Annaleise Affirms LLC- Certified Relationship Coach

12/14/2025

Some men say they want a woman who is soft.
Gentle. Peaceful. Feminine.

But softness is not something you demand.
It is something you cultivate.

A woman does not become soft in confusion.
She does not remain gentle where she is constantly questioned, corrected, mistrusted, or made to feel emotionally unsafe. Softness does not survive in environments where a woman must always explain herself, defend her intentions, or brace for the next accusation.

Softness is born in consistency.
In emotional safety.
In being believed the first time she speaks.
In knowing her vulnerability will not be used against her later.

When a woman is calm, warm, and open, it is usually because she feels secure. When she becomes guarded, firm, or distant, it is often because she has had to protect herself. Not because she wanted to change, but because the space required her to.

You cannot ask a woman to lay her armor down while giving her reasons to keep it on.

If you want softness, create peace.
If you want gentleness, lead with patience.
If you want femininity, stop meeting it with control, suspicion, or emotional unpredictability.

A woman will soften naturally where she feels safe.
And she will harden where she has to survive.

That is not defiance.
That is self-preservation.

12/09/2025

✨ Give the Gift of Self Love This Christmas✨

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Give something uplifting
Give something that supports her growth

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12/05/2025

People reach a certain age and still talk about everything they want to do, but the truth is dreaming without movement is just a wish in disguise.

There comes a moment in your life when you have to ask yourself if you are really waiting on the right time or if you are just scared to begin. Goals do not grow legs on their own. Purpose does not chase you down. At some point you have to stop speaking on the life you want and start building it brick by brick.

Growth starts with one decision. One uncomfortable step. One moment where you tell yourself you are done watching everyone else live fully while you sit on the sidelines holding your potential hostage.

Nothing changes until you do.

If you still have breath in your body you still have time, but time will not stretch itself for your convenience. You have to honor it. You have to move with it. You have to choose discipline over excuses and progress over procrastination.

Your future is not waiting. It is sitting right in front of you asking if you are finally ready to show up.

Start today. Start with courage. Start imperfect.

Just start.

-Míchelle Annalèise Coles

11/18/2025

Today I had to remind myself that self love is not a switch you flip. Some days you feel strong and some days you feel drained, but the real glow up is when you choose yourself anyway.
This is exactly why I wrote my book. It is for the woman who forgets how powerful she is.
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Your next chapter starts with you.

Unapologetically You: The Path to Unshakable Self-Love is a transformative guide designed to help you embrace your true self and cultivate a deep sense of self-love. This empowering product, created by our expert relationship coach, is filled with practical exercises, insightful reflections, and pow...

11/12/2025

🎄✨ Give the Gift of Self Love This Christmas ✨🎄

This holiday season, skip the ordinary and give something that lasts longer than the wrapping paper.
Unapologetically You: The Path to Unshakable Self Love by Míchelle Annalèise Coles is more than a book. It is a movement. 💕

Whether you are shopping for your sister, your best friend, or even yourself, this is the reminder every woman deserves. You are enough exactly as you are.

🎁 Perfect for
✨ Women ready to heal and glow
✨ Friends who have been through hard seasons
✨ Anyone who needs a little self love under the tree

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10/18/2025

Someone can go from being the place you run to, to the place you guard yourself from. A safe space ends when their actions shift. It shows in the way they dismiss what matters to you, in the moments they fail to show up, in the care they no longer give.

Safe space is not about easy days or light conversations. It is proven in how someone handles you when life is heavy. When their choices bring pressure instead of peace, when their presence feels like weight instead of comfort, that space is no longer safe.

A safe space is only real when actions protect it. Once their actions tear it down, it is no longer a safe space, it is just another place you outgrew. -Míchelle Annalèise Coles

10/18/2025

Life will take you through different levels and each new level requires a new version of you. Growth is not easy and it is not gentle. Along the way you will notice some people start to fall off. Sometimes it is not because you did anything wrong but because your elevation makes them uncomfortable.

The journey has a way of showing you people’s true intentions. Who claps for you when no one is watching. Who suddenly goes quiet when you win. Who is present only when you are struggling but disappears when you find your footing.

As you rise, understand that every step forward will cost you something. It might cost you friendships. It might cost you relationships. It might even cost you parts of yourself that you thought you could never let go of. But it also gifts you clarity. It gives you peace. It teaches you who is meant to walk with you and who was only meant to stand at the starting line.

Your journey is proof that growth is not just about reaching higher ground. It is about seeing more clearly who is truly aligned with your path. Some people are seasonal, some are lessons, and a rare few are lifelong. The ones who are still standing with you after everything are the ones who are meant to go the distance. - Míchelle Annalèise Coles

10/16/2025

As a woman I know I cannot teach my boys how to be men. That path belongs to their father. But what I can do is shape their hearts. I can raise them to be decent human beings. I can show them how to be responsible, how to carry themselves with integrity, how to treat people with compassion and respect.

I thank God they have a father who shows them what manhood looks like. He teaches them the strength, discipline, and courage I cannot give them.

And the same goes for men with daughters. A man cannot teach a girl how to be a woman but he can teach her what love from a man should feel like. He can set the standard for how she deserves to be treated, so when the world tries to hand her less, she knows better.

That is the truth of parenting. We give our children what we can, and we lean on each other for what we cannot. Together we raise not just sons and daughters, but people who are whole, people who know who they are, and people who will carry that truth into the next generation. - Míchelle Annalèise Coles

10/14/2025

✨ Unapologetically You: The Path to Unshakable Self-Love ✨

I wrote this book with women in mind but men can read it and relate to much of what is inside. It speaks to anyone who has ever battled doubt, silence, or the weight of not feeling enough.

💎 What you will find inside:
✔️ Healing old wounds without shame
✔️ Setting boundaries that protect your peace
✔️ Embracing flaws and rewriting your story
✔️ Confidence tools that anyone can apply

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08/22/2025

Life has a way of teaching us in different forms. Sometimes it’s through heartbreak and disappointment, other times it’s in quiet victories and small moments of clarity. What I’ve come to realize is the real growth doesn’t come from what happens to us, but how we rise from it.

Growth isn’t always loud or noticeable. It can simply be walking away without anger, forgiving without needing an apology, or finally learning to love yourself even when others don’t see your worth.

Every challenge shapes us. Every stumble uncovers strength we didn’t know we had. Every season molds us into someone wiser, stronger, and more grounded.

Life doesn’t always get easier, but we get stronger. Collect the lessons, protect your peace, and keep growing because that’s something nobody can take away from you.

08/22/2025

Yeah, they hurt you. But getting them back? That takes too much out of you. Revenge requires you to stay connected to the pain, to hold on to the same people who already showed you they don’t deserve space in your life. Why keep feeding that cycle when your energy is worth so much more?

Truth is, you could spend days replaying what they did, dragging your spirit through the mud, trying to prove a point they’ll never truly get. Or—you can redirect all that fire into the people who are still standing with you. The ones who value you, who see your worth, who don’t make you question yourself.

When you shift your focus from the negative to the ones who genuinely show up, your peace grows. Your spirit feels lighter. You realize that nothing they did has the power to define you—because you’re still here, still standing, still loved.

At the end of the day, peace feels better than payback. Healing hits harder than revenge ever could. And when you stop chasing closure in broken places, you find freedom.

Healing is the loudest clapback you’ll ever give. ✨

08/15/2025

When you treat people right, good things have a way of coming back to you. But you can’t be out here disrespecting people and then wonder why life keeps knocking you down. You get back the energy you put out—every time. Stay blessed. ✨