Stella³Strong

02/02/2024

Evening Spill...

Being vulnerable with someone freaks me out! To me, being vulnerable & open is a weakness. It opens you up to be hurt.

But, when you're afraid of being vulnerable, you're being controlled by a spirit of fear. Vulnerability can lead to healing, and in order to receive that healing, you may face hurt, pain & disappointment...

So, you're left with the option of not being vulnerable & continuing to be hard all of your life...

Or, be vulnerable, accept what may come with it, be open to all that comes with it, whether good or bad & receive healing if need be.

So, what shall it be... to submit or not submit yourself to vulnerability...

Love and Blessings 💕

02/01/2024

Breaking Soul Ties

02/01/2024

Happy Thursday & Welcome February!

💕Keep God first.
💕Loving yourself is vital and key.
💕️Be You!!!!
💕Appreciate everyone in your life.
💕No one is perfect and we can't look at others only in their imperfections.
💕️Simplicity is beautiful.
💕️Live life!
💕️Never quit on yourself. You are more than capable to accomplish anything!
💕️There are people inspired by your journey, whether they acknowledge it or not. You don't know how often they look at your strength & it pushes them to keep going.
💕️When you know what you want, make it known and don't deviate from it just to settle for less than you deserve.
💕️Control your emotions
💕️Stay focused. Stay driven. Keep your eyes off others and what they have going on.
💕️Love.
💕️Sow good seeds from the heart

01/31/2024

Unhealthy Emotions & Actions

There is a difference between love and obsession. When you find yourself constantly worrying about what that person is doing, who they are with, what persons of the opposite s*x has their attention, etc.., you are simply obsessed. It is a difference between thinking of someone and straight being obsessive and stalker-ish. This type of behavior is very unhealthy. If you are constantly jealous of other people in their life, mainly those of the opposite s*x, comparing yourself to those of the opposite s*x that they communicate with, again that isn’t love but an obsession and you are completely unstable.

You stalking them on social media sites. Constantly checking their page, Instagram, Twitter, etc…. Questioning everything they say or do and also who they communicate with….. Popping up at their home, job, social functions and gatherings…. It is crazy and extremely unhealthy…..

This is why we need to be careful of casual s*xual relationships, emotional ties and bonds, etc. If you are not married or in a serious committed relationship then honestly that person you are “seeing” should not be a priority or constant thought in your mind. Why should they be? Do you both feel the same way about each other? Are you working towards a relationship in the very near future? If the answer to either question is no, then why constantly give someone your energy when it is clear they are not giving you their energy.

Honestly, this type of behavior is unhealthy whether you are married, in a committed relationship or not. When you find yourself doing things mentioned above, you need to step away from the situation you have placed yourself in. You need to focus on becoming stronger and healthier spiritually, emotionally and mentally. You need to keep yourself grounded in those areas.

This isn’t a female behavior or a male behavior. It is for both s*xes.

Love isn’t obsessing, being jealous, being anxious or any of that stuff. You must be stable in order for any relationship to work. Unhealthy behaviors will never lead to a healthy relationship. Unhealthy behaviors will lead you straight into self destruction….

Peace. Love. Light
Marquita Y. Johnson

01/30/2024

Happy Blessed Tuesday!!!

Be with someone who will encourage you to do right and be better. NOT someone who will help you do wrong and make you feel like it's okay.

01/27/2024

01/25/2024

Live Your Life

Every single day I learn a great life lesson, whether big or small. Each lesson gives me more and more clarity, strength, focus, determination and so much more. Everybody won’t understand your moves, your journey, your why or your purpose. They won’t understand you being proud of your accomplishments. They won’t understand you being proud of your growth. They won’t get it because they aren’t suppose to. And because they don’t get it, they may not applaud you, they may not support you… they may talk about you… and all of that is okay.

Your journey, your moves & your growth… is all about you and for you. So no matter what, keep going, keep growing, keep living, keep laughing and always love on you!!! Self love is most definitely the best love, I DON’T CARE HOW OLD YOU ARE! Each new breath is a chance to grow, learn and love… until your last breath…

Love and Blessings
Marquita Y. Johnson

01/25/2024

This is going to be a move! Epic!

01/25/2024

Good Morning. Have an amazing day!

01/04/2024

Know without a shadow of a doubt, that you have purpose!

01/01/2024

Small Straws In A Soft Wind by Marsha Burns:

Make this day a new beginning as you leave the past behind and forge ahead in faith that I am for you and with you every step of the way. You are never alone. I am by your side to show you the way and direct your steps, says the Lord. I am your fortress and high tower, your very present help in trouble. Psalm 18:2 The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.

12/25/2023

Merry Christmas Everyone!