Roll with Cole & Charisma

Roll with Cole & Charisma Follow our journey as an inter-abled and in*******al couple! Living our best lives together! :)

01/03/2025

We've waited months for THIS!! 😳

01/01/2025

We love getting the chance to help teach others!

12/28/2024

A look back at one of our favorite Christmases 🎄

Merry Christmas from our family to yours!! 🎄🥰Here are some photos from the last 8 Christmases together!
12/26/2024

Merry Christmas from our family to yours!! 🎄🥰

Here are some photos from the last 8 Christmases together!

12/25/2024

Throwback to when we tried to stay up all night on Christmas Eve 🎄🥱

Our first co-modeling gig ever! 🤩A few months back, Pottery Barn hired us to model for their new wheelchair accessible f...
12/23/2024

Our first co-modeling gig ever! 🤩

A few months back, Pottery Barn hired us to model for their new wheelchair accessible furniture line in partnership with Michael Graves!

We were very excited as it was the first time we’ve modeled like this together, especially on such a big campaign. And as you all know, we LOVE Pottery Barn!

What makes this furniture accessible, you may ask? Some accessible features include:
- 9” wheelchair friendly ground clearance under beds, dressers, nightstands
- Grab rails for grip balance and standing
- Easy to use one handed hardware
- Integrated armrest on bed frame to help with sitting, standing, and repositioning
- Built-in bench on bed frame that provides a stable spot for dressing
- And much more!

It’s also beautiful which is another reason why we love having this line in our own home!

Pottery Barn has been our longest partnership ever and we love their commitment to accessible furniture that’s beautiful. We’re excited to see where the line continues to develop!

https://www.potterybarn.com/shop/new/accessible-home/

12/22/2024

🎶 When the moon hits your eye like a big pizza pie! 🎶 🍕

12/18/2024

A look back at our trip to Mexico 🇲🇽

It’s been 7 years since our first date! Pretty wild how quickly time has passed; I still remember it like it was yesterd...
12/01/2024

It’s been 7 years since our first date! Pretty wild how quickly time has passed; I still remember it like it was yesterday.

Charisma really caught me off guard that night. I was super nervous, as all the dates I had been on were largely centered around my disability, my accident, and what rehab was like. I hated that. I never really felt like they were about getting to know each other, and that’s what I yearned for. Especially with Charisma, because man, was I crushing on her hard!

Sure enough, Charisma was different. From the jump, she asked questions about me as a person, and I got to know her as well. It might sound like what you’d expect on a first date, but oftentimes things go differently when you’re disabled.

In hindsight, it’s no surprise, because Charisma is just special like that. I feel so lucky every day that we found each other, and that’s 7 years later our love and friendship is stronger than ever!

Here’s a few photos from our first year together!

Our niece is ONE today! 😭🥰 Where did the time go?! Happy birthday to the cutest, sassiest, and sweetest little girl! 🤍 Y...
11/25/2024

Our niece is ONE today! 😭🥰 Where did the time go?! Happy birthday to the cutest, sassiest, and sweetest little girl! 🤍 Your parents are doing an incredible job!

4 years ago today this dingus was brought into our lives. Since then, she has picked up approximately 417,632 items and ...
11/21/2024

4 years ago today this dingus was brought into our lives. Since then, she has picked up approximately 417,632 items and placed them on my lap, and received around 3,096,478 pets/kisses 🐕‍🦺

Vote in the comments which Sophie shot is your fave!!

📸: studiotwelve52

Ever spent over 3 hours on the phone trying to book a hotel room??? Well, we just did on our road trip. If you’re a whee...
11/13/2024

Ever spent over 3 hours on the phone trying to book a hotel room??? Well, we just did on our road trip. If you’re a wheelchair user or are a caregiver to one, you may very well relate to this story. This *ridiculous* story…

A month before our visit, Charisma books our stay at a very nice hotel in Celebration, FL, close to our family who we’re visiting. She specifically books an accessible room with a roll-in shower (RI). I have to have an RI room, otherwise I won’t be able to shower during our stay. They had one available, so we grabbed it! All is well.

A common issue with staying at hotels, however, is that rarely will our RI room be guaranteed, and even when it is supposed to be guaranteed can we actually count on it. Therefore, we follow up. Multiple times.

The day before we arrive, we call to check on our reservation. They assure us that our RI room is available and guaranteed on our booking. All is well.

On the day of our drive we wake up at 4am to drive from VA Beach to Orlando. That’s about a 12 hour drive. Once we’re about 3.5 hours away, we call to check on our room for the third time. And, you guessed it, our RI was not available, and never was. Why, you ask? Because the entire floor with the only RI rooms in the entire hotel was BEING RENOVATED!!!

Unreal.

This is why we call multiple times, and why we’re always prepared to be turned away. The hotel said the best they could offer was “an accessible tub.” In my world, there is no such thing as an accessible tub. So, essentially, they turned us away.

We’re about an hour into our phone call at this point trying to find a solution, growing ever closer to Orlando, and we have no place to stay. Eventually, we end up being transferred to another hotel, who, after we were left on hold for another half hour, we hung up on. We call a third hotel, and they have no RI rooms available at all, instead recommending to us a fourth hotel.

We’re now 2.5 hours into our call, about 45 minutes away from Orlando, and finally this last hotel has a RI room available. Great! Right?

But wait, there’s more…

Because we first booked with our points, and the refund wouldn’t restore those points for like 48 hours or something, we then had to call the first hotel back to then wait on hold while the first hotel called the fourth hotel to make the arrangements. Ridiculous, I know.

Eventually, we are booked and guaranteed our RI room with about 15 minutes to spare, having been on the phone for over 3 hours on the tail end of what ended up being 14 hours on the road. And if this seems like a very whiny post, it’s because that’s exactly what it is. We’re at our wits end when it comes to hotels regularly screwing this up.

Charisma and I have had multiple professional engagements with hotel chains discussing this very issue. It’s very discouraging, then, to see the lack of progress. The progress we have seen is the ability to have an RI room guaranteed on your reservation, but, as this situation has abundantly shown, there’s no way to ever be sure.

People who need specific rooms to accommodate them should not be burdened with having to call ahead multiple times. Policies need be put in place, and employees need to be trained on accessibility so that this does not continue happening.

We want to be part of some solution, but man, does this feel like a constant uphill battle…

Wow! 4 years have flown by. Charisma and I often reminisce about our wedding day, and something we both agree on is that...
11/07/2024

Wow! 4 years have flown by.

Charisma and I often reminisce about our wedding day, and something we both agree on is that we wouldn’t change a thing. It was truly a perfect day.

Marriage has already proven to be all the things everyone told us it would: amazing, beautiful, deep, challenging, difficult, easy, and our greatest source of joy. Through whatever life throws our way, having someone there to have your back is the most incredible gift.

Can’t wait for more! ❤️

So apparently I have curly hair??? An unexpected revelation at nearly 30 years old 🤣I remember having waves as a small c...
09/27/2024

So apparently I have curly hair??? An unexpected revelation at nearly 30 years old 🤣

I remember having waves as a small child, but nothing like this!

Shoutout to the wifey for helping me embrace my natural curls 😄

09/25/2024

One of the first things on the mind of a new spinal cord injury patient: “how much function am I going to get back?” It helps us have hope, thinking that maybe we’ll be one of the lucky ones that emerges from rehab with way more function than we came in with.

I never had much hope, unfortunately. I clearly had a severe injury, and the worse the injury, the less chance of functional return. Why then should I hope for something so unlikely, setting myself up for disappointment of the highest order? And so I would celebrate when my friends regained something, while dampening any expectations for myself.

And then a new sensation stopped me in my tracks.

It was late in the day, and I was driving my power chair back to my room after visiting with one of my new quad friends. Suddenly, a burning sensation emanated from my wrist. Confused, I stopped right here in the hallway and looked at the source of this warmth. Lo and behold, when I tried to move my hand, there was the slightest little wiggle.

The hope I had repressed now flared brightly within me as I watched myself use part of my body I thought was lost forever. Perhaps too brightly, as I instantly believed I would regain full hand function in both hands. That was not the case, obviously, as time showed me that it would only be my wrist function returning.

Nevertheless, I was and remain incredibly grateful for this unexpected functional return. My wrists returning opened a number of doors to independence that may have always been closed to me without them.

A few photos to say goodbye to summer 2024
09/24/2024

A few photos to say goodbye to summer 2024

It was an honor being invited to the premiere of Super/Man: The Christopher Reeve Story in NYC. This was an incredibly m...
09/22/2024

It was an honor being invited to the premiere of Super/Man: The Christopher Reeve Story in NYC.

This was an incredibly moving documentary. We laughed, we cried, and we were in awe of what the Reeve’s went through and accomplished. Spinal Cord Injury awareness and research wouldn’t be nearly what it is today without them.

The documentary will be in theaters this Wednesday, Sept 25th, so be sure to check your local theaters! And don’t forget your box of tissues.

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