18/05/2024
When you marry a man and bring all your siblings to live in his house, you are stressing your marriage, and it may not survive that stress test. Your siblings are human beings. They will see things, and they will react. If you and your husband quarrel, they may take sides. If his family visit, they may get an attitude. They will have needs, and they will make demands. Demands that your husband may or may not meet.
And if he does not meet their demands, they may begin to whisper that he is irresponsible, especially if they are from Industrial Money Obtainers. And you, as their sibling, cannot be objective. Eventually, there may be issues, and the marriage may break down. And if it does break down, your siblings will move on. If they marry, they will learn from what they did to you, and will never allow you and your children to invade their marital homes to do to them what they did to you.
Meanwhile, your husband can remarry and move on. Sadly, it is easier for men. But you may not be able to move on so easily. Therefore, factor this in before you turn your husband's house into an in-law's dormitory. Even if you are a firstborn daughter, put your husband first, or another younger, prettier and wiser woman will do it for you!
In many cases, the day in-laws move into your marital home or the day love moves out of the matrimonial residence.
Am I lying?