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To become (even more) Frickin' Awesome
AIM for Happiness and you don't have to work it out on your own & You don't have to do it alone!
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09/09/2024

Sitting here at Bali airport ready to leave this beautiful place 🏝️

When Jane Leonard - Peak Performance Coach shares her P.I.E.C.E. by Piece Peak Performance Program & uses the similarities of the game of chess ♟️ with life - it’s amazing to see how right she is 🙏🏻
We surrender parts to protect some pieces.
We play the long game with strategies & the Queen 🫅 along with the other pieces protects the king 👑

However, life doesn’t always follow the game ♟️

For example when the King is dead the game of chess is over 😱but in real life, whilst that is a choice - give up … retire / wait to die ⚱️

There are so many other option - restart the game, learn a new game, go back to a previously loved game ??

There are so many choice- I’ve learned that here Bali

17 days 📅

9 hotels 🏨

5 Boats 🛶

Island hopping 🏝️

23 massage treatments 💆🏼‍♀️

2 tattoos 🎇

Hours of in depth conversations with the amazing Naheed Zaman

1,000 of incredible people

And the business is still working without me .. Thank you to Jane Leonard - Peak Performance Coach, Nilam Dattani - Variki Virtual Support For Your Business & Melissa Robson

This Queen 🫅 isn’t giving up … a change of approach maybe on the cards 🎴

I’m looking for women who are looking for solutions … for women who want to be in control of their game of life, action takers 🎯 , who are successful and want to experience life to the full ❤️

Details to follow 🔜

About to board the plane ✈️… business class of course - why ? … because we’re worth it 💥💃🏻 and so are you ❤️🙏🏻

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03/09/2024

Mr C said he would meet me in Bali…

I’m lying face down as the liquid gathers on the paper towel, the music in the background is a mixture of violin 🎻 & piano 🎹 versions of love songs … the masseur takes the hair bobble from my hand with such care that I start to feel the tears built up even more, the snot (gross 🤮 I know ! ) that was on the paper towel is still there … I can see it through the tears ..

The feeling of sadness is immense .. he won’t get to experience this after all 🥲

Then I see it a bright white orb of light and I know he’s here & I know he’s saying it’s ok .. now you may know what I mean and understand this knowing or maybe you’re thinking 🤔 what a load of s**te 💩 and it’s ok either way 🙏🏻

My experience is interrupted by being asked to turn round , I can feel the masseur is concerned as my tears are mixing with the oil 🧴💆🏼‍♀️ she completes the massage and the tears still flow - Naheed my travelling buddy, explains the loss of Mr C and both masseurs hug me & tell me to be strong 💪🏽 suddenly one starts to panic as the hairs stand up on her arms - she rubs them quickly and then goes to the sink & throws cold water on her arms & face … “you’re husband is here … you need to let him go”

Mr C came to Bali like he said he would 🙏🏻❤️ maybe in spirit or maybe in my imagination.. either way he was with me 🙏🏻

Always remember, you are never on your own - whether it is close friends, relatives, community, strangers, spirit or memories …
You’re never in you’re own, unless you want to be ..

(inspired by a confidently come speaker 🎙️💃🏻)

29/08/2024

Learnings from Bali 🏝️🧘💆🏽‍♀️

This would have been an update to Mr C if he was still alive, I hope you don’t mind me sharing with you 🙏🏻

Today was another “new” experience to embrace
We jumped on a small boat that looked like a spider (well only 4 legs.. I’m sure you get the picture!) the water was cold & the waves 🌊 crashed against the spider 🕷️ & my face - o felt alive 😳

We reached the place & I was handed some big feet and a matching mask 🤿
“Come on Cheryl, let’s go” that’s Naheed Zaman .. she’s an action taker 👏🏼

So there I am in beautiful water and suddenly she’s don’t know how to breathe 😳, i can’t breathe through my nose 👃 & I appear to have lost the consciousness to breathe through my mouth 👄…. A little panic starts to build - those who work with me know I call this “the s**t showing up!”
It’s like being able to speak one to one and yet maybe when you stand on stage … the palms go sweaty, the mouth goes dry & you want to run 🏃🏽‍♀️ aka FEAR 😰… that was the feeling right there in the water …
So what do you do panic & give up ?
No … I’m here for a short time

“Naheed, I don’t know how breathe - I’ve never done snorkeling before 😂”

“Oh, Cheryl I didn’t know this was your first time ..”

So with guidance & support I was able to remind myself how to breathe with my mouth 👄!
And the sight was amazing 🐟🐠🪸🐡🤿

Ouch ! And then I’m reminded sometimes life shows you pain. I’m fighting with the coral 🪸 and it makes my leg bleed 🩸… s**t are there sharks 🦈 in this water ?? .. keep breathing 🧘 and swim slowly to the boat 🛶
1) no sharks
2) I’m safe
3) go again

Let me ask you a question are you ready to make the most of your life?

There is a whole world 🌎 out there waiting to be experienced & explored … time to dive in 🙏🏻

Love from Bali 🌺🌸

29/07/2024

Life is for living 💃🏻

How many times do you find yourself or others focusing on the lack in life wishing things could be different and better …

This Saturday I’m celebrating my husband Graeme Chapman’s life 🎸🌹reminiscing on old memories & making new memories without him 🥲

Going through the last 30 years of photos has created many emotions … none of them sad ❤️

Because as the saying goes you will regret the things you never did, rather than the things you did do 🙏🏻

Remember to take pictures of those you love, doing what you love & what makes you smile 😊

22/07/2024

Have you ever said “I don’t have time for …”?

Here we are 1 week after the shocking news that Mr C had passed away in Hong Kong and I can honestly say it’s been one of the busiest & most emotional weeks of my life …

Heading out to Hong Kong 🇭🇰 took 24 hours alone!

Emptying his apartment - 12 hours (my husband really did have a lot of stuff ! ) 😳

* Meeting with Ringo the funeral director ⚰️

* Identifying Mr C - still smiling even in death 😊

* Meeting Chippy’s team & work colleagues - and a heartfelt tribute they gave in Chippy’s memory ❤️
* Many discussions with Batson Cheung HR Director about what to do in a foreign country 🇭🇰

* Police meetings 👮‍♀️

* Reading so many touching messages from friends & family ❤️

* Talking, reminiscing, trying to make sense of it all .. crying, laughing and sometimes a mixture of both 🎢
* Making plans for a celebration of Mr C’s life (details to follow) 📆

Suddenly, there was time for all of this … ⏰

The realization that when we want to/ need to we can achieve so much in a short time

And yet in the short time we have … it can be so easy to waste it 😑

Thank you to each & everyone of you who gave time to me & Chippy this week🙏🏻

A special thank you to Jane Leonard who gave me her all her time, support & love from the minute we heard the news 🙏🏻 Chippy asked you to look after me & you certainly have ❤️

15/05/2024

So looking forward to reconnecting with the awesome soul - I remember hearing her story and understanding why she does what she does - one outfit 👗 changing the trajectory of her life ❤️

If you want to hear a woman speak from the depth of her soul & the bowels of passion … she’s the one ☝🏼

09/05/2024

So many women tell me .. I’m too old to reach for my dream 💭 SAY WHAT???

At 48 I ventured into the world 🌎 of personal development (or as I call it Personal progression) it’s been a roller coaster 🎢 of highs & sometimes lows … appreciating that only YOU can decide if you want to change 😱

I stopped ✋ drinking & started to see the opportunities that were available

I fell in love with public speaking - sharing with others so they could avoid the pain of a “mid-life crisis” and turning it into a mid life opportunity” 💃🏻🙌🏽

Mentoring thousands of clients 1:1 brought great satisfaction and purpose - helping them to build businesses, share their success and to leave legacy’s for our future generation 🎲

I’m sure you have moments of clarity, that your on the right path, right ? 🙋🏼‍♀️

So why don’t we shout about it? With age comes wisdom

I’m going to share some of my clients triumphs and my successes .. I hope you will be inspired to share yours too .. because right now is not the time to slow down to reach death safely, now’s the time to live ❤️

01/05/2024

Would you agree getting out into nature is a great way to calm the mind?
Looking around to be grateful for what is growing without any manuals or expectation 🙌🏽

And it’s a great way to create content - water that flows in & out is like our emotions 🖤❤️ and stagnant water is like our mind when it feel stuck - it becomes held in a state of dirt & not in flow … the best way to release it? Add new water 💦 create a way for new ideas 💡 to come in or remove the smelly mess plant a flower 🌺 or a new tree 🌳 with branches for growth 🙌🏽🙏🏻

24/04/2024

You want to know how we got these smiles ~ joker 🃏 😁

A detox special from …

3 apples 🍎
1 carrot 🥕
1 slice of lemon 🍋
1 cucumber 🥒
1 broccoli 🥦

Staying fresh 💃🏻

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20/04/2024

What an amazing alternative to ice cream 🍨 frozen fruit 🍌 with some toppings - yummy 😋

Thank you 💃🏻❤️

19/04/2024

Happy Birthday to this beauty … Glenice Brooks, my mum ❤️
Thank you for everything you do & be 💃🏻
Enjoy your day & see you on Sunday 🎂🎉🥳😘🎈

10/04/2024

29 years & here we are still alive !!
We have an unusual marriage that’s true because most of the time we are apart - doing what we both love ❤️

For us absence makes the heart grow stronger .. for other it would mean the heart loses weight 💔

The truth is of course not to rely on anyone else to make you happy or to make you feel loved … that’s your job 🙋🏼‍♀️

Happy Anniversary Mr C - thank you for being my rock 🪨 my teacher and my life long friend 🙏🏻❤️

14/03/2024

To celebrate International Speaker Day I thought I’d share a recent speaking achievement .. speaking to a fantastic group of women to mark International Women’s Day with & southyorkshirefire&rescue 🙌🏽

Having travelled the world 🌍 speaking in Australia 🇦🇺, Singapore 🇸🇬, Malaysia 🇲🇾, South Africa 🇿🇦, Canada 🇨🇦, USA 🇺🇸, Poland 🇵🇱, Germany 🇩🇪, France 🇫🇷, Belgium 🇧🇪, Czech Republic 🇨🇿, Romania 🇷🇴 to name a few …

Speaking in South Yorkshire feels good because this is where it all started 🎬

And no interpretation was needed 😂

10/03/2024

Congratulations to who was awarded the title of Whys Woman of the year.
Alison is an incredible woman who is always ready to support & help those other women in the community and she collaborates & celebrates openly, confidently & with heart ❤️
Thank you Alison- we love you 🥰

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04/03/2024

Sometimes a picture says it all - remembering woman’s best friend
Who’s your furry friend? Feel free to share a picture ❤️

24/02/2024

Sharing my extensive knowledge with these exceptional women.

Teaching the art of storytelling and honing speaking skills is my utmost passion.

Hearing their past and crafting those moments into
compelling speeches.
Hoping to hear these women on stage one day mic 🎙️

14/02/2024

For some our marriage seems weird… we live apart for most of the year and maybe absence makes the heart grow fonder? ❤️ Well we’re 30 years together so maybe it does!

For us it’s perfect - I know he has my back, he challenges me, and I deffo do the same in-return 😳😂

Personally, it’s about the one who allows me to be me .. I generally love my own space and I don’t believe in finding the one to “complete” you … it’s more about finding the complete you & then finding someone who will appreciate you ❤️ and vice versa 🙌🏽

And then the edge … well for me flowers 🌺& tea ☕️ for you it might be something else that shows they care or that you’re in their thoughts.. not just today but everyday ❤️

04/02/2024

Working on presence 👀
Listening is of utmost importance in today's fast-paced business world 👂

Grabbing a brew and having the chats. Literally the ability to truly listen and comprehend what others are saying is a valuable skill.

31/01/2024

Happy Birthday to the legend that is Mr C ❤️
63 years young!
Celebrating in Hong Kong 🇭🇰 having a great time learning about the culture & experiencing all that life brings 😜🥳
Love ya ❤️

26/01/2024

Just a friendly reminder to not sweat the small stuff in life, because in the grand scheme of things, nobody makes it out alive, you know? 😄

I'm currently on a mission to connect with 10 million individuals and empower them to embrace their true selves. Hopefully, our paths will intersect along the way! 🫵🏽😄

21/01/2024

Last night's celebration of my dad's birthday was as you can imagine a wild one 🤩🥳🎁

I'm overwhelmed with gratitude to have both my parents by my side, witnessing their beautiful journey of growing old together ❤️

17/01/2024

Creating a Customized Workspace.
3 table stack strategically aligned to achieve the optimal chair height and zoom-ready setup 🤓

It’s a little bit like Nurturing Success: Building a Business, for example, One Layer at a Time.

✔️ Free Event
✔️ Book
✔️ Audibles
✔️ Business Frameworks
✔️ On Stage Speaking Events

05/01/2024

The Power of Engaging with Public Speaking 🎤

When hands rise and smiles light up the room, magic happens. 🙌✨

Public speaking creates an incredible connection between speakers and audiences.
It’s a platform to inspire, engage and transform.

Stage presence and stage power moments stay with you forever. 🗣️💡

04/01/2024

Excited to be speaking at this 2 day summit along side one of our amazing clients WWendy Price
If you'd like to join us please click the link below to find out more ⤵️⤵️

https://austeritytoprosperity.fyi/speaker8

01/01/2024

Yearly intention this year is to continue to live on purpose - to be happy 😃

Live ⭐️ Love ❤️ & Laugh 😂 everyday and not take life too seriously 💃🏻 NO ONE IS GETTING OUT ALIVE !!

I want to continue to guide 10million women to stand up & speak out, to be seen, be heard & be their awesome selves, so their ideal clients can find them
🎉🥳

#2024

31/12/2023

“Cheers to a new year and another chance for us to go after our dreams”

Happy New Year 2024 from Honkers 💜 🎇

#2024

28/12/2023

🙌🏽 A loving touch has the power to heal not only the body, but also the soul.

Through the hands of a skilled massage therapist, tensions melt away, knots unravel, and a profound sense of relaxation and rejuvenation fills the spirit.” 💆‍♀️✨

❤️

27/12/2023

A wondrous adventure of a thousand miles begins with a solitary step 👣 - It doesn't always lead you exactly where you envision, but it will undoubtedly propel you farther than if you remain on your ass... 🍑

25/12/2023

The truth is I love ❤️ my sister thank you for being you 💃🏻

11/12/2023

I used to avoid the words “mid-life” when referring to my clients (& myself!) 🤣

However, the truth is with mid-life comes wisdom & experience 👩‍🏫

As a business owner / entrepreneur that means you can have the answers to your clients pains m, usual my because you have been there. & survived 🎉

I encourage you to embrace your mid life point and make the better half of your life, the one where you do you! ❤️🙌🏽💃🏻🎉🥳🙏🏻🌞🙋🏼‍♀️

✨❤️ 😍💕❤️😘

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