06/25/2025
You've been following the news.
You've been watching the dramatic scenes on TV.
You've been reading the firsthand accounts on social media.
But until you live here, there's really no way to know what it's been like for Israelis over the past 12 days.
(So here's one more firsthand account on social media ๐)
First, a huge thanks to the many of you who have reached out to ask about me and my family. Thank God, weโre all safe and soundโฆbut Iโd be lying if I said that this war hasnโt taken its toll on every one of us.
So what have the last 12 days been like? Hereโs just a sampling of our lives:
Every night, before heading to bed, we made sure all of our essentials were safe in the mamad (safe room).
Computers, phones and chargers, valuables, important documents, medications, clothes and shoes, car keysโฆ
Yโknow, in case the rest of the house blows up.
And before going to sleep, weโd joke about how โweโll see you in a couple of hours!โ
We were usually right, with missile warnings at all hours of the day and night.
On the radio, weโve been hearing commercials for supplemental insurance. Your homeownerโs insurance will only cover so much if your house is hit by a missile, so ACT NOW to make sure all of your belongings are covered.
Public gatherings are forbidden.
Synagogue services are cancelled.
You needed government permission to have a funeral.
Want to get some air and go for a walk?
Donโt go too farโฆif thereโs an attack, where are you going to go?
I spoke to a neighbor who told me that her daily walks consisted of 10 houses in one direction, followed by 10 houses in the other โ just to stay close to home.
It really felt like Covid all over again. Children were learning on Zoom, adults working from home.
Bored kids with nothing to do and nowhere to go.
No schedules whatsoever. My older kids at home (22 and 17) would binge-watch TV until 3amโฆand wake up at 2 the next afternoon. โCuz, why not?
(We had no valid answer to offer.)
Then suddenly?
Warโs over. Everything is back to normal.
P**f - just like that.
A blissful full nightโs sleep. Kids back at school for just a few more days. Activities, synagogue services, public transportation, entertainmentโฆall business as usual.
(Just because President Trump said so.)
As I wake up to an โoldโ new reality, I am honestly grateful for the experience.
Grateful for the family time.
Grateful for the shared experiences this nation has endured.
Grateful for the resumption of normalcy.
Grateful that we are still here.
Grateful for the IDF.
Grateful for our homeland.
This war is far from over. As long as there are those plotting our destruction โ and there are many โ we know it wonโt be long before we have to take cover in shelters once again. Weโre still fighting a war on several fronts, and still anxiously awaiting the return of 50 hostages.
But for now, Iโm just happy that my 12 year old son gets out of the house for 7 hours a day.
Until summer vacation starts on Monday.