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Do your aspirations lead you to become a better person?Achieving dreams and reaching for the sky is incomplete success u...
04/12/2025

Do your aspirations lead you to become a better person?

Achieving dreams and reaching for the sky is incomplete success unless you stay humble, helpful and compassionate.

When people achieve their goals, some become arrogant, feel superior over others and look down on others. One must remember that whatever accomplishments you have in life are good, but you shouldn't let them overpower human values.

Aim to reach your goals, but along the way, improve yourself as a person. Be helpful, support others, show compassion and be kind-hearted. Your achievements mean nothing if you don't add value to uplift the world.





Simo Mtshali

We build relationships based on love and affection. When our needs are ignored, emotions dismissed and discouragement oc...
03/12/2025

We build relationships based on love and affection. When our needs are ignored, emotions dismissed and discouragement occurs, we often become detached from the other person.

One reason we bond with loved ones is the comfort we find in that relationship. However, when the same relationship causes pain and discomfort, we try to adjust until we reach a breaking point and decide to move on.

To sustain a relationship, make people feel valued, respect their feelings, make them feel worthy and do your best to give them no reason to leave.





Simo Mtshali

Nothing good in your life is an accident.It's the result of your consistency, your standards and your healing. When bles...
03/12/2025

Nothing good in your life is an accident.
It's the result of your consistency, your standards and your healing. When blessings show up, don't question why. Just receive them, they're yours because you did the work.

You deserve abundance, happiness and love.





Simo Mtshali

How do we manage when we realise the path we have chosen isn't right?The choices we make in life aren't always correct. ...
03/12/2025

How do we manage when we realise the path we have chosen isn't right?

The choices we make in life aren't always correct. What's important is that when we get a chance, we try to improve and step back from the wrong path.

The biggest challenge we face when turning back isn't just the fear of material loss, but also the loss of trust, relationships and our public image. So this fear stops us from correcting ourselves and we continue walking now with more unease and discomfort.

Although turning back will be hard, some may stop talking to you, some may move out of your life, some may mistrust you and some may not want to associate with you. You may lose what you have built and go through a period of hardship, the transition period is tough but transient.

Once you restart your journey on the right path, you can rebuild everything again.





Simo Mtshali

Small steps change more lives than big intentions.People love to talk about the grand vision, the future they're buildin...
02/12/2025

Small steps change more lives than big intentions.

People love to talk about the grand vision, the future they're building, the goals they're manifesting, the plans they're working on.

But intentions don't create momentum.
Consistency does.
Quiet, unglamorous, uncelebrated consistency.

It's the email you finally send.
The boundary you finally set.
The habit you finally repeat.
The project you actually finish, not just announce.

The smallest step forward beats the biggest promise never acted on.

You don't need louder dreams.
You need steadier steps.

Because lives, including your own, aren't transformed by what you intend to do, but by what you actually do again and again.



Simo Mtshali

Difficult times seem never-ending and it may feel like things won't change, leaving us in misery, but remember, nothing ...
01/12/2025

Difficult times seem never-ending and it may feel like things won't change, leaving us in misery, but remember, nothing lasts forever.
Challenges can make us feel hopeless and tired, leading to giving up if we lose hope.

Don't give up, even in tough times.
Things change and with faith, prayer, support and perseverance, you can get through dark periods to see the sunshine again.





Simo Mtshali

30/11/2025

Everyone has problems in life, those who choose to be happy are the ones who don't let their problems take away their smile.

We all have different ways of handling our problems. Some people use them as a reason to feel sad and miserable, while others look beyond and stay positive and hopeful.

Sometimes, we see people who seem happy and cheerful. We assume their life is complete, problem-free and perfect, but we don't know their full story, the struggles, problems and pain they might be going through.

Don't make your life miserable by comparing yourself to people who appear happy.

Everyone is fighting a battle, it's your choice whether to choose to be unhappy or to smile through it.





Simo Mtshali

Change is a time of transformation, bringing uncertainty and fear of the unknown.Embracing change reduces fears and help...
30/11/2025

Change is a time of transformation, bringing uncertainty and fear of the unknown.
Embracing change reduces fears and helps us trust the process.

Most fear change because they're unsure of the outcome and want to avoid discomfort, but avoiding change keeps us where we are. To change your life or situation, participate actively, understand discomfort is temporary and the change could to your desired life.





Simo Mtshali

The loudest strength is often the silence that refuses to argue.Not every battle deserves your presence.Not every accusa...
29/11/2025

The loudest strength is often the silence that refuses to argue.

Not every battle deserves your presence.
Not every accusation deserves your breath and not every insecure person deserves the privilege of your emotional energy.

Silence isn't weakness, it's discretion.
It's choosing peace over chaos, clarity over noise, dignity over dominance.

You don't have to defend what's true.
You don't have to chase what's real.
You don't have to perform strength to possess it.

Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do, is simply not engage.

Because the moment you stop arguing with what isn't worthy of you, you finally have space to rise into what is.


Simo Mtshali

Why are we attracted to some people more than others?People with a sincere heart and good intentions tend to draw us bec...
29/11/2025

Why are we attracted to some people more than others?

People with a sincere heart and good intentions tend to draw us because we sense positivity around them.

A person who is genuine from the heart is always kind, considerate and compassionate. Such individuals have a positive aura that brings you ease and comfort just by being themselves.

If you want to understand someone, pay attention to how you feel about their thoughts.
Do you feel connected to them?
Do you feel positive when you're near them? Do you see love and kindness in their actions? Do they treat everyone with respect?

Always remember, when someone is genuine and pure, you see not just their physical body, but also the purity of their soul and the depth of their heart.





Simo Mtshali

Valuing your time means understanding life's limits, so to make the most of our lives, we must make the most of our time...
29/11/2025

Valuing your time means understanding life's limits, so to make the most of our lives, we must make the most of our time. When young, we have more dreams, energy and time to fulfill them. Misusing time prevents us from achieving goals and leaves little time. Regret often follows when we realise time's value too late.

To live worthfully, avoid wasting time, plan your day, include leisure and avoid gossiping, overthinking and daydreaming.

Focus on actions, aim to be productive and lead a fulfilling life.





Simo Mtshali

Do you feel grateful to those who help you?The most sincere people offer the support and timely help that are most neede...
28/11/2025

Do you feel grateful to those who help you?

The most sincere people offer the support and timely help that are most needed because they don't want to see others struggle.

Sometimes, we notice someone needs assistance; we try our best to help them get through tough times. Although we don't expect anything in return, when we find ourselves in a similar situation and realize that the same person could help us, but doesn't, it hurts and disappoints us.

Always remember and appreciate anyone who lends a helping hand. You can never fully repay what someone has done for you, but if life gives you the chance, make sure you try to help them to the best of your ability.





Simo Mtshali

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