09/15/2025
Game > Just Basketball đź’”
When Kobe Bryant spoke about a teammate coming up to him and saying, “Kobe, I need to feel like I’m needed,” he opened up a deeper reality of sports: that the court carries more than physicality—it holds souls, insecurities, and emotional weight. The game becomes bigger than just making shots or wins. It’s about recognizing that every person on a team brings their own baggage—the fear of being invisible, the anxiety of underperforming, the longing for belonging. Kobe realized that when someone needs to feel needed, it’s a signal that respect, trust, and identity are at stake—on and off the court.
For many, that moment is a reminder: every “I need” is a signal. Are we listening? Doing more than hearing? If a teammate, friend, or family member expresses that they feel useless or unseen, are we quick to respond with encouragement, with inclusion, with action? Because it’s not just about points—it’s about purpose. What’s one change you can make today to help someone in your circle feel needed, not just valued?
What’s one thing you do when someone says, “I feel like I’m not needed,” that actually makes them feel seen and valued?