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NicoleT I help burnout corporate women live a more abundant life by creating a high profit income online!

When I walked away from my career, people whispered.“She wasted her degree.”“She’ll regret it.”At first, their words stu...
10/16/2025

When I walked away from my career, people whispered.
“She wasted her degree.”
“She’ll regret it.”

At first, their words stung. I wondered if they were right. I wondered if I was crazy.

But here’s what I realized: the only people who shame you for starting over are the ones too afraid to do it themselves.

Most people will stay in jobs, relationships, or lifestyles they hate just because they’re scared of how it looks to “start from scratch.”

They’d rather cling to the familiar than face the truth that they’re miserable.

But here’s the thing: you’re not starting from scratch.

You’re starting with everything you’ve learned. Every scar. Every lesson. Every ounce of wisdom. That’s not zero. That’s leverage.

When I reset, it wasn’t weakness. It was the strongest move I’ve ever made.

Because it meant I valued myself more than a title, more than a paycheck, more than other people’s approval.

Staying stuck isn’t safe. It’s slow self-destruction. Starting over isn’t shameful, it’s the moment you finally decide to live.












10/16/2025

Simple thangs

Overwhelm is rarely about too much, it’s about saying yes to things beneath your standard. “Overwhelm = Standards Too Lo...
10/16/2025

Overwhelm is rarely about too much, it’s about saying yes to things beneath your standard.

“Overwhelm = Standards Too Low”

Overwhelm isn’t always too much on your plate, it’s too little clarity.

Low standards make you say yes to everything.

That over-commitment buries you under your own expectations.

Raising standards = protecting your bandwidth.

Start small: cut one “empty yes” this week.

Watch how clarity returns when your standards rise.

DM “PEACE” for the tool I use to realign.












There was a point where I thought something was wrong with me.I wasn’t sad. I wasn’t joyful. I wasn’t angry. I was just…...
10/15/2025

There was a point where I thought something was wrong with me.
I wasn’t sad. I wasn’t joyful. I wasn’t angry. I was just… blank.

I thought I was depressed. But I wasn’t broken, I was bored.

That’s what happens when your life becomes a loop of survival.

Wake up, commute, work, sleep, repeat. You stop feeling not because you’re weak, but because your spirit has checked out.

Numbness isn’t resilience. It’s resignation. It’s your soul waving a white flag while your body keeps going through the motions.

I’d scroll at night just to feel something. I’d look forward to weekends, but even then, I didn’t feel alive, I just felt less dead. That’s not normal, even if millions are living that way.

When I started building my business, the first thing that came back wasn’t money. It was curiosity. Energy. A spark. That feeling of being human again. And once I felt it, I knew: I had been starving.

You’re not broken. You’re not lazy. You’re not unmotivated. You’re just trapped in a system designed to dull you.

And the only way back to feeling alive is to stop feeding the machine and start building something that feeds you.








If budgeting and saving were just about math, everyone would be rich.But money isn’t logical. It’s emotional.Every decis...
10/15/2025

If budgeting and saving were just about math, everyone would be rich.

But money isn’t logical. It’s emotional.

Every decision you make with money comes from the stories you carry:
– Maybe you grew up hearing “we can’t afford that,” so you still feel guilty spending.
– Maybe your parents fought about bills, so you avoid looking at your accounts.
– Maybe you were told “money is evil,” so you sabotage yourself anytime you start to get ahead.

Until you heal your money story, no financial strategy will stick.

Suze Orman says it best: people don’t have money problems, they have self-worth problems.

And it’s true. Money only magnifies who you believe yourself to be.

If you believe you’re undeserving, you’ll overspend to fill the void. If you believe you’re powerless, you’ll stay in debt.

The shift happens when you realize that changing your money starts with changing you.

Budgeting matters. Investing matters. But the identity you’re carrying into every decision? That matters more.

Heal the story, and you heal the money.








I used to believe loyalty mattered in corporate.I thought if I worked harder, proved myself, went the extra mile, I’d be...
10/14/2025

I used to believe loyalty mattered in corporate.

I thought if I worked harder, proved myself, went the extra mile, I’d be rewarded.

The truth? The paycheck was never loyalty. It was a leash.

It kept me obedient. It kept me silent. It kept me giving the best of myself to a company that could cut me loose the second their numbers didn’t add up.

We love to believe we’re part of something bigger. That the “family culture” means protection.

That if we just keep proving ourselves, we’ll be safe.

But corporations don’t protect people. They protect profit. Always.

I’ll never forget the day I watched coworkers escorted out with cardboard boxes after years of service.

They had sacrificed everything, holidays, family time, health, and still, they were disposable.

That’s when it clicked: the betrayal wasn’t the layoff. The betrayal was every single day they believed they were safe.

The leash might feel comfortable. It might even feel secure. But don’t mistake it for loyalty.

The second you stop serving them, it tightens.

And if that scares you, it should. Because it’s the wake-up call you need.








10/14/2025

This is Tamara & Mark. They wanted more time together, not just weekends squeezed between work, but real moments to make memories.

Since joining this business, they’ve been able to enjoy camping trips, family time, and a lifestyle that actually feels aligned with what matters most.

With the leverage of our automated systems and the support of an incredible community, they’ve built a path to more time freedom and possibility.

Come listen to Tamara share why this was the perfect fit for her and her husband.

If this sounds interesting and you’re curious to learn more, DM me the word “ready” and I’ll send you the webinar that breaks down exactly how we’re creating more time freedom through this business.








I used to think I was being paid fairly for my work.But when I zoomed out, I realized something gutting: my paycheck was...
10/13/2025

I used to think I was being paid fairly for my work.

But when I zoomed out, I realized something gutting: my paycheck wasn’t freedom. It was permission.

Permission to leave at 5.
Permission to travel when HR approved my PTO.
Permission to rest when my sick days were available.

That’s not ownership. That’s captivity with benefits.

The grind convinces us that this is normal.

That this is security. That this is adulthood.

But let me ask you, since when did adulthood mean giving away your hours, your health, your family time, just so someone else can decide when you’re allowed to live?

I remember sitting in traffic, watching the sun go down through my windshield, and realizing: this isn’t living. This is leasing my life.

And the lease terms were brutal: five days for two, 50 weeks for two.

When I built my business, I didn’t just gain money.

I gained back my hours. My mornings are mine. My schedule is mine.

If I want to walk my dogs in the middle of the day or take my laptop to the beach, I don’t ask permission, I just do it.

And that’s when it hit me: if you don’t own your income, you don’t own your time.

And if you don’t own your time, you don’t own your life.

The clock is ticking either way. The only question is, are you spending your hours building someone else’s future, or your own?












Gratitude is powerful, but not when it’s used as a leash.“Be grateful you have a job.”“Don’t complain, it pays the bills...
10/13/2025

Gratitude is powerful, but not when it’s used as a leash.

“Be grateful you have a job.”
“Don’t complain, it pays the bills.”
“You should be lucky to have benefits.”

Sound familiar?

These are phrases we were fed to keep us small.
To stay silent.
To tolerate less than we deserve.

But here’s the truth: gratitude and growth can co-exist.
You can be thankful and still want more.

So yes, be grateful.

But also ask: what is this paycheck costing you?

Is it draining your creativity?
Stealing your time with your kids?
Suppressing your voice?
Making you forget who you are?

You were never meant to trade your entire life for just enough to survive.

Gratitude is not the same thing as settling.












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