08/21/2023
So most of you saw my blow up but for those of you that didn’t , I would like to explain myself though you’ve come to your decisions already
This is between Teresa and I and no one else BUT neither Teresa nor Dori could reply to me today and where I am paying my workers to come back and pick up all the blocks pallets and wood (which Teresa asked for herself) I would like an answer so I guess it has to be public thru us
Teresa, do not ask anyone to give me a message , if you have something to say, you say it. Just as I did
A week or so ago Teresa , you asked that I join the yardsale as I have a lot and need to get rid of it.
As you all know me , my anxiety gets the best of me so it’s been a very exhausting week for me both physically and mentally. Also as you all know I lost my sister and mother 10 days apart last year and most of the stuff at Teresa’s was my dead families
Dori, I’m so sorry for you loss and also Elaine. Teresa. You KNOW I feel awful YOU lost your daughter. It’s my time, I was selling MY dead families stuff. Can you let anyone grieve or do you always say “my daughter killed herself” and insert that into every persons own tradgedies. I get it but have a little respect for me and my dead families stuff
Then you ALL know my brain! You told me multiple times to be there for start at 8 am. You POSTED 8 am on one post! So I was there as told at 6:30 not only did I p**s people off trying to wake them up not one of you acknowledged me except Dori, so I came all the way home, which is a hard task on my body not to mention the multiple tanks of fuel I went through in my truck to bring all this to your house. So I come back with a whole load of cinder blocks and you all know I am disabled in my hands and feet, so I could not unload it. Where Teresa is the one who requested them I would’ve thought she would have someone there to help unload them instead the three most unhealthy people unload at the time and a neighbor that was nice enough to help with a bad back. We ended up having my employees unload the rest, and I paid them out of my pocket because nobody who is outback, having your table party, helped. They showed up not because I told them where I was going to be but because they saw YOUR ad for 8 AM.
Now at this point, I’m pretty fuming and everyone is yelling we’re not open till noon. You need to leave! after I’m stuck out front saying, go ahead and look but we’re not open yet. Everybody was p**sed off.
I turned around Teresa and asked you not one not two but three times for an extension cord and I know you remember that I also asked you not one not two but three times for the stickers. Jolean ended up giving me the stickers. Not that anyone noticed but I drove all the way home to get my own extension cord to come back and plug-in my own radio that Teresa requested .
At this point I am fuming because I am doing everything that Teresa wanted and she is nowhere to be found. I have not even say good morning yet other than can I have a cord can I have the stickers? And …Why are there kids here
So by the time noon came and I was still setting up I did tell Kamira she could wear my red heels because she looked adorable. In my dress. I had no problem with that. Kayden was sweet as can be as usual. Those two are your responsibility no matter how you look at it, so if those two are hanging out with neighborhood kids on YOUR property… who is responsible for those kids???
That would be you, Teresa
If my daughter had Briana over, I didn’t expect Briana’s parents to discipline her from across town. That was my responsibility when she was at my house.
My house, my rules as it should’ve been Saturday your house your rules and your rules should’ve included no children
Those boys ruined all of my sisters shoes.all of them!
I asked you multiple times to get those kids out back. I also spoke to Kayden in Kamira, (as I agree, we are a clan, I felt comfortable asking your kids and they were ok)who were nice and said no problem but the other boys were not listening and it is not your grandchildren’s responsibility to babysit their friends or kids It’s yours.
That’s when I lost it because I had already asked you in front of people to get those kids away from me
Not to mention 1 million other little things that happened
I asked you via text if I could come talk to you privately so I could tell you all this and you said well not privately, so if you’re not comfortable with me, why are you friends with me in the first place?
Thanks for the disrespect, the lack of respect to my sisters belongings, the lack of respect of me driving back-and-forth all week and you couldn’t be bothered to find help to unload that stuff instead, I broke a finger hurt my three finger nails, and broke a toe, but you wouldn’t know that I could go on and on Teresa. I literally walked out back and said, are you sure you’re comfortable with your position that you did nothing you said yes therefor I am done. I do not allow that kind of hostile negativity into my life anymore. All I wanted was an acknowledgment but no, you’ve done nothing.
I have been disrespected my entire life as you know. I trusted you with my life, as you know. You have introduced the most amazing people I have ever met to me and I could never hurt you or disrespect you like that but that was the last straw for me Saturday. so you can tell everybody what a miserable person I am and how mean I am, including the really nice neighbor, Robin, who inserted himself into this, not even knowing Kayden and Kamira are with you.
Thank you for turning everyone against me, including Dori.
Thanks for not replying to my text.
Thanks for treating me the same way. Everyone has my whole life.
One thing I have learned is that everyone is the same you’re all out to just f**k up my life so I’m all set (meaning Teresa at least I admit my mistakes and apologized multiple times to everyone else for my blowup)
I will open the store, and I will succeed, but I will not allow children in my store, running rampant, nor will I have people sitting at a table outback, ignoring customers or yelling.
Nor will we open at noon. Days half done
you keep selling in your yard and have your whole day screwed up by posting three different times I will succeed in business, and I was praying you all could succeed with me.
It was a dream of mine
You all collect a check every week I have been unemployed and disabled since 2013 and do not collect any money and I am not with any man and no one pays for me except Jim for the roof over my head and groceries  I was looking forward to making a ton of money and paying for the groceries myself for once but no that didn’t happen because you couldn’t be bothered to open at eight or let people look
You literally ruined my entire week with your comment
I said right to you this is why kids don’t belong at a yard sale and you looked straight at me and said I know.!!!!
They are your kids. youbrought you allowed them there
they are your responsibility.
You should’ve never had them around a place of what I call business because I was there to make money not sit out back and smoke
Even though I smoke pot, I am responsible
my bills get paid before I even buy it and I only use it for pain relief not so I can get all goofy and stupid and not work