12/09/2024
MY FATHER WENT FISHING WITH HIS FRIENDS AND FORGOT MY 18TH BIRTHDAY — HIS GIFT MADE MY HEART SINK.
Mom and Dad split when I was eight, and I stayed with Mom. Dad was always off working, with his friends, and enjoying a million hobbies. Still, I always wanted him to notice me, be proud, and show that I mattered to him. I spent years trying to win his approval, hoping he'd come around. But his priorities were never with me.
When my 18th birthday was coming up, I hoped he'd show up. 18 is a big deal, right? I planned a small party with Mom and some close friends. I texted him about it, and he gave his usual "Sounds great, I'll try to be there!" I held onto that hope.
The day came, and Mom went all out. She decked the house with balloons, baked my favorite cake, and even got me a new guitar I'd been eyeing. The house was buzzing with friends, but there was no sign of Dad. I kept checking my phone. Nothing. Each minute felt like a gut punch.
Eventually, I called him. Straight to voicemail. I tried again and again until he finally picked up. I could hear waves and his friends laughing in the background.
"Hey, kiddo," he said, like it was just another day.
"Dad, it's my birthday," I said, trying not to sound desperate.
"Oh, right. Happy birthday!" he replied, distracted. "I'm out on the lake with the guys. I'll catch you later, okay?"
I hung up. Tears came fast, and I hid in my room. Mom sat beside me, and said, "I'm sorry, honey. You know how he is."
"I know," I whispered, trying to be strong. But inside, I was shattered.
A week later, he called, acting like nothing happened. "Hey, I got you a gift," he said. "Want to come over and get it?"
I agreed, hoping maybe he finally realized how much he'd hurt me. When I arrived, he greeted me with a big smile and ushered me to the living room where a mysterious package was propped against the wall. ⬇️