16/11/2023
WHO REALLY WAS AYIBATONYE MARK OBEBA?
A Compendium Of Peoples' perspectives.
BIRTH: Madam Ayibatonye Mark Obeba fondly called Mama-Eteta was born on March 23, 1921 of Chief Abhila Abharashiba by Princess Ashabor Abharashiba (Nee HRH King Igbeke Erekuma), at the ancient city of Opume in Ogbia Local Government Area of Bayelsa State. Her name, Ayibatonye is synonymous with Azibator as it is called in our Ogbia local palace. Her paternal grandfather, Abharashiba, hails from Olali group of Houses of Otu- Ekon compound of Opume and OtuApatamu group of Houses of Otakeme community. Her maternal grandmother, Princess Aduebal or Adeyal Iworiso, the daughter of HRH King Iworiso or Ooto hails from Iworiso Royal family of Olali group of Houses of Otu-Ekon compound of Opume and Ebhasi, Awere family of Aziba group of Houses of Amirisan or Esan compound of Opume. Her paternal grandmother, Obholo, hails from Igbalia, Okokodia family of Isibo group of Houses of Amorokon or Okuer compound of Opume and HRH King Ebereguo Royal family of Ogidi compound of Otu-Ogidi community. Her maternal grandfather, HRH King Igbeke Erekuma hails from Igbeke, Erekuma Royal family of Inema compound of Otuabula II community. All in Ogbia Local Government Area of Bayelsa State of Nigeria.
EARLY LIFE: Tonye was a beautiful damsel during her prime age. Earlier, she lived with her parent. Her parent gave her good parental care, love, protection, joy, peace and hope for a better future. Unfortunately, she lost her only older brother Late Master Gabriel Abila Abharashiba when he was in standard 6 (six) at St. Michael School Oloibiri in about 1930 due to illness. Again, while she was still tender, enjoying the company of her beloved parent, death struck and cut short of her parents' life at different intervals. As a result of her parents' death, She lived and spent most of her early life with her maternal grandmother, late Princess Aduebal or Adeyal Iworiso. Adeyal Iworiso was a very strong support system, a safety net, and a strict disciplinarian to the core. While she was with her grand mother, she learnt many things, especially culture, good behaviour, Obedience, loyal and respect to elders; the art of cooking, farming, fishing, trading etc. Madam Tonye Mark Obeba though from a Royal blood, was able to successfully navigates the daunting challenges that typically confronted an African orphan through obedience, honestly, dexterity and hardwork. Her life of service to God and humanity, industry, humility, peaceful disposition, moral integrity and generosity are attributes she apparently gleaned from late Princess Adeyal or Aduebal Iworiso's outstanding and indefatigable tutelage.
OCCUPATION: Tonye Mark Obeba was an entrepreneur. Her main occupation was farming, fishing and trading. Her husband, Late Chief Frank Mark Obeba-Erekereso(IV) was one of the greatest farmers in Opume. She accompanied her husband in farming. God in his benevolence blessed their farms with much increase, sufficient enough for the upkeep of the family. She also accompanied her husband with dugout canoe for fishing expedition along the rivers. Mrs Ayibatonye Mac-Frank Obeba always supported her husband by taking bunches of plantain, canoes, palm oil, paddles, raw rafia palm fruits, cocoyam to various towns and markets along the coastal trade route even as far as Nembe, Ewoama Okpoama, Okpoama, Twon- Brass, Abua, Odual etc for trading activites and barter exchange system.
MARITAL LIFE: Tonye got married to a renowned patriarch, a community leader, late Chief Frank Mark Obeba-Erekereso (IV) of Opume community in Ogbia Local Government Area of Bayelsa State of Nigeria. The marriage was blessed with twelve children. Unfortunately, four of her children went to be with the creator at their tender age. They are: Master Newman Mac-Frank, Miss Inemo Mac-Frank, Master Lonamikioma Mac-Frank and Miss Amisini Mac-Frank. She was a virtuous woman who built her home and family on the moral path of righteousness. She was very submissive to her husband. She lived a happy and peaceful life with her husband and children. Mutually, her husband and children loved and took very good care of her.
CHRISTAIN/SOCIAL LIFE: During her early life, Madam Ayibatonye Mark Obeba believed in tradition and culture of her people. She belonged to many cultural and traditional dance clubs in Opume. However, she knew that God Almighty exist, but she did not attend any church denomination. At a point, when she reminisced on her life ordeals, including the painful and untimely demise of her parent, only sibling and four children. She humbly gave her entire life to the Lord Jesus Christ. Initially, she started her Christian journey with prayers and fasting at the Devine Order of Cherubim & Seraphim at Otakeme in the early 70s when there was no functional parish in Opume to worship. Later, she changed her denomination to St. Peter's Anglican Church, Opume Parish where she was later baptized on November 21, 2021 by Rev. Cannon Temple Ugiri. Tonye was a devout Christian. She served God wholeheartedly and a generous soul to the needy.
DEATH: Madam Tonye Mark Obeba died at the early morning of Friday, May 12, 2023 after an old age brief illness.
Until her death, She is survived by;
8 (Eight) Children viz: Mrs. Martha Ganiyu Mac-Frank - Daughter, Mrs. Kogiesi Esau Ebei Mac-Frank- Daughter, Chief Iniketor Richard Mac-Frank-Abharashiba - Son, Mrs. Onyaniar Egbo Mac-Frank - Daughter, Mrs. Purene Ikusa Mac-Frank (Otu-Ekon Women Leader)- Daughter, Chief Mac-Frank Emmanuel Kobokam -Deputy Mark- Son, Chief Azibanator Mac Frank -Obeba - Son, Mr. Mineteta Anthony Macfrank - Son.
44 ( Forty four) Grandchildren viz: Mrs Amisini Johnson Macfrank , Mrs.Mitema Mac-Frank, Mrs. Sharon M. Mac-Frank, Mrs Blessing Mac-Frank Oyo-Ita, Miss Ruth Mac-frank , Engr. Princewill Adiriobebi Mac-Frank, Master Prosper Azibalua Mac-Frank, Miss Joy Precious Mac-Frank, Master Destiny Mac-Frank, Master Azibataman Mac-Frank, Master Eluanataziba Mac-Frank, Master Bomanaziba Mac-Frank, Master Azibagiri Mac-Frank, Miss Treasure Mineteta Mac-Frank, Miss Kindness Mineteta Mac-Frank, Miss Splendor Mineteta Mac-Frank, Miss Blossom Mineteta Mac-Frank, Mrs. Fidelia Ikusa, Mr.Yarwadum Ikusa Agama Claudius , Mrs. Obebatein Ikusa, Miss Iniwakunam Peter Ikusa, Chief Idiadia Peace Peter - Deputy Ikusa, Mr. Peter Matila JP, Master Saviour Ikusa Peter, Master Azibakponamarier Reward Peter Ikusa, Mrs. Grace Daughter Napoleon, Mr. Inikogbonam Napoleon, Mrs. Edna Napoleon, Engr. Oyibo Julius Esau Ebei, Mrs. Awudumapu Esau Ebei, Mrs. Alice Esau Ebei, Mrs. Blessing Egbo Okaniba, Mr Victory Albert Egbo, Mrs. Obanator Albert Egbo, Miss Azibasuam Albert Egbo, Mrs.Joy Ganiyu Godwin, Pastor.Abibu Praise Ganiyu, Mrs Sadiatu Aigbonga Ganiyu, Hon. Sandra Obeba Adijatu Ganiyu, Mrs. Ganiyu Rafy Rafiatu Iria, Master Kamoru Ganiyu Itzz Kellz , Miss Shakuratu Blessing S. Ganiyu, Mr Emmanuel Mark Ganiyu, Miss Blessed Mac-Frank.
86 (Eighty six) great grandchildren viz: Miss Ruth Aruaman, Master Azibalaguo Raphael Aruaman, Miss Faith Peter Ikusa, Miss Taraziba Peter Ikusa, Miss Glorious Peter Ikusa, Master Eluanataziba Noah, Miss Azibataram Noah, Miss Bomanaziba Noah, Miss Azibatobo Noah, Master Lawson Peter Ikusa, Master Vision Peter Ikusa, Miss Princess Peter Ikusa, Master Kampsy Peter Ikusa, Master Emmanuel Peter Ikusa, Miss Chika Godwin, Master Israel Godwin, Miss Favour Godwin, Miss Glory Godwin, Mrs Blessing Lugard, Master Osahon Lugard, Master Gift Lugard, Master Isowa Lugard, Master Uhunoma Lugard, Master Christian Lugard, Miss Favour Lugard, Miss Miracle Lugard, Master Devine Ganiyu, Miss Glory Ganiyu, Master Obebi Ganiyu, Miss Precious Aluya , Miss Daniella Amakiri, Miss Unique Amakiri, Miss Esther Amakiri, Miss Blessing Hope, Miss Beauty Hope, Master Emmanuel Hope, Miss Esther Iria, Miss Glory Iria, Master Ambrose Ganiyu, Master Desmond Napoleon, Master Frank Oba Profit Okoloba, Mrs Faith Brightime Toneyar Isu, Master Godsend Ofoni, Master Joel Timothy, Mrs Regina Wilson Timothy, Master Augustine Timothy, Master Godgift Timothy, Miss Emmanuella Timothy, Miss Devine Dickson, Miss Mercy Dickson, Master Bertrand Igwe, Miss Rachael Onyimbo, Miss Mary Onyimbo, Master Michael Onyimbo, Miss Preye Onyimbo, Master Mitema Onyimbo, Master Azibayam Napoleon, Master Azibalua Napoleon, Master Azibayaman Samuel Esau, Miss Anointed Etariaobebi Esau, Master Nelson Okaniba A, Miss Epere A. Okaniba, Master Ibebza A.Okaniba, Master Aleibhar A. Okaniba, Miss Keren Greatness, Master Azibakaduoni A. Okaniba, Kezia A. Okaniba, Master Destiny A. Okaniba, Master Favour Albert Victory, Master Ekparataziba Albert Victory, Miss Peculiar Albert Victory, Master Amasala Samuel Esau, Mrs Mary Osas Obi.
10 (Ten) great great grandchildren viz: Master Tino Abule, Miss Harmony Bright Isu, Miss Ann Wisdom, Master Obebi Timothy, Master Bossom Moses, Miss Azibagiri Moses, Master Godspower Osas Obi, Master Godsent Osas Obi, Mrs Blessing Lugard's two Children.
5 (Five) in-laws viz: Mrs. Gladys Mac-Frank-Daughter in-law, Mrs. MacFrank Lucy-Daughter in-law, Mrs. Beauty Mac Frank -Daughter in-law, Mrs. Naomi Mac-Frank-Daughter in-law and Chief Duwatu Esau Ebei-Son in-law.
Nephews viz: HRM King (Dr) J. Amalate Turner , Rev. Chief Harold Adumo John-Esan, Chief Ekon Joshua Agbodo Aleke-Ekon, Chief Ekpe Goodman John -Okuer, Chief (Sir) Ayenkitamuon Donald Ase -Igwe, Chief G.T Temerigha-Olali, Chief Christian Egiri-Isibo, Chief Christian Okoloba-Aziba, Chief Godwill Asuo - Odogu XII, Chief Jacob Akpana-Adomba, Chief Adolphus Ekpe - Oze, Chief Gbalipre Turner-Efamo, Chief Alaguo Ibobiri, Chief Promise Apatamu, Chief Captain Ozu- Ongoli, Amb (Chief, Hon) Obi Maclean Wilson), Chief Aruera Agadaga, Elder Ipam Agadaga, Elder Obebi J. Mondebo, Mr. Ayaba Ebe Robert , Hon. Chief Joshua Morris Edaba-Sokari, Chief Chukwu Natan-Oni, Engr. Adumo Olali Solomon , Mr Yamikparo Akuma Williams , Mr Victor Egba , Mr Ronami Joseph Ikogi, Mr. Azibakedigiri Ebasi, Comrade Justice Okoloba, Chief Georgewill Okaniba-Ngodi, Mr Gandhi Mondebo , Mr. Kosebere Michael , Mr. Isekpar Temp Mondebo , Rev. Canon Aaron Dumaro Mondebo , Mr Isaac Agiobu , Dr Jonathan Iworiso , Chief Morris Idamikpodi Igaki, Mr Azibabhelam David , Chief Ebinayibaemi Aziboledia Michael -Alali, Mr Kosioma Mondebo, Mr Azibodi Wilson, Mr Apiam Wilson, Mr Naduoman Wilson, Mondebo Maratein Collins , Lelege Adogu King Ceezea, etc.
Nieces viz: Hon. Lady Immaculata Love Amaseimogha JP, KSJI; Mrs Ilomobebi Mark. Mrs Cordelia Okaniba Pedrick, Mrs Grace Ama Izaka Nuno, Mrs. Margaret Orupura Isaiah, Mrs Timi Segibo Target, Mrs Rachael Orupura, Mrs Isete Izaka- Numo, Mrs Igula Izaka- Numo, Mrs Christina Mondebo, Mrs Mebere Mondebo, Mrs Mondebo Benita Igbogawa , Mrs Gladness Mondebo etc
Today, on behalf of the King and members of Opume Council of Chiefs we remember Mrs Tonye Mark-Frank , a remarkable individual (woman) who has graced our lives for an incredible 102 years. Your journey through life has been an inspiration to us all, a living testament to the values of wisdom, strength, and resilience. Throughout the decades, you have been a pillar of our community, a source of guidance, and a repository of wisdom. Your stories and experiences have enriched our lives and connected us to the past in ways that only you could. You've seen our community grow and change, and your unwavering presence has been a constant reminder of our shared heritage. Your 102 years have not only been a testament to longevity but also to the enduring bonds of family and community. You have been a beloved mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, nurturing generations with your love and care. Your legacy lives on through the values you instilled in your family. Your resilience in the face of life's challenges has been nothing short of extraordinary. You've weathered storms and celebrated triumphs, and through it all, you've shown us the importance of tenacity and grace.As the elders of our community, we offer our deepest gratitude for your presence among us. You are a living treasure, a source of inspiration, and a symbol of the strength that binds our community together. May your wisdom continue to guide us, and may your legacy endure for generations to come. Mama Adieu
~ Chief (Sir) Donald Ayenkitamuon Ase – Igwe
Chairman, Council of Chiefs, On behalf of the Obanema
Tribute to a veteran mother: Late Mrs MarK Ayibatonye will always be remembered and felt by all those that knew her and generations to come.
We knew you have gone to eternity, but the memories of your exceptional parental creativity and innovations will ever remain preserved in our minds.
Though, death had taken you away from us, your legacy will remain conserved for future use, just like silage is preserved for livestock consumption in scarcity of green pasture.
May your soul rest in the Bosom of the Lord.
~ Comrade Justice Okoloba
Chairman, Community Development Committee (CDC) Opume
Mrs Ayibatonye Mac-Frank, a.k.a Mama Tonye lived a very peaceful life worthy of emulation. Indeed, it can be better described as a life well spent. A woman endowed with peace, humility and wisdom. A generous woman with a large heart. She accommodated everybody in the family. Very soft spoken with gentle touch, she cared and reared Children, grand children, great grandchildren and great great grandchildren. Like the biblical instruction, she increased, multiplied and filled the earth. At her ripe old age, mama Tonye had very sharp memories. Each visit I made to her was filled with blessings. Because she cared so much for her children and others, the Lord compensated her with long healthy life. She was not bed ridden, neither was she senile. Her sight was perfect, her speech was audible and coherent. She told me tales of old and reminded me always of our relationship. A very neat and clean mother that I cherished. Her humility endeared her all embracing title of "THE MOST PEACEFUL WOMAN IN OPUME". On the 19th February 2023, when I stopped over to see her, in her usual characteristics, she prayed for me to be blessed with long life as well. That was the last I got from my sweet Aunt. Adieu Great Mama! Rest in perfect peace.
For Mama Tonye's children/and grand children that took great care of her. I pray your children will also bless you same way at your old age. I appreciate you all for a job well done.
~ Hon. Lady Immaculata Love Amaseimogha JP, KSJI- Niece
All is well with her SOUL, REST IN PERFECT PEACE TONYE MARK OBEBA.
Your LOVE flame will hardly be smothered.
My sincere heart condolence to the ENTIRE Macfrank family and OPUME Kingdom, for the return value of her inextinguishable love and participatory stance in the burial commitment.
~ Amb (Chief, Hon) Obi Maclean Wilson -Nephew
Tonye, you have moved beyond us and enter into a new Communion. You were a loving and caring mother. You showed me, my children and my late mother a platonic love. You never abandon my mother even in sickness and stood by her until her last breathe. Mama- Eteta as we popularly called you. Indeed you loved your family very much, especially your close relatives. You usually answer each time we call your name. But now, your name will be called and without any answer or a response. Oh Mama! You lived a life worthy of emulation and a very fulfilled life. "There is good and multitude of rubies but the lips of knowledge are precious jewels" (Proverbs 20:15). I have been thinking about your words and advise to me. Be rest assured that they will forever remain in my consciousness. Those good life style of yours will never be forgotten. I will miss you dearly MAMA-ETETA. I will carry on perfectly well, though my tears will never cease. Your memory will linger in my heart forever. You have left a good legacy that will last for ages. Above all, you are a lively child of God. As you have returned to your father in heaven. Ayibatonye, I cherish you but Jesus cherish you most. May your soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.
~ Chief Jacob Akpana Adomba- Nephew
Death is an unfortunate reality a lot of people do not like to confront. It is why we are left battered, beaten and broken when it strikes. However, the Bible in Genesis 15:15 says you will go back to your ancestors in peace and be buried at a good old age. Also in the book of Revelation 14: 13 says "Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on, they Rest from their labour for their deeds will follow them. My mother played a major part in my childhood and upbringing. She was a special woman to mankind. You may have passed on but your memories will always live on with us. Thank you for your care, sacrifices and your concern, love and everything that you have done for me.
You were an example of woman described in Proverbs 10: 31. Your children and all those lives you touched will remain proud of you. My dear mother, you held yourself with dignity in all your days. Your unconditional love, care and honour will be missed and remembered. Your good memories will always be in our hearts. My mother, I will forever be grateful and thankful to you for being such a wonderful mother to me. May your gentle soul rest in the Bosom of the Almighty God in Jesus name. Amen.
~ Chief Richard Iniketo Mac-Frank-Abharashiba(Son)
It always seems like we have all the time in the world, only to realize how fleeting it really is. I wish we had more time to do and say the things we saved for later, which, along with you, is gone forever. I promise to keep you alive in my memories. You were more than just a parent; you are my mother! Rest in peace, Mama! Bye bye to eternity.
~ Mrs Onyaniyar Egbo Mac-Frank-Daughter
Mama, you left us on Friday 12th May 2023 to meet your Creator. I cannot query God because you have fulfilled your purpose on earth. You have also spent a remarkable 102 years before your transition. Your love to me and my children was marvellous. Your generosity to me, my children and others is beyond human measure. Mama-Eteta, you love your children, relatives and others without any form of discrimination. Who will tell me those tales that are full of moral lessons again?. Of course, none from a mother. You have demonstrated to the world that you were indeed a practicing christian. You hate quarrel, fighting, immoral behavior, killing, stealing, and other vices contrary to the will of God. Your legacy will remain even as you sojourn to be with your Creator. May your soul rest perfectly in the Bosom of the Lord. Adieu Mama-Eteta.
~ Mrs Purene Ikusa Mac-Frank (Ekon Women Leader)-Daughter
The shocking News of your death Mama on Friday 12th May 2023 came to me and my family with mix feelings. On one thought, we were comforted with the ultimate will of God Almighty to call you back home at a ripe age of 102 years, a time when no well meaning individual can interrogate. Your good works, footprints, and legacy on earth are visible, indelible, and immortal. On the other note, the most challenging and confronting one for me and my immediate family was your sudden stoppage of your philanthropic gestures, love, wise counsels, moral impacting stories, prayers, and fasting occasioned by your physical absence. My mother, Tonye Mark Obeba (Nee: Abhila Abharashiba) who was popularly and respectfully called Mama- Eteta was a devout Christian. She served God wholeheartedly. Madam Tonye fasted and prayed continually for her family and others. She worships and praise the Lord always. Without doubt she was one of the most outstanding philanthropist and humanists. Tonye believed that what we have done for ourselves alone dies with us. But what we have done to others remains and is immortal. For Mama, giving out to others, sharing and placing the needs of others above self were the raison- d' etre for her earthly sojourn. She derived pleasure and contentment in bringing succor and comfort to the poor and apparent rejected of society. Tonye Mark Obeba was a shining light in her family, church and to humanity. She was a source of blessings and a pillar of strength to many people. She lived a legendary and examplary life, an epitome of love, peace and truth. She was a virtuous woman who built her home and family on the moral path of righteousness. She was very submissive to her husband. She was an understanding woman, a feature which help her to establish her home. She lived a happy and peaceful life with her husband and children. Madam Tonye Mark Obeba lost her parent and sibling at a tender age. Though from a Royal blood, but was able to successfully navigates the daunting challenges that typically confronted an African orphan through obedience, honestly, dexterity and hardwork. Her life of service to God and humanity, industry, humility, peaceful disposition, moral integrity and generosity are attributes she apparently gleaned from her maternal grandmother, late Princess Adeyal or Aduebal Iworiso's outstanding and indefatigable tutelage. Mama, you are a matriarch, Mama Eteta you have written your name in gold. Your legacy will continue to lives on. Your absence created a huge vacuum in human race, too difficult to fill. May your soul find Eternal rest in God's Bosom Amen. Adieu Mama-Eteta
~ Chief Kobokam Emmanuel Mac-Frank-Deputy Mark (Son)
Mrs Ayibatonye Mark Obeba, my mother, lived a happy and fulfilled life. You are one virtuous woman very difficult to find in our present generation. You lived a peaceful life with your family members and any other person you comes across in this world. Words cannot describe how valuable you are to me and others. My nature in terms of character disposition cannot be fully written or discussed without the moral impact of my dear mother. My mother disgusts immoral talks and acts; and never wanted any of her immediate family members to engage in them. Tonye was a christian and God fearing woman. She was a kind and caring woman. Her length of generosity was immeasurable. She continually gives out money, drinks, food items, wrappers e.t.c freely to the needy in the community and elsewhere till death took her away from us. A tale she frequently told called "Ekudogia(Short Knife)" which contains multiple of moral lessons is still fresh in my mind. It touches all aspects of moral behaviours of human. The tale symbolically X-rays how a frequently cheerful giver or a generous person will always live in abundance and merriment. While the stingy individual will never be comfortable and unhappy with rewards received. Her expression of love to us as family was very strong and unconditional. Whenever one person is sick, she will never rest but support financially, physically, prayerfully e.t.c until that individual is heal. Even in the mix of abundance food, she will never eat until all her children have eaten and satisfied. Dear Mother, your demise have created a big vacuum too difficult to fill. You have actually exited the world stage at a time when you have actually accomplished your purpose on earth at age 102 years. May your soul rest in God's Bosom. Adieu Mama-Eteta
~ Chief Azibanator Mac-Frank-Obeba (Son).
Grief is like the ocean; it comes in wave ebbing and flowing. Sometimes the water is calm Sometimes it's overwhelming. All we can do is learn how to swim. My mother late Mrs Ayibatonye Mark Obeba (nee: Abila Abharasiba) popularly known as mama-eteta was an inspiring soul. She was always there for all who came to her with their diverse issues. Her home was open to everyone and her hospitality was second to none, it made them feel important. She was the most loving, humble, compassionate, understanding, family oriented woman and one of the beautiful souls one could ever meet. Mama, to the world you were one person, but to me, you were the world. You didn't have much, but we always felt like everything is at our disposal. Though, you didn't leave millions in your bank account, but you left a legacy with so much more. You were precious, a gift from God to us and to salvage humanity, so much beauty, grace and patience you possessed. You touched my life in so many ways. Even on dark days, your strength and smile made me realise I had an angel beside me. I don't know how I will do life without you but I will find solace in the lord. I am going to miss you so much mum.
~Anthony Mineteta Mac-Frank-Son
When we heard about the news of mama's death, we were shocked, confused and could not even believe it initially. Mama was such a wonderful woman. We have never seen or heard about grandma abusing or quarreling with her husband or any other person. Mama was a kind, caring and hard-working woman. She loves giving out freely even with her very last money, wrapper, drink, and food to us or any other person. We have never come across such an individual before in our lives. Talk of moral lmpact that comes with tales, mama was there. She was always there for us physically, financially, and of course materially. She will always advise us not to fight, quarrel, but to read our books always and be of good behaviour. One amazing thing she does even at a very old age was that mama prays and sing songs continually to glorify God. Mama was a peace loving christian. Mama, we miss you. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace in the Bosom of the Lord. Mama-Eteta, we love you but God loves you more. Adieu Mama
~ Ruth, Princewil, Azibalua, Joy, Destiny Mac-Frank-Grandsons & Granddaughters.
A tribute to my one and only grandma (Mama-Eteta): I'm having a bleeding heart each time I remember that you are no more. It's difficult to believe that Mama-Eteta is no longer exiting on earth. Mama-Eteta, you are generous, capable, loving, caring, truthful, honest, peace etc. You have impacted good legacies on me, which I adhered to it, and improved my life positively. Mama-Eteta, I missed you so much but God knows it best. Gialuzaro.
~Mrs Obebatein Ikusa- Granddaughter
My Treasured Grand Mother, Late. Mrs Ayibatonye Mark Obeba, I am missing you.
It was hard to take it when I saw you lying down on your bed speechless. At that moment I knew that all the moral lessons I do grab from the stories you tell had come to an end. No one can take your place in my heart Mama. Who is going to let me take the first glass of wine from every bottle they ask me to open? Who can be more generous to me with all they have? There was a time I overheard you praying to God “Jehovah add more years to my life just as you did to Hezekiah after seeing reasons with him as he prayed to you”. It surprised me because I knew that you never had any educational experience, but still you could quote and explained the Bible scriptures vividly on how God added fifteen years to Hezekiah’s life. ISAIAH 38:1-5. I pray and wish to possess all the good characters of yours; your outstanding generosity which is beyond measure, kindness and humility which is hard to find. You spending 102 years on earth is very obvious for your kind of person. May the Lord prepare a perfect place for you as you return to the Maker. I am missing you and at the same time wishing you the best because I know that an end here on earth is the beginning to internal life and all that God had promised his children. Thank you for the sacrifices you’ve made, thank you for influencing us positively with your God-fearing characters and thank you for being my Grand Mother because I believe that all these good characters of yours are embedded in our gene too. I will forever be glad that you are my Grand Mother.Rest in peace Mama-Eteta.
~ Comrade Reward Peter Ikusa-Grandson
You are one person who has ruled and affected every soul around and outside our home. You were the life of our family and reason for many laughter sessions we had, but today we are left with pains in our hearts and tears in our eyes, missing you from deepest of our hearts. Rest in peace, Mama. Adieu Grandma.
~ Mr Victory Albert Egbo-Grandson
It is with a heavy heart that I offer this tribute to my late grandmother. A woman of boundless kindness, wisdom, and strength. She touched the lives of everyone she met. Her legacy of love and compassion will be cherished by those who knew her. May her memory bring comfort to all who grieve her loss. May her soul rest in peace, and may we all strive to live with the same kindness and generosity that she embodied. Though, she is gone, but her spirit will live on in the hearts of those who loved her.
~Mrs Blessing Egbo Okaniba-Granddaughter
In loving memory, our hearts still ache in sadness and secret tears still flows. Mama Eteta, your love for us becomes a memory treasure. There are no goodbyes for us. Wherever you are, you will always be in our hearts. We missed you mama. Rest in God's loving Care.
~ Mr Agama Claudius Ikusa- Grandson
Death is inevitable but the loss of a loved grandma is unfathomably painful even at a very old age. I still desire to see my loving grandma amongst the living grandma like no other one. What a great loss? You were a caring ,loving and perfect grandma. You gave all your children everything and made too many sacrifices that we can never forget. My heart is full of pains and despair at your loss. Grandma, you invested in the life of every one around you just to make sure they all live better life. Grandma, i feel like part of my heart has been reaped off by your death. Grandma, i feel and empty void difficult to fill up. Grandma, i will continue to miss you. Sleep on, the death only took you away but never conquered you. Rest in Peace Mama _Eteta .
~ Chief Peace Ikusa-Deputy Ikusa(Grandson)
It was indeed a shock to me when I heard that we lost lost you mama, because I remembered how you use to take good care of me and my siblings, especially how you use to advise me, Grandma you are the best and I will always love you.
Rest in Peace
~Hon. Sandra Adijatu Ganiyu Obeba-Grand daughter
Ho! mama, it is well established that your departure can never be replaced. But no one can question the Almighty God for calling you back home. I miss you so much Mama. I will not forget the special day you tied wrapper on my waist with words of blessings and prayers you offered to me. You are a loving mother. You lived a live worthy of emulation. You are a well known generous woman in the society. I promise to keep them in memory of you even as you left us to be with your maker. May your gentle soul find favour in the Bosom of the Lord.
Rest in peace Mameteta.
~ Saviour Peter Ikusa-Grandson
To my Grandmother, Ayibatonye Mac-Frank. Indeed, what a great loss to humanity. Mama, you play a big role in my life and the life of common man. Even at death, do you part from us. Your care for yours Children's and selfless services to humanity is a life to emulate and is second to none. You passed on but yet, your memories will always live on within us. Mama I promise that I will keep on your advise and the stories of life with God and humanity that will make us gain favour that. We should love one another. We should respect elder. We should forgive our trespasses. We should be truthful and not to lie, finally we should seek the face of God on our life and we should love given and that is her own personal life. Your good memories will always be in our hearts. May your gentle soul rest in the Bosom of the Almighty God. Amen
~ Engr. Julius Oyibo Esau
My grandmother Late Mrs Ayebatonye Mac-Frank (Nee Abila) was a very cheerful giver and a special woman who was specially made by God. I remembered that when I was little she fondly used her name (Tonye) to call myself anytime I visited her. And she would make sure I go back with some gifts. Her death was a very big shock to me. Going to the village has been amazing because of her but now that she is gone anytime I go to the village I feel empty inside of me but l know that she will ever live on in my heart. Goodbye my lovely and sweet grand mother and may your gentle soul rest in the perfect peace of the Bosom of the Lord. Mama Gialuzu aro
~ Blessed Ebinabo Mac-Frank-Grand daughter
Tribute to my grandma: Grandma lived a life of service and generosity. She touched the lives of so many people with her kindness and compassion. Grandma was a caring and thoughtful woman who always put others first. She was always there for her family, friends, and community, and her love and support were a constant source of strength and comfort. She was a hard worker, whether she was on the farm or at home, and her dedication was an inspiration to all who knew her. She will be remembered as a person who always put others first and who made the world a better place with her selfless actions. Grandma will be deeply missed, but her spirit will live on in the hearts of all who knew her. We will cherish the memories we shared with her and hold onto the lessons she taught us. May grandma’s soul rest on the lovely embrace of the Lord.
~ Mrs Timipa Target Segibo-Granddaughter
In loving memory: honouring the life of my beloved grandmother in-law. Today, as we gather here to bid a heartfelt farewell to a remarkable woman, we celebrate the life and legacy of Mrs Tonye Mac-Frank Obeba. Words cannot capture the depth of our love, admiration, and gratitude for the beautiful soul we were privileged to call our mother. My grandmother in-law Mrs Tonye Mac-Frank Obeba was a beacon of light in our lives, radiating warmth, compassion, and unwavering love. Her presence had a profound impact on all who knew her, and her absence will be deeply felt. She was the epitome of grace, strength, and resilience, a true guiding force that left an indelible mark on our hearts. She possessed a spirit that was both gentle and fierce, a rare combination that inspired us to aspire to greatness. Her unwavering faith and unwavering optimism were infectious, providing solace and comfort during even the darkest of times. My grandmother in-law was a source of wisdom, always ready to listen, offer guidance, and share her life experiences, which served as valuable life lessons for us all. Her nurturing nature knew no bounds. She had an extraordinary ability to make each of us feel cherished and loved. Whether it was through her warm hugs, her wise words, or her delicious home-cooked meals, she had a way of showering us with affection that made us feel safe and secure. Her love created a haven where we could find solace, encouragement, and unwavering support. Mrs Tonye Mac-Frank Obeba was a custodian of traditions, passing down the rich tapestry of our family's history. Her stories were like windows into the past, connecting us to our roots and instilling in us a deep sense of belonging. She taught us the importance of family, unity, and the bonds that withstand the test of time. Her legacy will live on in the generations to come, as we carry forward the values she held dear. Today, as we mourn her loss, let us also celebrate the beautiful life she lived. Let us honor her memory by embracing the qualities she embodied—kindness, compassion, and resilience. Let us find solace in the knowledge that her spirit will forever remain with us, guiding us through life's challenges and inspiring us to be the best versions of ourselves. Though our hearts ache, we find solace in the profound impact Mrs Tonye Mac-Frank had on our lives. Her love and light will continue to shine brightly within us, a beacon to guide us through the darkest of nights. We are forever grateful for the privilege of having shared our lives with such an extraordinary woman. As we say our final goodbyes today, let us remember that Mrs Tonye Mac-Frank Obeba love transcends physical boundaries. Her legacy lives on in each and every one of us, reminding us to cherish the moments we have, to love unconditionally, and to live with a full and compassionate heart.Rest in eternal peace, dear Mrs Tonye mac-frank Obeba. You will forever remain in our hearts, and your memory will forever be a blessing. Thank you for enriching our lives and for being the loving mother we were blessed to have.
~ Mr Okaniba Azibaobolotasi - Grandson in-law
Gone but never forgotten: Tribute to a virtuous woman and quintessential mother. The news that Late Mama Ayebatonye Mark Frank has gone to be with the Lord came to me as a rude shock as I never wished for my dear Aunt to leave the earth this soon. Words are insufficient to express the grief in my heavy heart or to describe the kind of person you were to me, my dearly aunty and friend.
Mama Tonye, as I fondly called you; a successful farmer, you were such a supportive and inspiring person, I clearly remember the comfort you brought and the peace that you resonate whenever I was around you. You were a go-getter who was determined to achieve your dreams, as evidenced in your numerous achievements particularly in your quest to unite the family and community. The honour of our bond and in reverence of the memories of all that we shared together in this life has made me to pen down my sincere thoughts.
Late Mama Ayebatonye Mark Frank and my late father Chief Cornelius Freeborn Mondebo (Esan) were first cousins, but they lived and grew up together as though they were twins. Her love for me was exceptional, she called my first son Ateti, the pet name of late Chief Alpheus Mondebo her maternal uncle because she saw the little boy as a replica of her late uncle who she loved dearly.
Her husband late Chief Mark Frank Obeba was a reputable personality in Opume but he gave his wife unhindered leverage, hence there was no incident or issue in Asi's (maternal) family that Mama Tonye did not create time to play a key role.
You were a caring mother, a loving wife and wonderful aunt. You have left an indelible mark in the lives of your children, extended family members and friends; you were generous soul who literally touched and transformed a number of lives. Mama lived a fulfilled life here on earth, the legacies you left behind would never be eroded as generations to come will also build on these legacies.
Her life was very impactful, loving and kind. The elements were so mixed in her that nature might stand up and say to all the world that this was a mother indeed.
No doubt, I morn you, but with gratitude to God for your worthy life of dedication and undaunted commitment to the service of humanity and pray that the good Lord should comfort your children and the entire family with strength to bear this irreparable loss with hope that they will be further inspired knowing that our hearts goes out to all of them at this moment of mourning.
May your gentle soul continue to rest in the Bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Adieu Mama Tonye! Adieu
~Isekpar Temple Mondebo-Nephew
You may have passed on, but your memories would always live on within us. Thank you for your sacrifices, your care, concern, your love and every advice you gave to me each time I visited you. I believe you're in a much better place than when you were on earth with us. I'll be for ever grateful and thankful to you. GELZARO MAMA.
~Chief Minabai Aziboledia Michael -Alali(Nephew)
Rest in peace, Ma, you will remain to be one of our dearest forever. It always seems like we have all the time in the world, only to realize how fleeting it really is. I wish we had more time to do and say the things we saved for later, which, along with you, is gone forever. I promise to keep you alive in my memories.Giozaro Amama
~ Engr. Olali Solomon Adumo-Nephew
The Vicar, the PCC, and the entire congregation of St. Peter's Anglican Church Opume, condole with the families of Mac-Frank, for the death of your mother, grandmother, great grandmother, who had left you by death. Though Mama died on a very ripe age, the fact remains that she is no longer with you and forever has gone to be with the Lord. We pray that the family, especially the children will follow the legacy she has left behind while on this earthly enclave, especially living a ripe age of about 102 years.
May God comfort you, and the Opume community on this irreparable lost, and may God Almighty accept her soul in His Eternal Bosom Amen.
Adieu Mama
~ Rev. Can. Temple T. Vicar
Watch Videos in honour of Mama
1.Video highlight from Late Mrs..
Ayibatonye Mark Obeba.
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2. FuneralService for....
Late Mrs Ayibatonye Macfrank Obeba Abharasiba.
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3. WakeKeep! In honor of....
Late Mrs Ayibatonye Macfrank Obeba Abharasiba.Music Bank: JuniorBarrister
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4. Video (1) Coverage of Mrs Late Ayibatonye Mark Obeba funeral by Junior Barrister at Opume
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5. Video (3) Coverage of Late Mrs Ayibatonye Mark Obeba by Junior Barrister
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6. Video (4) Coverage of Late Mrs Ayibatonye Mark Obeba by Junior Barrister
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7. Video Highlight Omuguaru in honor of...
Late Mrs. Ayibatonye Macfrank Obeba.Saturday, 4th November 2023
https://fb.watch/o97aarGJOf/?mibextid=RUbZ1f
