01/01/2026
I yelled at dirty biker for parking in the "Veteran Only" spot until he lifted his shirt and I saw what was underneath. It was a Saturday morning at the grocery store and I'd been watching this guy pull his beat-up Harley into the reserved space like he owned it.
No veteran plates. No military stickers. Just a filthy leather vest, a gray beard that hadn't been trimmed in months, and the kind of look that made mothers pull their children closer.
I'm a retired Army Colonel. Thirty-two years of service. Two tours in Iraq, one in Afghanistan. I take veteran parking seriously. It's one of the few small recognitions we get, and I'll be damned if some wannabe tough guy is going to disrespect it.
"Excuse me," I called out, marching toward him. "This spot is reserved for veterans."
He turned slowly, one boot still on the asphalt, the other swung over the seat. Up close, he looked even rougher—sun-leathered skin, tattoos crawling up his thick arms, patches sewn onto that vest in no particular order. He didn’t speak right away. Just looked at me with tired gray eyes.
“This spot’s for veterans only,” I repeated, pointing at the sign like he might’ve missed it. My voice was sharper than I intended. Saturdays at the store always put me on edge—too many people, too many carts banging into my old knees.
He nodded once, real slow, then reached down and grabbed the bottom of his black T-shirt. For a split second I thought he was about to get mouthy, maybe flash some gang colors or flip me off. Instead, he pulled the shirt up just enough to reveal his midsection.
Scars. A roadmap of them. Jagged shrapnel lines across his ribs, a long surgical cut down the center of his stomach, and right there in the middle—faded now, but unmistakable—a large tattoo of the globe and anchor.
United States Marine Corps.
Underneath the tattoo, burned into the skin like a brand, was a patch of puckered tissue from what must have been a hell of a blast. I’ve seen wounds like that before. Fallujah. Ramadi. Places good men didn’t all come home from.
My mouth went dry.
He let the shirt drop and met my eyes again. No smirk. No attitude. Just quiet.
“Vietnam,” he said, voice gravelly and low. “’69 through ’71. Two Purple Hearts. Didn’t much feel like advertising it today.”
I stood there, feeling the heat rise in my face—not from anger anymore, but from shame. Thirty-two years in uniform, and I’d just dressed down a brother who’d bled for this country a decade before I even enlisted.
“I… I’m sorry,” I managed. The words felt too small.
He shrugged, the kind of shrug that comes from carrying too much for too long. “No need, Colonel.” He glanced at my haircut—still high and tight after all these years—and gave a faint smile. “I figured you’d earned the right to say something.”
I looked at his bike again. Really looked this time. There, half-hidden under the worn leather of his vest, was a small POW-MIA patch. And on the back fender, almost scratched off from years of road dust, a faded Marine Corps sticker.
I reached out my hand. “Thank you for your service, Marine.”
He took it—strong grip, callused fingers—and held it a second longer than necessary.
“Name’s Ray,” he said.
“Richard,” I replied. “But friends call me Rich.”
We stood there a moment, two old warriors in a grocery store parking lot, the morning sun warming our backs.
“You shopping alone?” I asked.
He nodded. “Wife passed last winter. Just picking up a few things.”
Something twisted in my chest. “My wife’s inside already, probably filling the cart with stuff we don’t need. Why don’t you come in with us? Let me buy you a cup of coffee at least. The deli makes a decent one.”
He looked like he might say no—pride runs deep in men like us—but then his shoulders eased a little.
“Coffee sounds good,” he said.
We walked in together. I grabbed a second cart for him. By the time we found my wife near the produce, Ray was telling me about the time his platoon got pinned down near the DMZ, and I was laughing—actually laughing—at the absurd way they got out of it.
My wife took one look at us, raised an eyebrow, and smiled like she already knew the whole story.
Later, as we loaded groceries into my trunk (and then into his saddlebags), I asked if he’d like to come over sometime. Maybe watch a ball game. Grill some steaks.
He paused, then nodded. “I’d like that, Colonel.”
“It’s Rich,” I reminded him.
He grinned—the first real one I’d seen. “I’d like that, Rich.”
As he rode off, the Harley rumbling like distant thunder, I stood there watching until he turned the corner.
I still take veteran parking seriously.
But these days, I take brotherhood a little more seriously too.