08/01/2024
LIFE LESSONS EPISODE 120
Dear Dating Couple
5 THINGS S*X DOESN'T DO.
1) S*x doesn't Strengthen a Relationship.
A Relationship that is weak is weak not because there is no s*x in it, but because there is no LOVE (affection, attention), COMMUNICATION and COMMITMENT in it..
"S*x is not Love"
Adequate daily Communication, giving Attention to each other (hanging out, spending time together) and showing Affection (speaking each other's love language) for each other strengthens Relationships.
2) S*x doesn't Spice up a Relationship
Ndi "let's spice our relationship with s*x"
A Relationshp is boring not because of a lack of S*x, but because of a lack of purpose, fun, friendship and excitement in the individual and cooperate lives of those in it.
3) S*x doesn't Prove Love
Ndi "if you love me, prove it"
S*x is not a way you prove your love for anyone, especially someone you're not married to, in fact, abstinence is a better proof of love than s*x.
Your ability to wait is a proof of true LOVE than your inability to wait which is rather a proof of LUST.
A Person can have s*x with you and not love you.
4) S*x doesn't Keep a Relationship
Ndi "I don't want to lose him"
You can give him/her s*x and they'll will still dump you tomorrow, I counsel victims of this daily.
Even with good s*x, MARRIAGES still break down everyday, talk less of a relationship.
What keeps a relationship is LOVE, RESPECT, CHARACTER, and COMMITMENT.
5) S*x doesn't Prove that you're a mature adult
Ndi "We're matured adults, let's do it."
When did s*x become the sign of matured adults?.
Immature and irresponsible teenagers have s*x everyday, does that make them adults?
S*x doesn't mean you're matured, rather you prove your maturity by discipline and self control.
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Dear Single in a Relationship.
S*x Has its Time
Wait, in the right season, na you go tire..
Keep s*x out of your Relationship and build a solid foundation for your Marriage.
