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She Say He Say "She Say...He Say" is a live TV talk show with couple, Johnell Allen-Bey & Shuntai Allen-Bey

Understanding why people cheat can be complex, as it often involves a mix of personal, relational, and situational facto...
06/10/2024

Understanding why people cheat can be complex, as it often involves a mix of personal, relational, and situational factors. Here are some common reasons why individuals may cheat on their partners:

1. Emotional Needs Not Met
Lack of Emotional Connection: If individuals feel neglected or unappreciated in their relationship, they might seek emotional intimacy elsewhere.

Desire for Validation: Some people cheat to gain attention, validation, or affirmation that they may be missing from their current relationship.

2. S*xual Dissatisfaction
Unfulfilled S*xual Needs: Discrepancies in s*xual desire or satisfaction can lead some individuals to seek fulfillment outside the relationship.
Variety and Novelty: The pursuit of new s*xual experiences or excitement might drive some to cheat.

3. Personal Issues
Low Self-Esteem: Individuals with low self-esteem may cheat to boost their confidence or self-worth.
Insecurity: Personal insecurities or fears of inadequacy can lead to seeking external validation.

4. Relationship Issues
Communication Problems: Poor communication and unresolved conflicts can create distance between partners, making infidelity more likely.
Unresolved Issues: Previous unresolved issues or ongoing dissatisfaction can push individuals to seek solace elsewhere.

5. Opportunity and Temptation
Situational Factors: Opportunities for cheating may arise in certain environments (e.g., work settings, social events), increasing the temptation.
Lack of Impulse Control: Some people might struggle with impulse control, leading to decisions they later regret.

6. Lack of Commitment
Commitment Issues: Individuals who have not fully committed to their relationship might be more inclined to cheat.
Different Values: Discrepancies in values or expectations about monogamy can influence infidelity.

7. Life Transitions and Stress
Major Life Changes: Significant life events or transitions (e.g., mid-life crisis, major career changes) can impact relationship stability and increase the likelihood of cheating.
Stress and Coping: Some individuals might cheat as a way to cope with stress or dissatisfaction in other areas of their lives.

8. Revenge or Retaliation
Seeking Revenge: Cheating can sometimes be an act of retaliation in response to perceived wrongs or past grievances in the relationship.

9. Excitement and Thrill
Desire for Thrill: The excitement and thrill of an affair can be appealing to those who crave novelty or adventure.

*0. Cultural and Societal Influences
Cultural Norms: In some cultures or social circles, infidelity may be more normalized or accepted, influencing individuals' behaviors.

11. Addictive Behaviors
S*xual Addiction: Some individuals may struggle with s*xual addiction or compulsive behaviors, leading to infidelity.

Understanding these factors can be important for addressing issues within a relationship and working toward prevention and resolution. It's essential to approach the topic with sensitivity and empathy, recognizing that each situation is unique and multifaceted. Need couples counseling? Call me today to schedule an appointment at 810.515.1931 or email: [email protected]

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Can we talk about "A**l S*x?"While a**l s*x can be a consensual and enjoyable activity for some people, there are health...
02/10/2024

Can we talk about "A**l S*x?"

While a**l s*x can be a consensual and enjoyable activity for some people, there are health risks associated with it that are important to understand. These risks can be minimized with proper precautions, but it's essential to be aware of them. Here are some common health risks associated with a**l s*x:

# # # **1. Increased Risk of S*xually Transmitted Infections (STIs)**
- **Risk:** A**l s*x has a higher risk of transmitting STIs, including HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, and human papillomavirus (HPV). The lining of the a**s is thinner and more delicate than the va**na, making it easier for infections to enter the bloodstream.
- **Prevention:** Use condoms and water-based lubricants to reduce the risk of STI transmission. Regular STI testing is also important for s*xually active individuals.

# # # **2. Tearing or Injury**
- **Risk:** The a**s is not naturally lubricated like the va**na, so a**l s*x can lead to small tears or fissures in the a**l lining. These tears can cause pain, bleeding, and increase the risk of infection.
- **Prevention:** Using plenty of lubrication, going slowly, and ensuring both partners are comfortable can help prevent injury. It's also important to listen to your body and stop if any pain occurs.

# # # **3. Bacterial Infections**
- **Risk:** Bacteria from the a**s can cause infections if it comes into contact with other parts of the body. For example, moving between a**l and va**nal s*x without changing condoms or cleaning properly can lead to bacterial infections like urinary tract infections (UTIs).
- **Prevention:** Use a new condom if switching from a**l to va**nal s*x, and practice good hygiene before and after a**l s*x.

# # # **4. F***l Incontinence**
- **Risk:** Repeated or rough a**l s*x can weaken the muscles of the a**s (sphincter muscles) over time, potentially leading to f***l incontinence (difficulty controlling bowel movements). This is more common with prolonged or forceful pe*******on.
- **Prevention:** Gentle, consensual, and properly lubricated a**l s*x is less likely to cause damage to these muscles. Avoid forceful or rough activities that may strain the a**l muscles.

# # # **5. Hemorrhoids and A**l Fissures**
- **Risk:** Hemorrhoids (swollen blood vessels in the re**um) and a**l fissures (small tears in the lining of the a**s) can occur as a result of a**l s*x, especially if lubrication is not used or the activity is rough. This can cause discomfort, pain, and bleeding.
- **Prevention:** Proper lubrication, communication, and gentleness are key to reducing the risk of hemorrhoids or fissures. If pain occurs during a**l s*x, it’s important to stop and reassess.

# # # **6. Re**al Prolapse**
- **Risk:** Re**al prolapse is a condition where part of the re**um slips outside the a**s. While rare, repeated or forceful a**l s*x can contribute to this issue.
- **Prevention:** Avoid forceful or rough pe*******on, use adequate lubrication, and pay attention to your body’s signals to prevent undue strain.

# # # **7. Risk of HPV and A**l Cancer**
- **Risk:** Human papillomavirus (HPV) can be transmitted through a**l s*x, and certain strains of HPV are linked to an increased risk of a**l cancer. People who engage in receptive a**l s*x are at a higher risk of developing a**l cancer if exposed to HPV.
- **Prevention:** Vaccination against HPV can significantly reduce the risk of contracting the virus and developing related cancers. Using condoms can also reduce the risk of HPV transmission, although it does not completely eliminate it.

# # # **8. Re**al STIs**
- **Risk:** In addition to general STIs, a**l s*x can lead to re**al infections like proctitis (inflammation of the lining of the re**um) caused by STIs such as gonorrhea, syphilis, or chlamydia.
- **Prevention:** Consistent condom use and regular testing for STIs can help prevent re**al infections. Immediate treatment is necessary if symptoms like discharge, pain, or bleeding occur.

# # # **Best Practices for Safer A**l S*x:**
- **Use Condoms:** Condoms reduce the risk of STIs and prevent bacterial infections.

- **Use Plenty of Lubrication:** Since the a**s does not self-lubricate, using a water-based or silicone-based lubricant helps prevent tearing and discomfort.

- **Go Slowly:** Ensure that both partners are comfortable, and communicate openly about any discomfort or pain.

- **Good Hygiene:** Clean the a**l area before s*x and avoid switching between a**l and va**nal s*x without proper hygiene and changing condoms.

- **Get Regular Checkups:** If you engage in a**l s*x, regular STI testing and health checkups are essential to monitor and maintain your s*xual health.

In summary, while there are risks associated with a**l s*x, they can be significantly reduced with proper precautions like using condoms, lubrication, and maintaining good communication with your partner.

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A!Myth: “Black women are judged more harshly for engaging in oral s*x.”Truth: While societal and cultural stigmas may ex...
28/09/2024

A!

Myth: “Black women are judged more harshly for engaging in oral s*x.”

Truth: While societal and cultural stigmas may exist around certain s*xual behaviors, it is important to remember that s*xual expression is deeply personal. Black women, like all people, have the right to engage in consensual s*xual activities without fear of judgment or societal expectations.

Debunking these myths is critical to creating a more inclusive and accurate understanding of s*xual health and experiences. Encouraging open and respectful dialogue about s*xual preferences and boundaries, without resorting to stereotypes, helps promote healthy s*xual relationships and dismantles damaging cultural narratives.

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Myth: “Black women don’t engage in oral s*x.”Truth: This stereotype falsely assumes that Black women are less likely to ...
27/09/2024

Myth: “Black women don’t engage in oral s*x.”

Truth: This stereotype falsely assumes that Black women are less likely to participate in or enjoy oral s*x. S*xual behaviors and preferences vary greatly among individuals, regardless of race. Black women, like all women, have diverse preferences and experiences when it comes to s*xual activities.

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If you are in a monogamous relationship with a Brother, Post your pic together.Myth: "Black men don't value monogamy."Tr...
12/09/2024

If you are in a monogamous relationship with a Brother, Post your pic together.

Myth: "Black men don't value monogamy."

Truth: The myth that Black men are less committed to monogamous relationships is both inaccurate and harmful. Like all men, Black men hold a wide range of values and attitudes toward relationships. Many Black men are committed partners who value loyalty, love, and long-term commitment.

She Say He Say with Johnell Allen @ and Shuntai Allen-Bey will be returning this fall with a new format.
06/08/2024

She Say He Say with Johnell Allen @ and Shuntai Allen-Bey will be returning this fall with a new format.

We are back! Johnell Allen & Shuntai Allen-Bey for She Say He Say Live tonight 7:30pm Soothing Tunes.Tonight’s topics:Ja...
14/01/2024

We are back! Johnell Allen & Shuntai Allen-Bey for She Say He Say Live tonight 7:30pm Soothing Tunes.

Tonight’s topics:
January 14

1. How do you know the difference between being attracted to someone and falling in love?

2. How do I get out of an open relationship when I agreed to it several years ago! Plus I am scared I might lose him.

3. My boyfriend and I disagree on women being obedient and submissive. I told him he should be that to me because I earn more and handle all the business.

4. I have a sister who wants to date my boy, but I know he's no good but my sister thinks she knows him better. How do I handle this?

5. Why do I always attract crazy women? Or women who are severely scarred?

6. When you are in a relationship should you tell your partner every time someone cuts into you? I think it causes too much confusion?

7. My husband got a new friend and she's really masculine and likes women, but she is still a female to me and I have a problem. Am I wrong to feel this way?

8. I am all mixed up because my wife has been sick for 4 years and I stepped out on her. I feel so guilty. What should I do?

9. How do I handle a man that works hard and is faithful but isn't good with money or saying No to people?

10. I just got married and I am in love but we have nothing in common accept s*x, Can this marriage make it? Please give us some tips?

11. How do I help my man go through mid life crisis?

12. How as a friend to a couple that split up still be cool with them both without falling out with one of them?

13. Why do women fake or***ms with a man they know they don’t want to be with?

14. When a lady is beautiful, educated, have money
but still single at advanced age.
What could be the problem?

13/01/2024

Don’t be shocked. Be amazed when the universe moves mountains blocking your path to greatness. The Morning Shift

09/01/2024

PSA: Ladies, your private is a self cleaning oven. Don’t put anything in it that you won’t put in your mouth 👄 *xtherapist

08/01/2024

Grand Rising,
Don’t forget to prepare yourself for the goals you set today.

08/01/2024

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Every relationship goes through challenges. If your relationship experiences infidelity, family drama, or life challenges. There's nothing wrong with seeking out extra support when you need it. You are taking responsibility by accepting where you're at in life and making a commitment to change the situation by seeking therapy. Therapy provides long-lasting benefits and support, giving you the tools you need to avoid triggers, re-direct damaging patterns, and overcome whatever challenges your relationship may face. For a limited time, I am offering couples counseling for the Introductory price of $125.00 per session for 45 minutes. Contact: Shuntai Allen-Bey @ Re-Connect My Life, Inc for more details. 810.515.1931 or visit my website: www.re-connectmylife.com

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She Say He Say is an online talk show for people interested in tackling relationship issues. Each week Shuntai and Johnell dive in to topics with a perfect mixture of humor, craft cocktails, and real talk. It’s like happy hour on steroids. If you would like to be a future guest please inbox us!