Soulstrippers

08/16/2024

08/16/2024

When I first realized this, it hit me like a brick, y’all. By being silent, passive, and un-opinionated in my people-pleasing, I was literally alienating the people who would have been best for me.

There are people out there who actively SEEK those with voice. Those who are authentic. Those who take up space; who express what they want, what they need, how they feel, and how they hurt.

These people seek healthy, balanced, and mutual connections with others. And these are the people we turn OFF when we stay silent, passive, un-opinionated, and never express what we want, need, and feel.

No doubt: We attract some people with our people-pleasing. But it rarely attracts the relationships that are healthy for us. By staying silent and passive, we often ATTRACT those who are seeking silent, passive supporting characters in their stories.

And I don’t know about you, but I’m so done with this type of relationship.

Take up space, use your voice, and be you. When this scares people away, it’s not a loss, **because they would never have been the right people for us, anyway.***

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08/16/2024

I love this! And how magical the universe is with word plays and dates. 😱🤩😍 Brilliant design plan!

2141 likes, 55 comments. “Biggest coincidence in history”

08/16/2024

You are not "crazy", you were abused...

08/16/2024

When a recovering people-pleaser’s needs are repeatedly dismissed in a relationship, something interesting often happens.

Instead of honoring our needs, we will often try to *change the fact that we have the needs we have.*

In other words, we will try to change our INTERNAL environment (our mindset) instead of our EXTERNAL environment. This is called “emotion-focused coping” in which the goal is to alter one’s emotional state, rather than the circumstances that give rise to those emotional state.

And so, bit by bit, we deny our needs for affection ⁠— for reciprocity ⁠— for care ⁠— for kindness ⁠— rationalizing, “Oh, I don’t really need this. That’s not so important. I just need to stop being so sensitive.”

But your needs matter. Our healing depends on us acknowledging this.

And if we know that a relationship will crumble if we express or advocate for our needs, that should give us serious pause.

👉 What we’re saying, then, is that this relationship ONLY WORKS when we self-neglect. That is *not* a healthy relationship.

I’ve worked with thousands of recovering people-pleasers around the world.

They say they dream of prioritizing their own needs and dreams⁠—setting empowered boundaries with confidence⁠—and trusting themselves to have their own back, even when the going gets tough.

They dream of saying NO MORE to self-abandonment and HELL YES to taking care of themselves guilt-free—basking in the joy of reciprocal relationships—and loving themselves enough to relax into play, rest, and ease.Is this your story, too?

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08/16/2024

The ancient Indian texts depict Vimanas as advanced flying contraptions that pushed the boundaries of technology in their era. These captivating stories have ignited speculations about ancient Indian encounters with extraterrestrial life forms. Could these texts serve as proof of such otherworldly interactions? Delving into the vast history of ancient Indian civilization raises questions about the existence of undiscovered technological innovations waiting to be unearthed.

08/16/2024

True 💯

08/16/2024

The covert narcissist 💯🤪!

08/16/2024

“There is no greater love story
Than finding home within yourself

There is no greater experience in life
Than feeling whole and complete on your own

There is no greater chapter in life
Than embracing all that you are
And all that you are capable of becoming

There is no greater path in life
Than discovering who you are

And there is no greater relationship
Than the one you have with yourself.

How you treat yourself sets the tone
For all of your interactions with others

How you speak to yourself
Impacts how you feel about yourself
And show up in the world

And your relationship with yourself
Sets the foundation for all others in your life.”

— Tahlia Hunter
Gratitude to unknown artist

Sacred Divine Feminine
https://EmpowerWholeness.com

08/14/2024

It is however a good way to continue to seal your vibes off from narcissistic supply and know who your true circle of friends and family are in this world.

There are lots of wolves in sheep’s clothing to help light bodies grow stronger.

People pleaser meets someone smear campaigning you with lies and projections. You have to let go of other peoples opinions of you. The truth always comes out in the end when you are pure of heart and spirit. It’s natural for a dark body to attack a light body where other light bodies don’t have that internal drive so losing a narcissist or there flying monkeys is a blessing.

Blame shifting will have to be met with shifting the blame back rather than eating someone’s bu****it soup. You’ll have to voice your opinion and be honest regardless of there reaction. No one can shift the blame on you without you accepting it.

Maintain your integrity around the flying monkeys. They are looking for dirt and drama to report to the narcissist. They want to find someone to criticize, love drama and gossip. Remember only people who feel small have the need to make others feel small.

The narcissist will also want to make sure the flying monkeys don’t get close to you. They will try to turn everyone against you because in there hearts they know the truth. You are a great person, talented and hard working with a big heart. You most likely had something they wanted to get from you. Narcissists are only “friends” with people that will serve there purpose. If you don’t fit there needs, put them on a pedestal, or let them control the narrative your officially out. An educated empath who stands solid in themselves staying in high vibes despite there toxic behaviors is the goal.

Don’t let the ego in them trigger the ego in you. They will want to bait you every chance they get. Or throw a flying monkey at you if you have gone no contact.

Don’t forget you once drank the narcissist Kool Aid too. You fell into the love bombing and victim story they presented and most likely believed or helped them too.

There’s a lot of soul growth they provide. Rather than hate or be bitter about them be grateful for the lessons 💪 and find humor on there petty little drama, lies and games 🤣 keeps s**t show Earth interesting. Once you see how they are built to help you build yourself and seal off any internal cracks it makes so much more sense.

I spent so long feeling so confused and losing my mind over why narcissists did the things they did . . getting my toxic empathy and ways that are designed to help us grow, provide us with spiritual tests and keep our wits sharp has been a blessing!

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08/13/2024

Never…………

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08/13/2024

Michio Kaku once highlighted the immense complexity of the human brain, noting its 100 billion neurons and intricate connections. This marvel of biological engineering is often considered the most complex object in the universe. However, recent studies suggest that the brain might mirror the structure of the cosmos itself. Research indicates that the organization of neurons resembles the large-scale structure of the universe, with similar patterns of connectivity and complexity. This intriguing analogy proposes that our brain could be a mini replica of the universe, suggesting that the complexities of both are intertwined in surprising and profound ways.

08/13/2024

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08/13/2024

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08/13/2024

Phoenixes 💜✌️

08/12/2024

Can we skip to the next part where we 1000 years of the golden age 💓

08/12/2024

This quote is by , whose work I LOVE. Please go follow him for more, and be sure to get his new book, “How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind”! There is nothing “unevolved" or "immature” about having consequences for others’ poor treatment. When someone disrespects us, boundaries are absolutely called for.

If we don’t assert consequences when others treat us disrespectfully, we essentially teach them that we’re *okay* with being treated that way.

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Asserting consequences doesn’t mean that we’re being vindictive or malicious or spiteful; it often means that we’re doing what we need to create safety for ourselves.

Many of us find ourselves navigating transitions out of relationships and friendships as we break the people-pleasing pattern.

These transitions can be uncomfortable, nerve-wracking, even heartbreaking⁠—but for the recovering people-pleaser, they are a once-in-a-lifetime chance to truly come home to ourselves.

08/12/2024

Lol

08/10/2024

I agree! The laws of attraction bring us our fears, judgments, imbalances and insecurities so we can work through them 💪 or repeat the wheel if we don’t learn the lesson.