Luong Anh My

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If You’re Trying to Forget a Man but Can’tLet My share 3 reasons why it’s hard and how to fix it.1/ You Still See HimThi...
16/01/2025

If You’re Trying to Forget a Man but Can’t

Let My share 3 reasons why it’s hard and how to fix it.

1/ You Still See Him

This means you still check his social media.

You still text him first or reply when he messages you.

The truth is, if you keep seeing him (online or in real life)...

Your old memories and feelings about him will come back.

It’s like a wound from falling off a bike – if you keep scratching it, how can it heal?

You need to leave it alone so it has a chance to heal properly.

Here’s how to fix it:

Unfollow him and move his messages to spam so you don’t see them.

If you still want to check on him, set a specific time for it.

The rest of the time, keep your phone away and only check during that set time.

For example: At first, check every 2 hours, then stretch it to 4 hours, then once a day.

By doing this, you’ll slowly stop the habit of checking on him.

Day by day, you’ll grow stronger, and eventually, you won’t feel the need to check anymore.

2/ You Have Too Much Time to Think About Him
If your days are empty, with no friends to hang out with or activities to do...

Your mind will keep going back to him.

Because he’s your “only choice.”

And when you only have one choice, it’s like having no choice at all.

If you have nothing else in your life, he becomes your everything.

Here’s how to fix it:

Find something to do that makes you forget about him while you’re doing it.

From My’s experience, this is usually something you enjoy – something you’d do with or without him.

For My, it’s studying.

If you don’t know what you enjoy yet, try learning a new skill.

Learn to draw, improve your communication skills, or learn how to become more attractive.

(There are so many online classes now, super convenient!)

Not only will this keep you busy and help you stop thinking about him, but it will also make your life more meaningful.

3/ You Don’t Have Supportive People Around You

When you’re feeling down, reach out to people you trust and who understand you.

For example: Call or meet a close friend and share all your feelings with them.

Having someone listen to you will lighten your emotional load and help you heal faster.

My remembers once being in the hospital for three days after surgery.

Those were the longest three days of My’s life.

Even though the hospital was high-end, with all the comforts like fruit, TV, and nurses outside the door...

It still felt so cold and lonely.

When a staff member came to visit, My broke down crying.

Because at that moment, all My needed was someone to be there.

That visit lifted My’s spirit and helped My recover faster.

And My realized:

Having someone beside you in tough times is worth more than any luxury.

So don’t hesitate to ask for help from those around you.

Summary: 3 Reasons Why You Haven’t Forgotten Him
1/ You still see him.

2/ You have too much time to think about him.

3/ You don’t have supportive people around you.
These are steps you can take to feel less heartbroken.

But here’s the MOST IMPORTANT thing My wants to say:

You don’t need to forget him completely like erasing your memory.

What you need is this:

To reach a point where thinking about him doesn’t hurt anymore.

Forcing yourself to erase all memories of him will only make you think about him more.

Instead, try this mindset:

“I don’t need to forget him, I just need to feel nothing when I think about him.”

The 3 steps above will help you feel happier and lighter.

When you feel happier, the sadness will fade.

Give yourself time – do things that soothe your emotions, as My has shared.

Remember, you don’t need to force yourself to forget.

When the time comes and your feelings are neutral, that’s when you’ve succeeded 😉

Anh My

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3 Simple Things to Make Your Man HappyIf you want to make your man happy, here are 3 simple things you can do right now....
15/01/2025

3 Simple Things to Make Your Man Happy

If you want to make your man happy, here are 3 simple things you can do right now.

1/ Leave a Surprise 🎁

When you see him, secretly leave something small and fun to surprise him.

For example:

Before leaving his house, put a Chocopie on his bed and cover it with a blanket.

When he goes into the room and finds it, he’ll smile for sure.

Or stick a note on his laptop saying:

“Hope you have a peaceful and productive day.”

He’ll find it when he opens his laptop.

If you’re far away, you can order a drink or his favorite food and have it delivered to his house.

2/ Pay Attention to Details

Notice what he needs or what he says he’s missing, and get that for him.

For example:

If you’re out with friends, call and ask him what he wants to eat, then bring it to him.

Or if you know he’s at home, send food to his place and say:

“I know you love this dish, so I got it for you.”

If you want to gift him clothes, send him pictures first and say:

“I noticed you like wearing plain white shirts. These look nice—pick one, and I’ll get it for you.”

Note: If he says he needs money, that’s your cue to run!

3/ Playfully Tease Him

It’s simple—just do something different from what you usually do.

For example:

If you usually give him a quick hug, try hugging him for a long time and don’t let go. See how he reacts.

Or if you usually kiss him once, kiss him two or three times instead.

He’ll find you super cute and want to be around you even more.

Summary: 3 Simple Things to Make Him Happy

1/ Leave a little surprise.

2/ Pay attention to details.

3/ Playfully tease him.

When he’s happy, he’ll thank you or respond positively to what you do for him.

Try it—you’ll see the difference right away.

But here’s the MOST IMPORTANT thing you need to know:

What truly makes him happy is feeling your warmth and knowing you’re trying to make him happy.

If you feel shy or hesitant about doing these things, there might be a deeper issue.

It could mean there’s a problem in your relationship.

You two might not be connected enough, and you feel like he doesn’t fully accept or appreciate you.

This hesitation might come from the fact that you’re with someone who doesn’t feel deeply for you.

If this sounds like you, My suggests you focus on making yourself happy first.

Because My worries that something unpleasant might be coming your way.

Anh My

15/01/2025

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3 Simple Things to Make Your Man HappyIf you want to make your man happy, here are 3 simple things you can do right now....
13/01/2025

3 Simple Things to Make Your Man Happy

If you want to make your man happy, here are 3 simple things you can do right now.

1/ Leave a Surprise 🎁

When you see him, secretly leave something small and fun to surprise him.

For example:

Before leaving his house, put a Chocopie on his bed and cover it with a blanket.

When he goes into the room and finds it, he’ll smile for sure.

Or stick a note on his laptop saying:

“Hope you have a peaceful and productive day.”

He’ll find it when he opens his laptop.

If you’re far away, you can order a drink or his favorite food and have it delivered to his house.

2/ Pay Attention to Details

Notice what he needs or what he says he’s missing, and get that for him.

For example:

If you’re out with friends, call and ask him what he wants to eat, then bring it to him.

Or if you know he’s at home, send food to his place and say:

“I know you love this dish, so I got it for you.”

If you want to gift him clothes, send him pictures first and say:

“I noticed you like wearing plain white shirts. These look nice—pick one, and I’ll get it for you.”

Note: If he says he needs money, that’s your cue to run!

3/ Playfully Tease Him

It’s simple—just do something different from what you usually do.

For example:

If you usually give him a quick hug, try hugging him for a long time and don’t let go. See how he reacts.

Or if you usually kiss him once, kiss him two or three times instead.

He’ll find you super cute and want to be around you even more.

Summary: 3 Simple Things to Make Him Happy
1/ Leave a little surprise.

2/ Pay attention to details.

3/ Playfully tease him.

When he’s happy, he’ll thank you or respond positively to what you do for him.

Try it—you’ll see the difference right away.

But here’s the MOST IMPORTANT thing you need to know:

What truly makes him happy is feeling your warmth and knowing you’re trying to make him happy.

If you feel shy or hesitant about doing these things, there might be a deeper issue.

It could mean there’s a problem in your relationship.

You two might not be connected enough, and you feel like he doesn’t fully accept or appreciate you.

This hesitation might come from the fact that you’re with someone who doesn’t feel deeply for you.

If this sounds like you, My suggests you focus on making yourself happy first.

Because My worries that something unpleasant might be coming your way.

Anh My

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3 Clear Signs He’s No Longer Interested in YouHere are the 3 earliest and clearest signs to know a man is no longer inte...
12/01/2025

3 Clear Signs He’s No Longer Interested in You

Here are the 3 earliest and clearest signs to know a man is no longer interested in you.

At the end of this post, My will also show you how to handle it.

1/ He Stops Texting or Calling You First

If he used to text or call you often, saying things like:

“Good morning, hope you have a great day!”

Or asking:

“Have you eaten yet?”

But now, he rarely does this anymore.

Sometimes, he doesn’t even text at all.

You have to text him first, and when he replies, it feels like he’s just doing it to be polite.

Sometimes, you wait a long time before he responds.

This is a clear sign he’s no longer as interested as he used to be.

2/ He’s “Always Busy” – Makes Excuses Not to See You

If he always tells you things like:

“I’m busy, that’s why I replied late.”

“I have urgent work, so I can’t meet you this weekend.”

And he keeps canceling plans with you...

But then you see him posting pictures of hanging out with friends 🥴

This shows he’s busy with others, not you.

This is another sign he’s no longer interested in you.

3/ He Barely Asks About You and Replies Very Briefly
When you talk to him, you feel like he only talks about himself.

You ask him questions, and he gives short answers without asking anything back.

Or if he does ask, it’s very rare – like you ask 10 things, and he asks 2 back.

For example, he used to ask about your job, hobbies, or how your day was.

But now, he just says things like:

“Okay.”

“Normal.”

And that’s it.
He doesn’t ask anything more about you.

You’ll feel like the conversation is one-sided – you care about him, but he only replies briefly.

Why does he act like this when he’s no longer interested?

When someone doesn’t like you anymore, they want distance to live their own life freely.

Before, when he liked you, he was happy to spend time and effort on you.

Now, he’s slowly pulling away.

If you keep texting or calling him, trying to get closer...

He’ll feel annoyed and think you’ve lost your value.

And since he doesn’t like you anymore...

This will only push him away faster.

Here’s an example to help you understand:

Imagine you walk into a perfume store and pick up a bottle, but you don’t like the scent.

You put it down, but the staff keeps saying:

“Why not? This one smells amazing! Perfect for a night out!”

How would you feel?

Annoyed!

Not only annoyed, but you might also think:

“Is this perfume so bad that they’re desperate for me to buy it?”

Similarly...

If he doesn’t like you anymore, and you keep pushing...

He’ll find you annoying, see you as less valuable, and want to leave even faster.

Now, here’s how to handle it:

1/ Stop Texting First – Just Heart or Reply Briefly and Cheerềully

Don’t try to ask more questions or extend the conversation.

When you do this, he won’t feel annoyed by you.

It also shows him that you’re fine without him.

2/ Post Feminine (But Not Revealing) Photos Online
Show him that, with or without him, you’re still an attractive, valuable, and happy woman.

And you know what?

When you become more attractive, there’s a higher chance he’ll notice you again.

But if you keep chasing him, your attractiveness will drop, and he’ll run even faster.

In summary:

1/ Stop texting first – just heart his messages or reply briefly and happily.

2/ Post feminine, non-revealing pictures online.

These two steps will help you maintain your attractiveness.

The more attractive you are, the higher the chance he’ll notice you again.

And not just him – others will start noticing you too.
In short, becoming more attractive is the clearest sign that men will notice and like you.

Anh My

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