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02/12/2024

Why must we always value those who stand by our side?

In a world where everyone is busy with their own lives, if someone takes the time to be with you and support you, they are undoubtedly deeply connected to you.

When we meet new people, we may find them attractive to be around and forming new relationships can even lead to valuable learning experiences. The problem arises when we ignore those who have supported us throughout our lives. This oversight can be heartbreaking for those who are genuinely to us.

It is essential to appreciate the presence of those who support us. Such people are true gems; you can trust them, lean on them and open your heart to them. They make the world a more beautiful place.

"SHARE THE JOURNEY WITH NEW PEOPLE, BUT DON'T LEAVE BEHIND THOSE WHO HELD YOUR HAND AT EVERY TURN".


Simo Mtshali
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01/12/2024

Explore even the smallest opportunity that knocks on your door. Even the tiniest key has the power to unlock the greatest dreams.

Every opportunity has the potential to turn our dreams into reality, but we must embrace each one with enthusiasm and zeal.

One reason why some people achieve success in life is that they welcome every opportunity that comes their way. They don't see any opportunity as too big or too small; instead, they view it as a means to help them achieve their goals.

Do not overlook any opportunity simply because it may require starting small or seem to lead to gradual progress.

Starting small provides valuable learning experiences and small progress can keep us motivated.

Embracing every chance increases our chances to succeed.


Simo Mtshali
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December is not only a month of festivities, but also a time when spirit of the season lift our spirits. We witness more...
01/12/2024

December is not only a month of festivities, but also a time when spirit of the season lift our spirits. We witness more kindness and compassion during this season.

There are exchanges of gifts and expressions of love.
Wrap your present with your best thoughts, feelings and warmth, so that whoever receives it can feel it in their heart.

Wishing you all the best for the festive season!!!

To all those celebrating special events, birthdays or anniversaries, sending love and warm wishes.


Simo Mtshali
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20/11/2024

WHY SHOULD THERE BE NO NEED TO PROVE YOURSELF IN A RELATIONSHIP?

Relationships are built on trust and understanding. If we feel the need to prove ourselves or provide constant explanations, it means there is a lack of mutual understanding.

Even with the best intentions, situations may arise where we have to take independent actions or make solo decisions in a relationship. Those who truly know and trust us will not demand explanations because they understand that whatever actions we take are in the best interest of the relationship. They support us every step of the way without doubting us.

Give your loved ones space, allow them the freedom to make their own choices. While open communication is essential in any relationship, constantly questioning and demanding answers for every action as well as interfering in everything they do, only harms the relationship.

"YOU WILL NEVER HAVE TO PROVE YOURSELF TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN YOU".

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Simo Mtshali
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20/11/2024

Those who dare to think beyond the boundaries of the ordinary are often labeled as "crazy", but it is the misunderstood minds that push humanity forward, for what is incomprehensible today may be the truth that transforms tomorrow.

"PEOPLE THINK YOU'RE CRAZY IF YOU TALK ABOUT THINGS THEY DON'T UNDERSTAND".

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Simo Mtshali
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Feeling someone else's pain shows a depth of empathy that is both beautiful and profound.Empathy allows us to connect, t...
08/11/2024

Feeling someone else's pain shows a depth of empathy that is both beautiful and profound.
Empathy allows us to connect, to understand and to show compassion. However, there's an important distinction between feeling someone's pain and taking on the responsibility to "FIX" it.

It's essential to recognize that we can't heal others in the same way they can heal themselves. Providing support doesn't mean bearing the burden of another's emotional journey.
In fact, by trying to "FIX" someone's pain, we risk disempowering them or assuming they can't manage their own healing. True support often lies in active listening, validation and encouragement, not in solutions.

Knowing this can relieve you from the weight of feeling responsible for everyone's healing journey.

Welcome your empathy, but also respect your limits.

Set healthy boundaries, recognizing that while you can walk alongside someone, you can't walk the path for them.
This balance allows you to remain a compassionate supporter without compromising your well-being.

You can offer understanding, but it's okay to leave the responsibility for change and healing to the individual.

This boundary not only protects your energy, but also respects the other person's journey.



Simo Mtshali
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Life captures a battle that many of us face and struggle often with what happens in silence.Here we see a person kneelin...
07/11/2024

Life captures a battle that many of us face and struggle often with what happens in silence.

Here we see a person kneeling, head bowed, with a shadowy, ghost-like figure looming over him, as if feeding off his pain and despair. This entity isn't just an abstract darkness, it's a representation of our inner demons, doubts, fears, past traumas, threatening to consume us when we're at our most vulnerable.

Look closely at the figure on the ground.
His posture speaks of exhaustion, of being weighed down, almost surrendered. It's a feeling many of us know, those moments when life's challenges push us to our knees, making us feel small and overwhelmed. The dark figure hovering over him, hollow eyed and clawing, symbolizes how our darkest thoughts can feel overpowering, as though they have a life of their own, pulling strength from our lowest points.

But this image is more than just a depiction of despair. It's a reminder of resilience. It tells us that even when we're brought to our knees, we're not defeated.
In fact, moments like these often mark the beginning of something powerful, the moment we choose to stand up and face our fears, to reclaim the strength we thought was lost. Those shadows may feel overwhelming, but they only have as much power as we allow them.

This encourages us to confront our own shadows with respect and resilience.

The shadows within us are part of the human experience, yes, but they don't define us. Every time we choose to face them, to rise up despite the weight, we weaken their hold. It's those acts of courage, however small, that ultimately turn the tide.

If you're feeling like you're on your knees today, remember this image.

May it remind you that you're not alone in this battle. Even in your most vulnerable moments, you carry the strength to rise, to face your fears and to keep moving forward.

The darkness may be strong, but you are stronger.

Stand back up even if it's one step at a time. The shadows lose their power each time you choose to rise.

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Simo Mtshali
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Imagine if every bit of acceptance you received felt like a massive, warm thumbs up that fills your entire space, a reas...
06/11/2024

Imagine if every bit of acceptance you received felt like a massive, warm thumbs up that fills your entire space, a reassuring sign that you belong and are seen.

Let's rejection be nothing more than a brief, passing moment, a small nudge that barely touches you, knowing it fades in intensity as quickly as it arrives.
When we learn to reverse the weight we give each, letting acceptance grow and rejection shrink, we transform our experience.

Acceptance becomes a solid foundation, while rejection is just a breeze, gone within minutes, no longer strong enough to hold you back.

The power we give to each is ours to control and it can change how deeply we feel, connect and move forward.

Simo Mtshali
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The enemy of a black person is another black and that's a sad reality about Africa.When there are some people who are st...
05/11/2024

The enemy of a black person is another black and that's a sad reality about Africa.

When there are some people who are striving to succeed and accumulate for themselves what their heart desires, there also those fighting against it, to ensure it doesn't happen.

Generational curses aren't plans of God, but something which someone, somewhere behind closed doors had masterminded.

A young girl destined for a bright future was recently hit by lightning strike, shortly after her pictures were posted on social media to celebrate her achievement.

Simo Mtshali
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