05/12/2021
Mistress Velvet ๐ช๐๐๐ฏ.
Mistress Velvet was a Chicago based Do******ix, who was made famous for making their white male clients read about Black feminist theories. We got the opportunity to interview Mistress Velvet on the podcast in 2018. The link to that episode is located in the comments of this post. Below is a description of that particular episode. Fly high Mistress Velvet. Rest well.
โChicago do******ix Mistress Velvet did not intentionally build their practice around dominating white men. But Mistress Velvet was living in a predominantly white part of North Carolina at the time, and most of the people who could afford to hire them, fit that demographic. "It just happened to be that a lot of my clients were white men," they said, "and they were just really awful." One client said he appreciated that they were so well educated. "I've had black mistresses in the past," he told her, "but they were often ghetto." At the same time, they said he seemed to be struggling with a lot of white guilt. Mistress Velvet figured he needed some education himself -- and he happened to be paying her to tell him what to do. So they ordered him to read an essay by Patricia Hill Collins on the importance of black feminist theory. "It just gave me so much life," they said. "He was on his knees, at my feet, reading an essay to me, and I'm like snapping the whole time -- at least internally. You know, I have to keep up my persona of being very cold." Mistress decided that they wanted to be doing more of that kind of work, and now Mistress Velvet specializes in dominating white men and teaching them black feminist theory. Depending on the client, they said the assignments can be used as a treat or a punishment. Mistress Velvet joins us to talk about their work, mainstream perceptions of B**M, and how race and racism plays into intimate power dynamics...โ-Strange Fruit Podcast, March 9, 2018