainbow nation gave birth to black people who think they cannot make it without white participation.

In closing, slavery, colonialism and apartheid didn't end, however they got reinvented and remixed.

Dr Khulani Sikhosana

21/06/2021

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19/06/2021

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14/06/2021

3 STAGES OF MARRIAGE...✍✔

The FIRST STAGE is called honey moon and lasts about two years. This stage is very sweet, nice and romantic. This is where you find names like honey, sweet heart, baby and so on. In this stage, everything is perfect. This is a stage where a man returns home and dumps his socks and shoes anywhere but in the morning, he will wake up and find them placed where they're supposed to be. This is where madam doesn't go to bed until you return home. She sits in the living room and receives all the mosquito bites waiting for you till you return, take a shower and enjoy supper. Even if you return at midnight, you find her waiting for you. Wait and see what happens in the second stage.
This first stage is beautiful with a lot of tolerance. This is a stage where at night while in bed, you release a very toxic gas and your spouse instead apologizes. Remember, you have gassed but again he tells you, "Sorry darling, it's okaaaaaay." This is unbelievable. Madam has gassed but to you, it's okay. Oh my God, this is sweet. Everything is just merry making during this stage. In conclusion, Enjoy this stage for as much as we can.

The SECOND STAGE lasts for about ten years! This is where honey moon is over. This stage is red hot. During this stage, perhaps financial challenges have come in. You have given birth and the children are also disturbing you. Sometimes you are yet to give birth but really want to and the pressure on you is mounting from all corners. Landlords have become Landlords. There is loss of employment. Things are just tight.
Life is hard in this second stage. The man who used to return home early now returns very late. Sometimes he doesn't even return home. There are suspicions of infidelity and cheating. You don't trust each other. You feel your spouse is cheating, and infact he or she is cheating. When you return home and leave your shoes outside, in the morning, you find them where you left them. Things are hot here.
This is a stage where at night, you release a toxic gas and your partner asks what you ate during supper time yet you ate the same meals. He can even leave the bed and spend the night in the sitting room simply because you gassed. Imagine only gassing.
The second stage is hot. There are fights; spiritual, physical and in all aspects. This is the stage where you reach the point of considering separating. Each spouse shows his or her true colours in this stage. A night dancer switches on the reggae, mixes the music and punches the baseline. Your relatives taste the greedy side of your wife.
Those who persevere and overcome this stage end up keeping their marriage till death does them part. However, very many hang up the towel in this stage. They quit. In conclusion, Those who are in this stage should fight a little longer, not to hang up the towel. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Just a little longer and you are done with this heat.

Finally, there's the LAST STAGE. This comes after the ten red hot years. This last stage is lukewarm. It's neither cold or hot. You gas at large and no one applauds you or complains. You have seen enough of each other. You have known each other's true colours.
In this stage, whatever your partner does no longer surprises you. If she quarrels, you just say that is the nature of this woman. If he is still late out in the night, you don't even bother to call since you know he will return. If she doesn't serve you food and you feel hungry, you just go and serve food otherwise, hunger hits you for nothing.
This stage is not for disturbing one another. There is a lot of calmness and commands are few. This is where if you are watching TV with her in the sitting room and you feel thirsty, you don't send her to bring for you drinking water but only wait when she's moving to the direction where there is water and you tell her if she is coming back, she can come along with some water. If she asks you to repeat what you just said, you have to pretend like you didn't say anything. All of a sudden, she shocks you and returns with drinking water. There is mutual respect in this stage. In conclusion, those in this stage should just work for eternity. congratulations to those who are in this stage for, they have come from far.

That's all for today. Maybe the reader of this post can have a reflection. Maybe you can relate to this for those married. Maybe you will relate with this for those who will marry in future. I am also busy writing here but just know perhaps, out of the three stages, I am also somewhere there enjoying or facing one of the stages. Just do a reflection. It might be helpful.

Don't forget to share this widely. Thank you!

By.

02/06/2021

Positive vibration
Good over evil
Life over death
Don't listen to wht peaple say
Just follow your heart Nd make up you mind..do you Nd wht works for you

06/05/2021

29/04/2021

"The people is not the problem. The system is the problem. The system is those who clutter our mind with nonsense. The people who advertise peanut butter instead of showing the reality.."