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07/06/2025

How can we hold on to hope, even in the toughest of times?

Tough times may seem everlasting, but everything that begins must also come to an end.

When we face difficulties, it often feels like our lives will be forever filled with misery and disappointment, making it hard to believe that change is possible.
The truth is that nothing lasts forever; however, to see new beginnings, we must have trust and patience.

Stay hopeful, keep your faith and don't lose patience.
Life is constantly moving and things are always happening, even when it seems dark and still. If you hold on to hope and remain patient, you will eventually witness the light.

"NOTHING LASTS FOREVER, EVEN THE DARKEST NIGHT ENDS FOR A BRIGHTER DAY TO BEGIN".



By Simo Mtshali

06/06/2025

How can we remain confident when some people create self-doubt in us?

Self-confidence means trusting yourself enough not to let what others say or do make you feel less worthy.

The world is full of different kinds of people, some will support you, while others may attempt to undermine your self-esteem. When someone tries to bring up your flaws to lower your confidence, it's important to stay strong and not let their actions affect you.

This strength comes from being true to yourself, staying humble and keeping an open mind.
Remember, no one knows you better than you know yourself, most people only see what is on the surface, while you are aware of your inner beliefs and capabilities.

Maintain your confidence, even if someone tries to take it away. In the end, you are the most reliable person when it comes to your self-worth.

"SEE YOURSELF THROUGH THE EYES OF CONFIDENCE, HOW OTHERS SEE YOU WILL NEVER DIMINISH YOUR SPIRIT".



By Simo Mtshali

06/06/2025

Self-confidence begins with the ability to stand alone.
To become more self-confidence, people need to confront their fears, as this is the best way to challenge them. Only those who can do this can truly call themselves self-confident.

What I often observe is a dependence on faith, authority {leaders} emotions and finance.
I don't see anyone without fears or dependence. However, people can correct their flaws and become more self-confident and the best way to achieve that is through total independence.

After all, without self-confidence, one cannot challenge existing beliefs or pursue growth, both of which are crucial for understanding the world rationally.

WHERE THERE IS FEAR AND DEPENDENCE, THERE CANNOT BE SELF-CONFIDENCE.



By Simo Mtshali

It's incredible challenging when someone can't see the flaws in their own actions, but is quick to judge yours.These sit...
06/06/2025

It's incredible challenging when someone can't see the flaws in their own actions, but is quick to judge yours.

These situations feel deeply unfair, leaving a sour taste of frustration because they don't just see the surface, they cling to it, reinforcing their own narrative while closing off the opportunity to reflect on themselves.

This lack of self-awareness in others can make you feel isolated, as though your own efforts to grow, to understand and to empathize are met with walls instead of bridges.

In moments like these, the challenge is two-fold, resisting the temptation to mirror their judgmental gaze and staying grounded in your own truth. It's tempting to respond, to point out their hypocrisy, but more often than not, it only fuels the divide.

Finding peace means realizing that not everyone has the capacity or even the desire to see things beyond their own perspective.

It requires a passionate, but gentle commitment to knowing yourself, to allowing others the space to see your strengths and struggles for what they are, even if they never acknowledge their own flaws.

In the end, it's about learning to separate your worth from their judgments, to understand that others may choose to see only what suits their comfort or reinforces their ego.

Keep your heart open, but guard it too, knowing that growth, true growth, often means walking away from those who refuse to see both sides.

"I HATE WHEN PEOPLE CAN'T SEE THE WRONG IN THEIR ACTIONS, BUT SEE THE WRONG IN YOURS".



By Simo Mtshali

06/06/2025

Greetings everyone! 🙏🙏🙏

I hope you are all doing well.
I want to take a moment to express my heartfelt thanks for supporting this soulful journey.
Over the years, your love, blessings and encouragement have made me feel abundant in every way.

I've noticed that many of you are not seeing my posts on Facebook due to limited reach. I sincerely appreciate your understanding as I navigate this obstacle.

I'm hopeful that my posts will be more visible to everyone again soon.

In the meantime, you can also find my updates on my personal Facebook account.

Thank you all!!!

Sending love to each of you❣️



By Simo Mtshali

27/04/2025

Don't be afraid of the pain associated with truly knowing your self.
Be afraid of the consequences of remaining in a state of ignorance of your self. They are much more painful consequences and they will last until we collectively accept to truly see ourselves.

With our unresolved wounds, with our irrational fears, with our limiting beliefs, with our outdated systems, with our potential to awaken, heal, evolve and become one.

"IF MOST OF US REMAIN IGNORANT OF OURSELVES, IT IS BECAUSE SELF-KNOWLEDGE IS PAINFUL AND WE PREFER THE PLEASURES OF ILLUSION".


Simo Mtshali.

27/03/2025

Hey all, just a little remember for your day and honestly for mine too, sometimes we get so caught up in the hustle and bustle that we forget the magic within us.

IN CASE YOU FORGOT...

You're not just a person going through the motions. You're a soul, wearing this amazing human "suit" and experiencing all the beautiful chaos of life.
You're here to remember who you truly are. Not the roles you play or the expectations you carry, but the pure, radiant essence of you.

What sets your heart on fire? That's your compass. Follow it! It's leading you to your purpose.

Those tough times? They're not here to break you. They're here to grow you. Like a diamond being polished, every challenge makes you shine brighter.

And remember, there are no mistakes, just lessons.
Each experience, good or bad, is shaping you into the incredible person you're meant to be. We're all on this journey together, learning, growing and remembering.

Take a moment today to breathe, to connect with your soul and to appreciate the amazing human you are.

What's one thing you're remembering today?

Share in comments below 👇 let's inspire each other.



Simo Mtshali

03/02/2025

How can we keep going when we don't even see our destination?

The journey to success requires trust and belief. Once we have faith, we can complete the journey even without a clear view of the end point.

When we have been walking for a while and don't see our destination, we may feel tired and disappointed, questioning whether it was worth it to continue to persevere and eventually reach our destination, which brings about a positive change, we come to realise how important the journey really was.

Do not leave any journey unexplored.

Embrace the path, put in your effort and strive to reach your destination.

Sometimes, to truly appreciate the worth of your journey, you have to walk through the hardest path.

"DO NOT DOUBT YOUR JOURNEY, EVEN IF THE DESTINATION SEEMS FAR, SOMETIMES YOU REALISE THE WORTH OF YOUR JOURNEY WHEN YOU REACH THE TOP".

Simo Mtshali

03/02/2025

How can a few moments of solitude help us succeed?

In solitude, we spend time with ourselves. It is during this time that we can visualize our dreams and discover our strengths to make them a reality.

Our vision is often clouded by the constant influx of information and expectations from society about what it means to be successful. This pressure can lead us to neglect our own aspirations. A period of silence allows us to spend quality time with ourselves, providing clarity about what we truly want and exploring the pathways to achieve it.

Give yourself quiet time each day.

Reflect on your day, analyze how you could have done things better, understand your dreams, create a plan and work toward those goals.

You'll find that you are on a path that feels more fulfilling.

"THE QUIET TIME WE SPEND WITH OURSELVES IS IMPORTANT. THIS IS WHEN WE CARVE OUR DREAMS AND FORM A VISION TO HELP US SUCCEED".

Simo Mtshali

02/02/2025

Why we shouldn't let our happiness be defined by the lives of others?

Happiness means different things to different people. For some, it may be about achieving luxuries, while for others, it may be living a contented life. It is when we are not satisfied with what we have that we feel unhappy.

Some people feel dissatisfied due to an actual lack, while others remain unhappy even when they have a lot. This is often because they compare themselves to others, especially those who have less, but appear to be happy.
As a result, they feel that these individuals have something they have not achieved.

To find happiness in life, it is important to set and achieve your goals and be satisfied with your achievements.

The people you find happier do not always have something special, they have simply learned to appreciate their circumstances and find happiness where they are in life.

"SOME PEOPLE ARE UNHAPPY EVEN AFTER REACHING THE TOP BECAUSE THEY FEEL OTHERS ARE HAPPIER THAN THEY ARE".

Simo Mtshali

02/02/2025

How can best utilise our time to achieve success in face of problems?

We all have the ability to achieve our dreams and find success. However, achieving success often requires us to overcome obstacles. How we respond to these obstacles ultimately determines our success.

Some people view obstacles as problems and spend their time complaining about them. This tendency to overthink can create negativity that block our judgment, making it difficult to see solutions that may be right in front of us.

To achieve success, don't focus on the problem itself, rather find ways to change the outcome. Instead of worrying about the challenges, actively seek solutions.

There is always a way forward, we just need to identify it.

"SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE DO NOT WASTE THEIR TIME COMPLAINING ABOUT PROBLEMS, INSTEAD, THEY USE THAT TIME TO FIND SOLUTIONS".

Simo Mtshali

02/02/2025

"EMBRACE YOUR IMPERFECTIONS, YOU WILL BOOST YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE".

Rejecting ourselves because of our imperfections is one of the main reasons for low-esteem and lack of confidence. When we dislike any aspect of ourselves, it often reflects in our behavior and attitude. It my seem like we are losing opportunities, but in reality, it is our own perception of ourselves that holds us back from building the relationships we desire, achieving our goals and taking steps forward in life.

Improve yourself, but accept everything about yourself, whether it is your strengths or the flaws you cannot change.

Once you do this, you will feel worthy, become more confident and live with more enthusiasm.

Simo Mtshali

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