20/08/2023
WAKHIWA KANJANI UMUZI
(THE BASIC LAW OF LOVE for women, 21 March 2022)
Compiled by Dr Tebogo Gumede
*Ukuba umfazi oqotho ukuqala manje ebuntombini, awukuqali emendweni*
1. Lapha oyakhona awuyile ukuyobhidliza kepha uyokwakha Uma ufika kunoqhekeko ungaluqhubekisi, zama indlela yokuthi kulunge izinto,bahloniphe abasemzini kungabi khona ozothi awumthandi.
2. Uma indoda inezingane zithanda uzinakekele njengezakho, uzifake ngaphansi kwamaphiko akho.
3. Njengoba usuyogana nje ungabe samemeza emzini womuntu ngaphenduli uma indoda ikhuluma, uzothe uthande ngisho ikati lakhona.
4. Umngan wakho umyeni wakho,
Umama womyeni wakho sekumama wakho, Osisi basemzini odadewenu,
5. Muntu mengena akaphumi engadlile
6. Mucasukile ungabo khuluma
Ubophuza manzi uwabeke emlonyeni uwagwinye sehambile okulwisayo emzini
7. Umuzi wendoda uyahlonishwa, awufaki ma high heel 👡 egceken abanga umsindo ugqoka ngendlela yokuthi akukhanyi okugqokile awavezi izindololwane namadolo.
8. Awukhulumi nobaba noma umama kamyeni ume ngezinyawo
9. Emzini kuyahlonishwa uhlonipha ngisho ingane encane, abafowabo bakaMyeni awubabizi ngamagama, khona ubhuti umncane, ubhuti ophakathi noBhuti omdala
10. Abangani uyahlukana nabo umngani ngumnyeni wakho manje.
11. Inkinga zikhona umyeni uzoqonywa ukulindele Lokho.
12. Indoda ayithethiswa ukhuluma kahlenayo Uma kukhona ongazwisani nako ngayo thula igama elihle lelo lokuphendula indoda.
13. Idliso elihle inhlonipho, ukuzithoba, nokuzithanda.
14. Uma ungumakoti uhlala ekhaya awusazuli uphuma uye endaweni ubuye uqonde ekhaya.
15. Indoda ingalambi, ingaze iphumele ngaphandle ukhona.
16. Azixoxwa izindaba zasemzini wakho nabantu bakini
17. Layikhaya awushayi awuthethi awukhulumi umile emsamu awumemezi egcekeni
18. Uma kuphakelwa imfene nawe uzakwenza loko okwenziwayo.
19. Kusukela manje ufile layikhaya uyovuka ngale, akusekho okwakho okula.
20. Uthobe uthobeke
Ulalele ufundiseke 3uhloniphe.
21. Kukwa mfazongemama lapho uyakhona akusi kini so uzolandela umthetho wakhona wenze abakuyalela khona noma ngabe awukuthandi.
22. Uzothobela indoda yakho
Uthobele abazali bayo ubazise njengabakho ukulindele ukuthi Ngeke bekuthande njengabakho wena Gcina iside lakho lilihle ngokulindeleke kuwe kukuhle noma kukubi.
23. Emendwen uhlala ngesibindi nenkani yakho.
24. Okubalulekile uyosimela ka mlingani so kumele ube isthombe sethu esihle
Upheke uphake nxazonke, enhla nangezansi.
25. Uhlale uhlanzekile uphane
Ungakhulumeli ukudla.
26. Awumisi izigcawu emzini awukho umhlangano ozobizwa nguwe.
27. Awubangi msindo mzini wendoda awukhulumi macingweni nabangani
28. Imfundo isala esangweni mususe magcekeni omuzi ungumakoti.
29. Uthande umnyeni nomndeni noma ngabe awukufuni wena uwuthande.
30. Ungandi ngamazwi wande ngokwenza okuhle uhlale edolweni mazikunetha.
31. Ukhale ekameleni lakho uphume uhleke ngaphandle
32. Uphekele umnyeni wakho ndawo zonke ekhishini nasekameleni
33. Inxabano igcina ngenxa kokhalo ayehleli ngezansi
34. Njengoba usuphuma ekhaya kini lapho uzalwakhona useyabulawa manje sekuzoba negama elisha ozophiwa lona
35. Awusezukufaka izingubo lezi obuzigqoka lapha ekhaya njengoba ibhokisi lakho sikufakel izimpahla ezintsha phakathi isona style sakho esihambisan negama lakho elisha ozosufaka emzini lapho uyakhona.
36. Uma kwenzeka nithenga umuzi wenu/ nakha owenu, uze ungashintshi lutho usengumfazi uzogqokisa okumfazi awuhambi nqunu emzini, awuzohamba ngekhanda khona till ingane yakho yomfana iganwe nayo ilapho emzini wayo lapho uyofika ufake okuthandayo muvakashile kuyo.ungahamba utshekis nesigqoko /uhambe ngekhanda khona ngoba ikwakho. Kodwa uma ungakabi nendodan esinomuzi ai mama khohlwa uyohlala ungumakoti even ningahlala nodwa.kumel ushuqulile ubhulazel ngezingubo ngoba ungumakoti wena la.uhlonipha abangasekho okuyibo abaphathi bomuzi.
37. Lelibhokisi lisho ukuth uyofela khona wazi ukuth umkhumb wakho wokugcina lo esikukhipha ngawo siyokubeka ekhaya lakho lenguna phakadze. yingakho sith siyakungcwaba as intombazan yalapha ekhaya usuzoba isihambeli sethu nje lapha ekhaya.wena usuyoba mfazi manje
38. Sisi asiding ukuzwa izinkinga zakwakho nezindaba zakho nomndeni wakho omusha osuya kuwona.
Konke usuyokuxoxa nenkosi.
If udinga umuntu ozomxoxela kuno nodoli mtanami engikufunel wona.ngizocela ubuxoxa nawo uhlale nawo ubikele wona yonke inkinga yakho ungalokoth ubikele abantu ngoba ksasa bazokubuka ngenye indlela/ bakuhleke ngezinkinga zakho,kanti udoli uzolalela nje uzithulele ungatsheli muntu ngaphandle.
39. Mntanami ngicela umphathe kahle umkhwenyana, umhloniphe umphekele kahle ungalokothi uqophisan naye ngamazwi, uyindoda means uyinhloko kuwena. if uhluleka ukumthobela as ubaba kusho ukuthi noNkulunkulu awumhloniphi.
40. Mntanami ngicela uziphathe kahle kunalokho kube nguyena owona wena ai kube nguwena owenza amanyala.
41. Mntanam anginayo imali yokukuhlawulela ngicela konke ukuphathise okwezikhal zamaNtungwa.
Uhloniphe ngisho ikati lakhona🧎♀️😢🙏
42. Uma usungumfazi ngizocela ulandel umyeni wakho lapho ekhonza khona ngiyazi ukuthi akulula kodwa iyona ndawo osuzohamba uye kuyona.angeke ufike nemthetho yalapha ekhaya emzini yabantu.uzokwenza okwakhona ai lokhu okhuliswe ngakho.
43. Ungaphikisani nabasemzini yenza konke okwakhona amasiko awafani nhlobo mntanami usuyoqala impilo nesiko elisha manje.
44. Hamba kahle uzithobe ubonakale uhamba le kude ukuth umfazi lo.
45. Zithande, uhloniphe, uthobeke njalo uze ungasiphoxi nakancane🙏siyakuthanda sifuna basibone kuwe nabangasazi. uyosimel mntanami.
Phansi ngolaka, nodlame nenconsi.
46. Ungakhulumi isingisi ukufunda okwakho kokusiza wena ngakho yiba yisifundiswa esifundisekile
47. Isigaba ongena kuso sinezinselelo eziningi ezidinga umqondo hhayi umlomo namandla.
48. Kokusiza ukubulala intombazane kuwe kuvuke owesifazàne.
49. Abantu bakwakho bayahlonishwa bese uthanda umyeni wakho ungakuphambanisi kuzokuhlupha lokhu.
50. Umyeni wakho umbiza ngoBaba nje yingoba sekunguye ubaba wakho onikezelwe ezandleni zakhe ngakho uzomhlonipha umthobele njengobaba wakho.
51. Intobeko nenhlonipho yakho yikho okuyokwakhela ugazi emzini uma uzwa kukhona okukuthinte kabi ngena egumbini lakho ukhàle ukhuleke maqede ugeze ubuso uphumele phandle.
52. Intando engikupha yona idolo lakho ntombi hhayi àbantu ufunde Izanga 14 v 1-5 no 2 Samual 24 v 14.
53. Fika ube ngu Nkosikazi owehlukile onefundiso ezinhle nabo bazibonele ukuthi bathole umuntu obekufanele bamthole.
54. Uziphathe Kahle emzini hloniphe konke oksegcekeni lasemzini uzhloniphe nawe uthande uSokhaya umnakekele bese kugugidolo
55. Lomendo usize uwuphathise ukweqanda lomendo uwuphiwe abakini kanye nomvelinqangi kuzomele ufike uwakhe lomuzi ubemkhulu uma umkhwenyana ebengabondli abazali bakhe ngokufika kwakho uzobondla uma ekhaya bekungazwana ngokufika kwakho kuzomele kuzwanwe uma umyeni wakho enengangane ngaphandle angayondli ngokufika kwakho kuzomele ayondle konke lokho kuzomele wena wenze umyeni wakho akwenze ngani ngoba wena uzokwakha umuzi kababamkhulu uzokwakha lana awuzile ukuzobhidliza
56. Indoda sisi ayijwayelwa kabi akumele ngoba nakhu usuganile usuzolala ngeskibha uthi senibadala cha yenza njengoba ubuwenza
57. Ungayincintshi ukudla indoda ungasho ukuthi namuhla ukhathele uma indoda ifuna ukudla kwayo kwasebusuku
58. Othandweni luhlale lulusha alukaze lwabaludala uthando ungabe usungazi usuthi umyeni kade ngathandana naye noma ngincolile akanankinga cha cha ungayenzi leyonto
59. Umhloniphe umyeni wakho makwenzekile wakha imfino ngaphandle umyeni ungamthethisi kodwa hlala phansi naye umbize nje kamnandi uthi umthakazele uthi uyazi u1 no2 awungiphathi kahle, uyobona uyoyeka lento obethi uyayenza
60. Umphathe kahle umyeni uqhubeke nenhlonipho uyandise kakhulu ke manje ngaphezulu kwalena obunayo ujehova uzobanawe akuphe isibindi namandla okuba unkosikazi oqotho endodeni yakho nasemzini wakhe.
61. Umfazi ke izindaba zakhe wixoxa nomdali akazixoxi nomakhelwane umuntu wesfazane ubanekhona lakhe lokubika lonke usizi lwakhe asuke ebhekene nalo ngoba muntu uyakwazi kuthi athathe indaba yakho ayenze eyakhe ahlekise ngendaba zakho wenake uzibikela umdali wakho ngikufisela inhlanhla nenhlalo emnandi emzini.
62. Ibhulukwe nje kunkosikazi alibukeki nhlobo ngoba awunasithunzi ngisho uyintombazane, uma-ke ungunkosikazi othatheka kancane. Uma ke usubhushuzela ngalo emzini wendoda wenza igceke lalowomuzi lingabi nasthunzi uqobo. unkosikazi ubukeka egqoke njengomama abe nesizotha ukuze kuhlonishwe umuzi wakhe nomyeni wakhe uqobo.
Compiled by Dr Tebogo Gumede in association with THE GROUP OF LOVE DOCTORS