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16/10/2023

A WISE MAN ONCE SAID

1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to;

2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the person that borrowed you remember or ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes.

3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner.

4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don't you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem;

5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public;

6. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time;

7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second opinion is good for an alternative;

8. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all;

9. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you're;

10. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.

11. Praise publicly. Criticize privately;

12. There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will;

13. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next;

14. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors' appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say "I hope you’re okay". Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness. If they want you to know, they'll do so without your inquisitiveness;

15. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the

27/09/2023

My mom wasn't rich but I never slept without eating.
Red heart for your mom.❤️

16/08/2023

KEEP GOING..
Everything will come to you at the perfect time..❤

07/06/2023

Today I realised I’m the problem. I allow people to do me any kinda way and I just… love them anyway, sometimes harder. I tend to choose people who aint willing to choose me, and hold onto people I should let go of. But I’m a POURER. I try to pour life, positivity and energy into everyone around me without having the proper people in my life to pour it back.
That stops today. I gotta love me more!🙃🥰

A very fresh morning!😊

16/05/2023

TEBELELE Friday night

16/05/2023

Gig approved
Friday at
Monyepago's tavern (Madalabara)
19 May 2023

Saturday
Gravlot Lodge
20 MAY 2023

Peace groove music 🎶 entertainment

11/05/2023

O sare o bolaya noga🐍mohlagase o chabe okwe e Sega ka voice ya makhi

13/04/2023

The Blind Men and the Elephant

Once upon a time, there lived six blind men in a village. One day the villagers told them, “Hey, there is an elephant in the village today. They had no idea what an elephant is. They decided,

“Even though we would not be able to see it, let us go and feel it anyway.” All of them went where the elephant was and everyone touched the elephant.

“Hey, the elephant is a pillar,” said the first man who touched his leg.”

“Oh no! It is like a rope,” said the second man who touched the tail.

“Oh no! It is like a thick branch of a tree,” said the third man who touched the trunk of the elephant.

“It is like a big hand fan,” said the fourth man who touched the ear of the elephant.

“It is like a huge wall,” said the fifth man who touched the belly of the elephant.

“It is like a solid pipe,” said the sixth man who touched the tusk of the elephant.

They began to argue about the elephant and every one of them insisted that he was right. It looked like they were getting agitated. A wise man was passing by and he saw this. He stopped and asked them, “What is the matter? They said, “We cannot agree to what the elephant is like.

Each of them told what he thought the elephant was like. The wise man calmly explained to them, “All of you are right. The reason every one of you was telling it differently is because each one of you touched a different part of the elephant. So, actually the elephant has all of those features what you all said.”

“Oh!” everyone said. There was no more fight. They felt happy that they were all right.*

The moral of the story is that truth is relative to one's own perspective, and because truth is relative, we should respect the opinions of others. After all, their view of reality is based on a different viewpoint than our own.

To moral relativists, morality can be fluid. What is considered good today may be considered evil tomorrow, and what is considered evil today may be considered good tomorrow.

Right and wrong, g

11/04/2023

V I R G I N I T Y I S N O T A G I F T ! ! !

I saw Reno state a post that the best gift a woman can give her husband is her virginity, a lot of folks agreed with him, even ladies and some dissented.

This is a misconception..

Is virginity the best gift a woman can offer her husband?

No!

I know we are zealous to promote the message of morality and s*xual purity but many times we botch in the process.
We attribute wrong reasons to right things.

Just like asking me to eat to make someone else happy. Eating is right, but to make someone else happy?

Wrong reason..

We should understand that virginity is merely a state of having one's h***n intact. A state of never had experienced pe*******on.

This is basically what virginity entails..

Virginity is not always s*xual purity.

Virginity is a physical attribute and honestly has no substantial contribution to the success of a relationship or even the success of a woman.

Very possible to be a virgin and be a dullard..

The Bible talks about five foolish Virgins, and it wasn't inconsequential.

That was a symbolic stand; that its possible to be a virgin and lack sense; value..

_Very possible to be a virgin and have a bad marriage..
_Very possible to be a virgin and not successful..

A lot of women have been made to believe that their success, relevance, and marital bliss revolves around their virginity.

This is balderdash. This is a moral lie.

Reason why a lot of them end up frustrated. All they build in their lives and till marriage is just an intact h***n, but reality strikes them and they achingly realize that there's more to it than an intact h***n.

In fact, it's wrong for a lady to keep her virginity because she wants her hubby to value her in marriage. Honestly, this is
wrong and lame.

Real marital value transcends a h***n that'll be broken on a wedding night.
After that night, what else? virginity is a gift to the husband. Honestly. L

31/03/2023

𝐴 𝐿𝐸𝑇𝑇𝐸𝑅 𝑇𝑂 𝐴𝐿𝐿 𝑀𝐸𝑁.

Dear Men,

If you want to make it in life, you don't have to enter every HOLE you see. Some holes are dead traps. Some holes are destiny destroyers, business destroyers and life destroyers.

My brother, do not obey your Er****on at all times. Most Er****ons mislead you to wrong direction. Control your er****on if you don't want to die early and poor.

It is not everything you see under skirt that you should hustle to eat, some skirts contain snakes that will bite you and leave you to die. Control your s*xual urge. Self control and abstinence in most cases pays a lot.

A man who is able to control his s*xual urge has automatically controlled half of his problems. Men don't know that some of their downfalls are caused by MULTIPLE girlfriends. Not every girl has a good spirit. Some are demons, some has poison in between their legs.

When the devil wants to finish you she gives you uncontrollable s*xual urge.

Unaskia watu wanasema napata pesa lakini sijui zinaisha bila kunisaidia, siendelei kimaisha. Solution is here, tame your appetite for s*x.


𝑆𝑎𝑢𝑢 𝑛𝑖𝑚𝑒𝑖𝑡𝑤𝑎 𝑚𝑒𝑛 𝑐𝑜𝑛𝑓𝑒𝑟𝑒𝑛𝑐𝑒 𝑛𝑎 𝑦𝑎 ℎ𝑢𝑢 𝑚𝑤𝑎𝑘𝑎 𝑡𝑢𝑙𝑖𝑚𝑎𝑙𝑖𝑧𝑎 𝑡𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑛𝑒𝑥𝑡 𝑦𝑒𝑎𝑟.

31/03/2023

“My body count doesn't matter.”

Dear Women,
You are born with value, your irresistible beauty.
You have to protect it.
This is why your past matter.
As men, we are born with zero value.
We have to build ours.
This is why our past doesn't matter.
Kindest Regards,
-All Men

30/03/2023

WHAT HURTS A WIFE

1. It hurts a wife when the husband listens to the advice of other women trying to impress them but ignores hers.

2. It hurts a wife when the husband carries himself in public as if he is not married, as if he is not proud of the love he shares with her.

3. It hurts a wife when the husband would rather watch po*******hy and touch himself than make love to her.

4. It hurts a wife when the husband would defend the privacy of his phone and attack his wife because of his phone activity as if what is in his phone is more important than his marriage.

5. It hurts a wife when she tries her best to cover the husband only to keep hearing others telling her about the dishonourable things her husband is doing.

6. It hurts a wife when the husband would rather confide in another woman and praise another woman.

7. It hurts a wife when she tries her best to be a good wife, cook for him, serve him, stay s*xy for him, stay faithful to him; but he just doesn't notice her effort.

8. It hurts a wife when the husband allows his mother to bully her and micro manage their home.

9. It hurts a wife when the husband uses the secrets she confided in him to insult her, mock her and attack her.

10. It hurts a wife when he expects her to do everything to support his dream and yet he has never cared to find out and support her dreams.

11. It hurts a wife when the husband mistreats her but then he expects great s3x.

12. It hurts a wife when she has to beg her own husband for attention and she is reduced to competing against his friends for his priority spot.

13. It hurts a wife when the husband will openly stare and flirt with other women yet he barely notices her beauty, new hairstyle or compliment her body.

14. It hurts a wife when the husband who promised her marriage and growing old together is the one person breaking the home.
WOMEN, DONT FORGET, MEN ALSO FEEL LIKEWISE