11/11/2025
I posted this Evergreen Cemetery picture here 13 years ago and got a wonderful, detailed look at the life of Margaret Hyde’s life from her neice Cindy Lavin Rodgers Perry as follows:
“Aunt Margaret was the daughter of my grandpa, Charles Edward Butterfield and his first wife Mabel Fairfield (her sister was Betty Weidemier). Mabel died of Spanish Influenza in 1919 and Grandpa married my Grandma Butterfield (Mae Lavin) in 1922 and had 4 more girls... hence the 6 Butterfield girls..They lived at 25 Prospect Street since the beginning (my Great grandfather Lavin built it for the newlyweds and the little girls). Aunt Margaret graduated from WHS in 1936 and Pembroke in 1940 and then enlisted in the army. She served in Iceland among many other duty stations and was on active duty for 12 years. I believe she was in the supply/logistics field. She served during WWIl and Korea. Once the AF was born in 48..she transfeed to that branch because of her love of flying..She often flew with my great Uncle Tom Butterfield in his private plane in the 20s and 30s..She married Jay Hyde (fellow soldier) and had my cousin Judy and then was divorced shortly afterward.. At that time, women had to be discharged if they had children so she had to leave the military. She became a teacher after her service in Southbury for 30 years..retiring there and then relocated to NY when she became ill where she died. She is listed in the Military Women's Memorial in Arlington (which can be accessed) which has her military career and anecdotes..Aunt Margaret also entered my Naval career information into the Memorial as I am the only female grandchild who served on active duty (LCDR - Navy). Aunt Margaret loved the military and was one of the most patriotic people I knew ..she loved this country and God help anyone who did not stand (at attention) when the national anthem was being played.including on TV.”