NicoleT

NicoleT I help burnout corporate women live a more abundant life by creating a high profit income online!

When I first started, I was scared to death of failing.What would people think? Would they laugh? Would I prove everyone...
09/06/2025

When I first started, I was scared to death of failing.

What would people think? Would they laugh?

Would I prove everyone right who said I couldn’t do it?

Here’s what I learned: failure isn’t the end. It’s the feedback.

You fail forward. You learn. You adjust. You grow.

But quitting? Quitting guarantees you stay stuck exactly where you are.

Every skill I have today, mentorship, content, and leadership was born in the fire of failing, figuring it out, and trying again.

You don’t need to be fearless. You just need to be brave enough to start, fail, and rise again.

DM “RISE” if you’re ready to fail forward instead of fail by standing still.








I gave corporate my loyalty. My nights. My weekends.And when the budget shifted? I was disposable.That’s the betrayal no...
09/05/2025

I gave corporate my loyalty. My nights. My weekends.

And when the budget shifted? I was disposable.

That’s the betrayal no one prepares you for.

You think if you play by the rules, they’ll protect you.

But companies don’t protect people. They protect profit.

When my dad lost his pension after a health scare, I realized how fragile that illusion really was.

Decades of service, and nothing to show for it when life happened.

That was the moment I swore I’d never rely on someone else’s bottom line again.

Now, my income isn’t tied to quarterly reviews or layoffs.

It’s tied to me. To my effort, my growth, my leadership.

And no corporation can take that away.

DM “SECURE” if you’re ready to stop being disposable.









I thought I was safe because I had a steady job, predictable pay, and benefits.But the truth? I wasn’t safe. I was small...
09/04/2025

I thought I was safe because I had a steady job, predictable pay, and benefits.

But the truth? I wasn’t safe. I was small.

Comfort zones are sneaky. They feel like security, but they’re actually suffocation.

You stop stretching. You stop creating. You stop dreaming.

And before you know it, years have passed, and nothing has changed.

Leaving wasn’t about being fearless. I was terrified.

But fear wasn’t the problem. Stagnation was.

Every good thing in my life today came from discomfort.

Speaking on video when I wanted to hide.

Investing when I wanted to cling to safety. Saying yes when I wanted to wait.

Discomfort is where the magic lives.

Comfort is just where you slowly disappear.

DM “OUT” if you’re done decorating your coffin.












Why You Keep Setting the Bar Too Low”1. Your brain is wired for comfort, even when it’s holding you back.2. Fear tells y...
09/04/2025

Why You Keep Setting the Bar Too Low”

1. Your brain is wired for comfort, even when it’s holding you back.

2. Fear tells you “this is enough” to avoid rejection or failure.

3. Over time, this teaches you to normalize crumbs instead of asking for the cake.

4. Settling lowers your self-trust because you stop proving to yourself what you’re capable of.

5. Awareness is step one: notice where “easy” feels safe but not satisfying.

6. Raising the bar means reclaiming your identity, not becoming “difficult.”

Most of us don’t “choose” low standards, we slide into them because comfort feels safer than risk.

But over time, this eats at your self-worth.

Episode 440 of Do You Fcking Mind? breaks this down in detail.

Want my reset tool?

DM me “STANDARDS.”












For years, when people asked me who I was, I answered with my job.I didn’t even realize how much I had reduced myself to...
09/03/2025

For years, when people asked me who I was, I answered with my job.

I didn’t even realize how much I had reduced myself to a role on someone else’s payroll.

But the day I walked away, I felt lost because without the job, who was I?

That’s identity collapse.

When you’ve invested so much into performing for a system that you forget you’re a person outside of it.

Here’s the good news: you can rebuild.

Not as “employee of the month,” not as “the reliable one,” but as YOU.

When I started this business, I remembered the version of me I hadn’t seen since I was young.

The curious, creative, bold me that corporate had suffocated.

Your job is what you do. It is not who you are.

DM “ME” if you’re ready to reclaim the person hiding under your title.








When you hear the word debt, what’s the first thing you feel? Anxiety. Shame. Guilt.That’s because most of us were raise...
09/03/2025

When you hear the word debt, what’s the first thing you feel? Anxiety. Shame. Guilt.

That’s because most of us were raised to believe all debt is bad.

Parents said “Don’t borrow money.” Schools never taught us how to use it. Society drilled in the belief that debt = irresponsible.

But here’s the truth wealthy people know: Debt is a tool. And tools aren’t good or bad. They just depend on how you use them.

Bad debt is borrowing money for something that loses value the second you buy it.

Credit cards for clothes, new cars that depreciate the minute you drive them off the lot, and financing vacations you can’t afford.

This debt takes money out of your future. It drains you, weighs on you, and doesn’t give you anything in return.

Good debt is borrowing money to acquire an asset that pays you back more than you owe.

Think rental property that generates monthly cash flow, education or mentorship that gives you skills to earn more, or financing a system that allows you to build an online business.

This debt actually buys your freedom.

Here’s the kicker: wealthy people don’t avoid debt. They master it. They use leverage to build wealth faster than their own cash flow ever could.

Meanwhile, the middle class stays stuck because they avoid debt entirely, or worse, they take on the wrong kind.

The difference comes down to financial literacy. Ignorance costs more than any interest rate ever will.

So here’s your Wisdom Wednesday challenge: Look at your debt and ask yourself…

– Is this keeping me chained, or is this setting me free?

– Did this purchase lose value, or is it building wealth?

If you start filtering every decision through that lens, you’ll stop fearing debt and start mastering it.

Because the truth is… debt isn’t the enemy. Ignorance is.








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