09/16/2020
Letter and Rose Left on the JFA Poll Table; Colorado State University, 2004
The letter reads:
“Dear Rilegh,
I will never know you
I never got a chance
But I love you so much
She was never going to tell me about you
She was going to pretend you never existed
When she told me
I was truly speechless
Iv never cryed myself to sleep before
But for the past 2 weeks
It’s the only way I’m able to sleep
Theres this void in my life now
a bottomless hurt
that I’ll never know you
you, my first child
I’ll never see you grow
I can’t bring you back
I don’t even know where you are
So I gave you a home
You’ll be with me forever
I love you so much
Your Father
Rest In Peace”
Many women and men (such as the writer of this letter) deal with grief following an experience with abortion.
* If you or someone you know is hurting from an abortion in the past, you can find resources for help and healing at www.jfaweb.org/healing-after-abortion.
* If you are considering abortion, helpful resources and information are also listed at the link mentioned above.
* Whether you are considering abortion or have abortion in your past, you can also call the JFA office (316-683-6426) and ask to speak with one of our trainers who can help you find resources and support in your area.
