01/05/2026
As we stand at the start of a new year, with to-do lists drafted, words chosen and intentions set, I want to offer you a question to consider. One that has a way of slowing us down, sharpening our focus and gently but firmly calling us to do more.
That question? "Are you a turkey person?"
Not in the holiday-meal sense, but in the way you show up for others.
Years ago, that question changed the trajectory of a football team, a community and a life. And years later, when I heard it, it did the same for me. Let me explain.
When Bill Courtney was coaching in North Memphis, he asked his team captain why there was so little engagement in the team. He learned it was because the players didn’t believe in him. They worried he’d be like all the other people who were there to “save” them. The type who show up once a year, roll down their windows, drop off a turkey for the holidays and then leave.
The players had a name for it.
Turkey people.
Then came the question that cut straight to the heart: Are you a turkey person, Coach?
Bill heard the question and realized that if his stint with the team was temporary on the way to something else- something more desirable, more opportunistic, easier- then his impact would be too. So he recommitted himself. He stayed. And showed up, again and again. And everything changed.
What started as 19 players grew to 75. A losing program became a perennial winner. And most importantly, more of his seniors went on to college.
That kind of impact is not possible with gifts from a turkey person. That’s the kind of impact that changes lives.
So my friends, as we ease into 2026, here’s the challenge for all of us. This year, let’s go beyond the generosity so popular during the holiday season.
Because consistent generosity does something powerful. It tells people they matter today, not just on special occasions. And when people feel seen consistently, they begin to believe differently about themselves and about what’s possible.
So as 2026 begins, let this be our challenge:
Be consistent.
Be generous.
Don’t be a turkey person.
And Live Inspired.
P.S. Over the years, one of my personal reminders to not be a “turkey person” has been my involvement with . I’ve learned far more than I’ve ever given, and it’s reinforced for me that real impact is built slowly through commitment, consistency, and relationships. I’d love to hear how you try to live this out in your life, too! Because stories like this have a way of encouraging all of us to keep showing up.