09/05/2024
More from Mr. Cunningham
DOCTORS
We were most fortunate in having Dr. Joe Diss as our doctor. Dr. and Mrs. Diss lived in Ilion and had no children. Mrs. Diss took his calls and never failed to follow up on the patient’s request. This rotund fellow with a sense of humor loved his profession. He was a doctor, surgeon and delivered many babies including my three younger brothers. A house call was $2.00, and an office visit was $1.00. The doctor was extremely dedicated professional and very little seemed to phase him.
When I tumbled off my cart and cut my chin, he came to our house, hoisted me to the kitchen table and proceeded to sew up the cut. Once when Mom was ready to deliver and the woman who was supposed to help the doctor failed to show, he said to Dad, “I guess we can handle this ourselves,” and they did.
I have been in Dr. Diss’s office with my mother. He had no receptionist secretary or nurse. He generally had a cigar in his mouth and when the end that he was chewing became flat he would reach for a pair of scissors and cut it back.
When Dad was sick Dr. Diss diagnosed the illness as a ruptured ulcer. The doctor called the Ilion ambulance which in some ways resembled an antique milk truck. The driver was a policeman accompanied by a fireman. They took Dad to the Ilion Hospital where Dr. Diss operated and, without a doubt, saved our father’s life.
Glen Mosher’s grandfather had an infected big toe that had been treated without success. These were the days before sulfa drugs and antibiotics. The doctor who lived on S. Washington St. came to the Mosher home and with Mr. Mosher sitting in a rocking chair and the doctor sitting on and ottoman, the doctor proceeded to remove the old gent’s toe.
While the doctors made house calls without the expertise, facilities and medicines available today, there were times when there was very little they could do. Of course, records and formal required reports were almost non-existent.
THE DENTIST
A title that was synonymous with horror, pain, terror and fear. First you must realize that there was little or no preventive dental care. When one of us youngsters had a toothache, Mom would use all the remedies and medicines that were available in our house. Beyond that and when the jaw started swelling, the patient could continue to suffer or go to a Dentist. What a choice.
When I had a real painful toothache and Mom had exhausted all of her remedies, it was decided that I would meet Dad at the Re*****on Arms 9Arch gate on Otsego St.”. We would go to Winslow’s Saloon on Union St. for lunch. Dad would order a beer and eat the sandwiches he brought from him. There was soup and free food at the end of the bar but with an aching tooth I could only look.
After Dad finished his meal we went to the dentist, who had his office on the second floor over Powers Newsroom. I can’t recall anyone making an appointment. I just got into his chair and the dentist probed around with a tool that resembled a nut pick. He just said, “It has to come out.” There were no options. The next thing that I remember was the dentist come at me with a needle that resemble the tines of pitch for.
About 10 minutes later the dentist filled my mouth with a asset of piers (called forceps) and after some pulling yanking and bleeding the tooth was removed. The cost was $1.50. Dad gave me a nickel to ride the bus back to Mohawk, but I would walk to Mohawk spitting blood all the way! When I got to Mohawk I would go to Tom the Greek’s for an ice cream cone.
Toms was a confectionary store with wire-back chairs and round marble tables. It was in the old Cunningham block at the corner of W. Main and N. Otsego Streets.
DEATH
Death was a common occurrence during my youth and was discussed openly with children. Consequently, we were involved in wakes and funerals. Unlike the children of today who are reluctant to become involved or don’t want to go near the deceased in a funeral home, we seemed to be close to our friends, family or neighbors.
Within a short time of learning of the death of someone we knew our family was ready to help. One neighbor would take up a collection for Mass cards or flowers while the other would begin baking beans, bread and various meats. When Mom died, the first person to arrive was the insurance man.
People were much closer and depended on one another so consequently they felt the loss to a much greater degree. There was very little immunization and other than a school nurse most of the care was in the hands of our parents. Many of our schoolmates left us prematurely.
When a person died, the “undertaker” was called. He hung a black wreath on the front door and proceeded to help the family make the arrangements. He could prepare the deceased at his establishment or at the family home. At the time most funerals were held at the descendant’s house.
The calling hours at the family home could start as early as 8 in the morning and last as long as there was someone to answer the door. At Irish wakes, the family and friends stayed up all night and about midnight they had a huge meal. Then, of course, during quiet periods a bit of a drink was passed around. And there were some stories and plenty of reminiscing.
An acquaintance told me of the death of a small child in his family before the advent of burial laws. The mother and women members of the family cleaned and dressed the child while the father and some friends built a coffin and dug a grave near their orchard. After the local clergyman said a few words, the father placed a homemade casket on his shoulder and, together with family, friends and neighbors, moved off to the cemetery. The families in rural areas formed their own cemeteries and there are still old monuments that can be seen in out of the way places. My great-grandfather was buried along Cole Hill Road.
In the late 1920’s a relative who had a farm was taken ill. This happened in the winter when you drove a horse and cutter or you walked. There was no telephone at the house and as his condition worsened the family knew that he needed a doctor. His wife could do nothing but send the two oldest boys on foot to the nearest relative who had a phone and ask them to try to get a doctor. With the snow blowing, the mother was afraid that the youngsters might become separated and lost so she tied them together before sending them out for help. The boys managed to get to the house of a relative and the doctor was called, but they lost their dad.
I remember attending the funeral with Mom and Dad. Many of the neighbors shoveled and plowed the road the night before the funeral so that the family could take the body from the house to the church.
At one of the farms on Vickerman Hill there was a death in the family and the drifts made the road impassible. Neighbors hitched a team of horse to a pair of bobs and with some men cutting fences and driving around drifts and across lots, they finally arrived at Mohawk and the residence of the local undertaker.
According to a news item, when a funeral home serving a rural area received a call requesting their services, they would load two caskets (to allow for choice) on their wagon. If the deceased was a farmer the neighbors would do the chores and care for the livestock until the funeral was over.