Couples Peace Place

02/10/2025

02/06/2025

But I wonder why you are called pastor Shola. Lately, after listening to many of your videos, I realized I am the unbeliever. Your teaching about Christianity opened my eyes, and my mind cleared. I allowed the church to control my marriage. Our pastor manipulated us, pulled my husband to his side, and ruined our marriage. He was asked to start a church and funded it himself; this affected our finances, and we had to move 3 of our kids to public school. He sold his own car, and we managed mine. He spends 80% of his time running after members and planning how to grow the church. At one time, I asked if the church's growth was a competition between him and the others. Finally, I found my husband spraying something around the church and our house. Last week, I saw him inside the bathroom, speaking to himself. A man who started his Christian journey well is now compromising for the sake of money and members. Dr. Shola, I am scared for my kids, they are not doing well in school, joy as finally left my home and we hardly sleep together. I need help.

02/05/2025

I was watching; this man took a loan from my pastor and bought a ticket to Nigeria. He renewed his Naija passport, but he didn't tell me anything. I returned from the night shift about 8 days ago and met his bag in the living room. He then said he would be leaving for Lagos tonight. Dr. Shola, I was about to tell him I was pregnant, but I kept it. He left, and it's 7 days now, and he has yet to call and check on me. I called him, but he was always busy. What do you advise I should do? I think this guy wants to use me.

02/04/2025

She fought my mother, too. When you ask her why, she will start to cry like egbere. She fought me for cu***ng too fast, and she said more intimacy. Dr. Shola, I watched one of your shows when you advised men never to marry any too religious woman. I think I messed up. We don't talk at the moment, and I asked that we go for counseling, but she refused. I can't live this way. I am tired.

02/02/2025

A 36-year-old United States-based Nigerian cardiologist, Ikenna Erinne, has reportedly committed su!cid£ after losing a child support case to his ex-wife. The incident occurred on Sunday, January 26.

The Anambra-state-born late doctor had a prolonged divorce battle with his estranged wife, including the custody of their children. He, however, lost the case after a US court ruled in favour of his ex-wife and ordered him to pay a monthly child support of $15,000.

Confirming the incident in a post shared on X.com, a Nigerian-American, Clayton Udo, said the court’s verdict took a severe financial toll on him, leading to his tragic deat #.

He wrote, “The abuse of African men in the USA must come to an end. In a deeply troubling case, Dr. Ikenna Erinne, an American-trained cardiologist, allegedly took his own life after an American court ordered him to pay his ex-wife $15,000 monthly, following a prolonged and contentious divorce case. This tragic incident highlights the systemic issues within the legal system that disproportionately affect African men.”

Udo, who claimed to be an expert in psychological and mental abuse, revealed that the deceased had spent thousands of dollars in legal fees before the court’s verdict turned out in favour of his ex-wife.

He further explained that the late doctor lost his license as a cardiologist to the case, adding that he died after shooting himself.

“He shot himself to deat #. He spent thousands of dollars in legal fees – wasted money. I am talking about a process that impoverishes you. You go to court and they take all your money.

“He lost his license as a cardiologist in this case plus they slammed on him 15,000 dollars a month plus restricted access to his children,” he added.

Born on March 4, 1988, Dr. Erinne is survived by his children Ugonna and Munachi, parents Engr. Chris and Mrs. Chinwe Erinne, and siblings Chuks, Onyi, Kenny, and Gechi.
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01/31/2025

The truth is that it has not been easy for me economically but I make sure that I play my role as the man in the house. I married her upon graduation from the university and I opened a business for her but she became a different person the moment she started making money. I don't want to go into details. I invested in her thinking that she will support me with feeding expenses while I take care of our house rent and children school fees and other issues but the way this woman agonize anytime she cooks a pot of soup with her money ehhh. She has been going around telling people that the load is too much on her. Shola, I have two houses in the East where I collect rent but daily income has been my problem. I have a business but sales has been down. I pay our house rent, school fees of almost 500k every term and more during first terms. I buy solid food stuffs like yam, rice, garri and beverages once I have money but my wife can ever appreciate my efforts. She has weaponized herself, s*x and intimacy to coearce me into relocation but I am not moved. Communication is almost non existent because I refused to meet her condition. I told her to go while I take care of the children here, she said that I should release the children, I told her that I don't have a problem but she has to tell me how she will take care of three children in a country where she has nobody to help her. The reason I am writing you is about something that happened on the 27th of December last year. I noticed that this lady looks at me strangely anytime I am sleeping but on this day, I was lying down and in my sleep it was as if I was dreaming, she came into the room, staring at me with a vicious look on her face, I wasn't sure if it was a dream or real but I opened my eyes slightly, I saw that it was real, then I shook my legs and she quickly removed her face. I feel that this lady is about to harm me. Let me state that there is no issue about cheating here, in fact my Pastor once asked her if I was cheating and she answered no. It's been so challenging but I will not let my children down so divorce is not an option unless she initiates it. There's been several interventions by family and Pastor but no improvement. She has been involved with toxic friends who are obviously misleading her. She has been very supportive but the cost is to much casting me as an irresponsible man. The truth is that cheating is not on my table because I like beautiful women but I don't have the resources and time to maintain one now. I am only concerned about this look. What could she be up to?