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They are using survival skills because they donât have the skills to solve the problem differently. Adults do this too.
When adults use survival skills to solve a problem, we usually describe it as a âlast resort.â To help these adults and children solve problems in other ways, they need support In skill building.
Getting to a place where youâre aware of when you need to regulate is a huge accomplishment. As a coach to teachers and parents, I help many people get to this point. However, the journey doesnât stop there. We know that there is no destination of perfect parenting or teaching, only the journey. Avoid being a perfectionist, be an improvnenist. The goal isnât to be perfect every day. The goal is to improve a little every day.
I call it âPositive Intent Pasta đ â made in a SKILLet đł.
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These situations can be tricky and they require parents and teachers to use their skills so everyone can move forward in a helpful way. The words on the side are skills being used during the conversation.
Iâm still getting messages about about how this song has helped so many adults and children during tough times. Hoping this video and song is able to help more families and classrooms as it continues to spread. Share your experiences in the comment section.
#children #teachers #parents
Adults are struggling in the same way children are. Iâm extending you grace and wishing you peace and improvement. Managing emotions and responding in a helpful way is difficult for adults and children.
The meme comes with a quick tip for you to practice today. If a child comes up to you and says, âLook at what I didâ and shows you something they made, resist the urge to interpret what they created and simply say âTell me about it.â
*Bonus Tip try to be interested. If youâre not interested what they created, maybe you can be interested in how their mind works because thatâs what theyâre showing you in that moment.