Oluchi Sonia Okwenna aka Queenideas

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Oluchi Sonia Okwenna aka Queenideas

Many People say they are inspired by my Courage, Resilience and Intelligence in living above Muscular Dystrophy.
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Good Morning,

TIQS 🤎

27/11/2024
07:53

12/25/2024

Enjoy joy, love, peace, grace and good health today and always as we celebrate the Birthday of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Merry Christmas to you and your Family 😍🎁🍾🥂

TIQS 🤎

25/12/2024
14:37

12/24/2024

Wasn’t it just few hours ago that we were making a list for Foodstuffs and Drinks for our Christmas
Celebration tomorrow? I didn’t foresee any gloominess around.

My new Caregiver who helped me with bathing didn’t mop the floor of the bathroom and also didn’t take the room key as I told her before running out for Shopping because it was getting late.

I had just managed to dish out a small portion of porridge Potatoes, a piece of peppered Pomo and a piece of Titus Fish which were for my Lunch/Dinner. That portion was not going to satisfy me but if I should take a little more, I may not be able to lift the plate to my work table.

I succeeded with lifting the plate to my table and went to the bathroom to p*e. There was a small bucket of water wrongly positioned by my Caregiver. That was going to obstruct me from the way I would position to p*e. I tried my best to push it away with my right leg.

Then I went out to get rag which I started to kick towards the bathroom so that I would use it to mop the floor. Just as I started to mop the floor with it, I fell landing forcefully with my waist. Thanks to God, I didn’t break my waist because the force with which I landed on the floor was intense and I didn’t also hit nor injured any other part of my body, it would have been more disastrous, you know.

I would have used the mopping stick but it was wet already and there were many things obstructing me from reaching it.

Whenever I am alone in the House, I carry a phone about for fear that I may fall so that if that happens, I could call someone to come help me. I moved with my buttocks to get closer to where my phone was then crawled my fingers on the wall in a bid to grab my phone which I had positioned on the wall by the Bathroom sink.

I dialed my Caregiver to come help me get up from the floor. The saddest part was that I had locked my room door for safety and would need to move with my buttocks from the bathroom to the room and then to the door of the room in order to open it.

But if my Caregiver had locked the door and gone with the key as I told her, even if I fall, I wouldn’t need to move to anywhere, I could remain where I fell till help comes.

The entrance to my bathroom is very narrow because of my wardrobe and my handbags that are hanging by its side and they face the bathroom entrance taking up some of its space. There is also a curtain there. How was I going to move out from that narrow entrance with my buttocks? I pondered. 🤔

If I wouldn’t do that then the only option would be to destroy the lock in order to unlock the door and that would mean more expenses plus the uncertainty of getting a Carpenter that would come immediately to repair it.

I started to drag my naked buttocks gradually as much as possible towards the bathroom entrance. I was wearing a short gown and it pulls up by itself when I am walking. I felt irritated thinking about how my buttocks was going to pass through the doormat.

I must have spent about 30 mins trying to pass through the narrow entrance of the bathroom. One of my handbags which had many things inside was making it even more difficult for me to move my head as it was hanging by the corner, and I must move my head to that corner in order to propagate the rest of my body forward.

While I dragged myself by my buttocks to move, I was also using my hands to get my naked buttocks off the floor as it was magnetic to the tiles I sat on. My Caregiver had been back a long time ago waiting outside for me to get to the door to open it.

I bursted into tears as I struggled to move with my buttocks, my legs were already hurting and tired. I finally succeeded to drag myself out of the bathroom. There was another Chair obstructing my way.

I managed to push it away too and continued moving forward with my buttocks, it was damn hard! I bursted into tears all the more, knowing that I wouldn’t have been in this awful situation had my Caregiver had mopped the bathroom floor or at least gone with the keys, She would have been able to get in to come help me up.

As I made progress towards the door, I got to my Kitchen door, I could see my Caregiver p*eping in from the Kitchen window. She must have wondered how much longer it would take me to get to the room door. It took me about another 25 mins before I finally got to the room door then reversed my body to position in a way that would enable me open the door.

Meanwhile my Caregiver had been encouraging me to try and get to the door and open it so she could come in and get me up. I finally unlocked the door but I must make way for her to be able to get in because again the space is narrow.

I started to drag my buttocks again, this time, away from the door till there was enough space for my Caregiver to get in. She finally got in, I lamented how all these would been prevented had she listened to me and mopped the bathroom floor and also went out with the key.

We both cried and comforted each other, then she grabbed the small stool which I normally use to support my legs when sitting on my work chair.

She lifted me up to the Stool, we rested a little while then she lifted me from the stool to stand. My legs were shaking as I tried to stand on my feet. The process of lifting me was really painful and strenuous on my body, it hurts my body so much. I could also see it was difficult on her path.

Thankfully the awful situation is over. I am sitting on my bed as I type this.

Muscular Dystrophy is such an ugly disease but it must have a cure in this my lifetime in Jesus name, Amen
🙏

That being said, let the Christmas Celebration begins 😄.

Merry Christmas in advance 🎁🎉😍

TIQS 🤎

24/12/2024
22:32

12/23/2024

What are you talking about? Na God Dey lift Pesin up o.

You go just Dey your dey, dey hustle your tin, one day, opportunity wey you neva dream abi go fin you come. Na God dey runam 😄

Abi no be so? 😄

TIQS 🤎

23/12/2024
13:33

12/23/2024

Make a statement that has the word “Life” in it.

I will go first.

Life na jeje.

Good Morning,

TIQS 🤎

24/12/2024
06:21

12/22/2024

Join me for my night devotion

12/21/2024

The reason I have been inconsistent with posting.

Did you notice my inconsistency?

TIQS 🤎

21/12/2024
14:00

12/21/2024

I love this Babe called Aisha Ummu Bande, despite I haven’t met her before. Her comments just has a way of penetrating my heart and uplifting my soul. She makes me smile.

Do you know she calls me Omalicham?

‘Omalicha’ is an Igbo word and it means “very beautiful,’ so the ‘m’ added at the end means the person is saying you are theirs; so to translate Omalicham in English will be “mine that is very beautiful.”

Aisha, I love you and can’t wait to meet you in Person 😍

Please help me appreciate my top fan Aisha Ummu Bande with my favorite emoji 🤎

TIQS 🤎

21/12/2024
13:38

12/18/2024

What I am having for Breakfast/lunch, Rechauffe Jollof Rice and Porridge Beans with peppered Pomo and fried head of Titus fish.

You needed to see how I struggled to bring down the small portable pot which I used in warming up these food.

Also frying the head of fish was pretty hard for me. But the hardest part of serving this food was lifting it up to my work-table which is pretty high (tailored to suit my Chair so that I wouldn’t need someone to help me get up like I always do from a Seat with a regular height).

But I am grateful that I eventually could serve myself and eat 💪

I haven’t posted in a while, did you notice? 😉

Anyways, what are you having for Lunch?

TIQS 🤎

18/12/2024
13:11

12/14/2024

I went through very difficult times these past few weeks (I hope it will be over soon), and I learned one important lesson that I don’t think I will ever forget.

A good person is a good person, you don’t need to impress them to be good to you and a bad person is a bad person, no matter how you try to impress them, whatever bad they intend to do to you, they will still do it.

Most straightforward people are usually misunderstood and perceived as bad, maybe because they don’t cover up their mistakes, they own it, say it and don’t mind apologizing as many times as possible.

But the pretenders are often the ones seen as good and they usually seem to have more supporters. But whatever the case is, I would rather remain straightforward.

know this, anyone who has a problem with being straightforward is the one with the problem.

If you are a straightforward person, can you wave in the comments? 👋

TIQS 🤎

14/12/2024
15:00

12/07/2024

Big shout out to my newest top fans! 💎

I appreciate you all 👏👏👏🎉😍

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TIQS 🤎

01/12/2024
15:15

12/06/2024

If Someone who is supposed to be close to you (your Cousin or Sibling or Friend Maybe) has been showing less concern about you; even when you tell them you are in problem and need their help yet they don’t send you (they don’t care) suddenly happen to be in a close space with you and wants to do some catching up by asking you questions about your life.

How would you respond?

Mine will be “NO COMMENTS!”

You can see it’s in capital letter? Meaning I will respond like that confidently.

As long as you don’t care about me, you should know nothing about my life updates. That’s it.

People take relationships for granted. You have to sow to reap.

How would you respond jari?

TIQS 🤎

10:30
06/12/2024

12/05/2024

You can’t claim to be a good person but show less concern for those that are supposed to be a big part of your life.

They said charity begins at home.

Love is indeed a verb.

Good morning.

TIQS 🤎

04/12/2024
06:57

12/02/2024

On Saturday, the 30th of November 2024, at Central Park, Abuja

I suddenly got hungry for white shirts, what could be the reason?

Could it be a psychological factor as I tend to need help when I go out such as getting out of the car, getting up from the chair, etc, it’s important I look neat, attractive and approachable and I think wearing a white shirt helps me achieve that, right? 😊

TIQS 🤎

02/12/2024
18:51

12/01/2024

Let me be the first to wish you a Happy New, Happy Sunday and Good Morning, 😍

TIQS 🤎

01/12/2024
05:31

11/30/2024

Some people don’t know what those that have God enjoy, one is discernment.

No matter how someone pretends to be harmless, our Spirit always warn us against the person and sometimes even show us in the dream.

We are enjoying o, God is enjoyable 😍

Good Morning, if you are enjoying God, raise your two hands in the air 🙌

TIQS 🤎

30/11/2024
08:32

11/29/2024

I've received 100,000 reactions to my posts in the past 30 days. Thanks for your support. 🙏🤗🎉🤎

TIQS 🤎

29/11/2024
10:25

11/29/2024

The Person you were putting your mind on disappointed you, it was the person you thought wasn’t good enough that was there for you, right?

Good Morning,

29/11/2024
10:17

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I invite you to join us to create awareness about the struggles that people with disabilities experience in accessing Buildings, infrastructures and spaces in Nigeria, it’s really difficult for us to cope with inaccessibility as our health challenges pose enough threats on us already. You can join us to create this awareness by sharing our Videos on the hashtag #accessibilitycampaign2024 Thank you and God bless you as you do so. If you are a PWD in Nigeria, make videos of your struggles with accessing places in Nigeria and post on Social Media with the hashtag #accessibilitycampaign2024 Good Morning, TIQS 🤎 27/11/2024 07:53

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Life of Queenideas above Muscular Dystrophy. TIQS 🤎, 22/11/2024, 16:12

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