
02/19/2025
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VULNERABLE POST ALERT. 🚨
Im writing this in hopes I can inspire an equestrian going through a hard time right now. I watch riders get frustrated with runs when they aren’t placing well or winning and they’ve maybe been competing for a year sometimes more maybe 3 or 4? That sounds like a lot right? Not to me.
I competed for 10 YEARS before I won my first buckle. I was that girl that went to high school rodeos and NEVER won. I went to jackpots for YEARS to maybe place in the 4D. I’m telling you if someone should have quit it was me. I was running a horse someone gave to me, she was so little everyone used to say she looked like a yearling at 5 years old, she wasn’t even broke and she had been broke less then a year when I started taking her to rodeos because she was all I had. I took some lessons and worked for trainers but was mostly self taught when it came to barrels so I learned from trial and error.
Why did I even continue? Persistence. I have this gift (sometimes I feel like it’s a curse because it gets exhausting) that when I fail I just keep going. I could make a bad run, learn from it, and pick myself up and just go to the next one! In my head I would be thinking “One day, it will all pay off!”…
And it has…. Not in the way I thought it would. I had starry eyed NFR dreams and that’s how I thought it would pay off instead my persistence has built me a career. Not having a “broke” horse taught me to train my own and now I get paid to train others! Trial and error on the pattern helped me so now I can teach other what NOT to do and how to improve their runs, because “Hey, I’ve been there!” Losing and having to get up after every run has helped me coach my riders with positivity and encourage them to keep going. I know my persistence will keep taking me places and I still think to myself “One day, it will all pay off!”