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01/25/2025

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01/16/2025

Refrain from trying to convince others that you possess self-knowledge. The sole person needing persuasion is yourself. Js

01/13/2025

Why do you tend to trust others more than yourself, even though you possess more self-knowledge and understanding of your own motivations?

The impact of your decisions on others is often limited. Yet, you rely on them for guidance. What does your inner voice say? What lessons have you learned from past experiences? What are your aspirations?

It is crucial to take deliberate action.

01/12/2025

Self-trust evolves over time and can be compromised in an instant.

Perhaps you made an unwise decision. Perhaps things did not unfold as you had hoped. Perhaps that choice had consequences.

But did you survive? Did you gain valuable insights from the experience? Will you make more informed choices in the future? If so, it was a crucial part of the learning process.

You are cultivating self-trust... and it is effective!

01/11/2025

You ever had an idea but was afraid to do it; then got mad because someone else did it? Yea me too! Stop doing that!

STOP
🥺letting your dreams go unfulfilled
🥺doubting yourself
🥺getting mad at others for pursing their dreams
🥺being afraid. Fear is not always bad but stagnation is!

No one can stop you but you!

01/03/2025

12/16/2024

Healing from traumatic relationships causes some things to happen in your life.
1. You identifies red flags easier and realize it's not worth the pain
2. You begin to trust your own intuition. There's no need to ask the opinion of others. You're comfortable in your own choices
3. You enjoy your own company. You don't need a lot of people around you. I'm fact you prefer just a few.
4. You create peace in your life dismissing anything that robs you of it.
5. Your words become few. You release the need to prove yourself.
6. You're okay with people walking away. You realize it's their choice.
7. Nature becomes your friend. The colors around you are brighter. The sun is warmer. The rain is calming.
8. What once made you cry becomes part of your gratitude list.
9. Prioritizing yourself is no longer a sacrifice but a luxury.
10. You don't borrow the drama from the lives of others nor do you allow it to steal your joy.

Here's to healing and letting go of the trauma that has caused you to neglect yourself.

12/11/2024

We frequently entertain certain notions about how life should unfold.

We presume that our diligence will naturally culminate in career advancement. However, this is not always the reality. Success is often contingent upon how much our efforts are valued by our employer.

Similarly, we may assume that loving someone will inevitably elicit a reciprocal response. Yet, individuals can only offer love to the extent that they possess it within themselves.

We may also believe that friendships are eternal. Unfortunately, this is not the case. The longevity of friendships is directly tied to the value that each party places on the relationship.

Ultimately, it all boils down to value. Until we recognize our own worth, we will never truly comprehend value. Our value is not determined by external opinions, but rather by our own self-perception.

11/28/2024

Thank you!
As you sit down with family or if you're by yourself, be thankful; remember you are still here. You have breath in your body. Which means you still have purpose to fulfill on this earth.

I remember praying for days I wouldn't have to stay up all night cooking,, or spend all week cleaning,, or running off coffee to get through the day,, or yelling for someone to stop running,, or cleaning up spills. I just wanted a quiet still morning where I could enjoy a nice cup of tea in peace.

You see back then I had five little ones and had to prep for the 30 people that would enter my doors in a few hours. I was tired!

These days look a little different I get to enjoy that cup of tea in peace. I got what I prayed for. As you go through your day.... what are you thankful for. What can you look back on and say "I made it"" because it's in those moments you realized just how blessed you are you have made it this far.

Happy Thanksgiving Family and friends. Thanks for all your support and love over the years.

11/26/2024

Give me one REAL friend.
Give me one GOOD vitamin.
Give me one COMFORTABLE pair of shoes.
Give me one strong cup of coffee

Everything else gets in the way.

11/25/2024

Everyday is an opportunity to invest in yourself

11/18/2024

At some point you MUST make yourself the priority or they NEVER will.

HAPPY MONDAY

11/09/2024

Never dim your light trying to accommodate their lack of effort.

11/07/2024

✨ No matter what yesterday brought, today is a fresh start. In the words of Maya Angelou: "You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them." Embrace the possibilities and make TODAY count! Be willing to walk away from things thar try to reduce you.

11/04/2024

One day you will wake up and realize you are NOT responsible for someone else's happiness. You will realize you are NOT the cause of someone's pain. You will realize you CAN live without them. In fact, life seems more colorful when they're NOT around.

Then one day you will realize your happiness is YOUR responsibility. You will realize love does NOT have to include anger or misery. One day you will begin to protect your own happiness. One day you will run towards the calmness instead of running from it. One day you will begin to focus on YOUR own needs instead of the wants of others.

I hope this happens for you very soon because you deserve that. Buildher Collaborations