All Things Charyl

04/02/2024

😟 I gotta pay better attention to my YouTube channel. Folk have been commenting on my vids, talking to me, and asking questions for months, and I have not been over there. 🤦🏾‍♀️😅 I just post videos when I have something helpful to share, then go on about my life. 😩 I’m posting this to hold myself accountable for doing better. 💕

04/01/2024

ATP, I think FB lies just to get us to post bc I haven’t posted much this previous week. 😂 Happee Mondee! 😄

03/23/2024

03/20/2024

Confidence is quiet. Insecurity is loud. 

03/19/2024

IDK who needs to read this but you look good with your post 30 weight.
😻😻😻

03/14/2024

Would you say your social media experience is more positive or more negative? 🤔

After convo with a few FB friends, I’m curious to know what everyone else’s experience is like.

03/12/2024

Y’all want to call her a clown 🤡 bc your red nose was worn behind closed doors 😂 Let’s talk about it.

AD’s thirst was showing.

Based on what was shown during the season, I think AD needs to put in some more work on her .

Our hearts went out to her when she said, “I’m just never enough,” after Clay had turned her down at the alter.

But what if it’s not that she’s not enough? What if it’s that she’s too much?

She was the one putting in the work and really carrying the relationship, although Clay appeared to be making some improvements. She was really carrying the load as the one who really wanted the relationship.

If Clay was for her at that time, she wouldn’t have had to work so hard to be with him.

What’s for you is for you.

If I had a moment with AD, I would suggest she reads “The Mastery of Love.”

She may find that she so badly wants to be chosen that she just may have childhood wounds from her relationship (or lack thereof) with her father being carried into her relationships.

She mentioned something along the lines of her not thinking she’d ever end up with anyone and that she didn’t feel worthy (or something like that).

In recent years, the talk about self-love has been over done and possibly cliché at this point, yet it still holds relevance in that true love starts with self-love.

When AD truly accepts where she is and loves who she is, she’ll attract someone who adds to that, and not a person who’s taking advantage of her thirst.

Ultimately, we’re responsible for our own happiness and not our partner. I wish she would’ve understood that she’s that girl and that it was Clay’s loss at the altar, not hers.

To not give people the opportunity to play in our faces, we have to constantly check in with ourselves on our personal growth and consistently work on developing ourselves.

Self-development aids in expanding our skills, knowledge, so we may reach our full potential and build clarity around our values and goals, so we can ultimately become the best version of ourselves.

03/05/2024

Don’t play the game to win. Play the game to play the game.

02/26/2024

What we want to look for in a friend …

*a short thread based on the Hustle Free Love course I just completed*

02/21/2024

This viral 50 part story — has taken the social the media streets by storm.

Ms. ReesaTeesa was vulnerable prey to a predatorial pathological liar.

And this is why, in all stages of life, we have to prioritize personal growth.

Instead of working on her relationship with herself and assessing and evaluating where she was in her life in regards to the things she wanted for herself, she got caught up on external things that she wanted to have.

Sometimes we fixate on life milestones and things we think we’re “supposed to have at a certain time,” and we forget that it’s all in divine timing.

We just have to make sure we’re in the right place (centered) to receive those desires when the time is right.

She was so desperate to “have” that she ignored the red flags of the United Nations, as she likes to say.

It doesn’t matter what we have and what milestones we reach, if we’re not together on the inside, those things won’t matter at all.

Prioritize your personal growth and well-being over everything, otherwise, you might end up on TikTok telling a 50 part story that you’re still healing from.

I hope ReesaTeesa gets the help she needs and learns to trust herself again.

This story was wild, and it can happen to anyone.

She’s afraid to trust again, but I’m pretty sure, she’ll move differently from now on.

Fortunately and unfortunately, her experience with Legion was a part of her personal growth story.

💛🩷🩵💙💚

02/21/2024

The flag is red for a reason. 🥴 Intuition matters!

02/14/2024

Sooo … Snow Days at home are cool, but you want to know what’s not cool? Leaving 15 minutes behind schedule (the following day post snow storm) because your car is buried in snow and you’re stuck in your parking spot. 😩 We don’t have a shovel. I was out there kicking the snow y’all. 🙃🤦🏾‍♀️🫠🤣

02/13/2024

😂😂😂 I was originally feeling a way about this snow storm until I realized … it means I can gladly stay home tomorrow. Snow Day me please *sips tea* 🍵

01/02/2024

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10/03/2023

If you want more confidence, do more of this!

09/27/2023

I've received 100 reactions to my posts in the past 30 days. I appreciate the love! 🙏🏾🤗🎉

09/09/2023

In need of a mindset shift? Listen to this‼️

08/25/2023

Hey 👋🏾 you! I’ve gained new followers from engaging on the posts of others, and some of y’all got here, and it’s been crickets. 😩 I started out strong posting daily for months (even in the midst of my miscarriage in January). Then life happened again, and I experienced another dramatic and traumatic shift that resulted in my moving to NY after living in PA for ten months.

I’ve been doing my best to hang in there and mostly posting lighthearted posts mostly geared towards laughter on my personal profile. Charyl Williams

That’s all I got right now. Just wanted to do a check-in post. At some point, I will be back with content around beauty, health and wellness.

I just have to focus on filling my cup right now, before I can pour into anyone else’s cup.

I hope, like me, you’re hanging in there, and I pray this year ends on a 𝓫𝓮𝔂𝓸𝓷𝓭 𝓫𝓵𝓮𝓼𝓼𝓮𝓭 note for all of us.

💚🧡🩷💫

08/25/2023

A Rihanna fashion appreciation post! 😌

08/16/2023

Celebrating my 3rd year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉