https://bonniegillespie.com/start Enoughness is an inside job... and sometimes you need a guide to find your way there. I work with the stars.
I'm an Emmy-honored casting director, the author of "Self-Management for Actors," and the creator of Chart Harmony.
02/09/2024
♥️ I love love love where I live live live! 🌴☀️🌊
02/06/2024
🦋 Photo dump. Bizzy bizzy bizzy! May or may not livestream Friday. Um… why are there no photos of Mala Beads in here? 🐕📿 He’s perfect. Does NOT want to go outside in the rain. We’re enjoying the cozy. I’m churning out custom plan•it planners and OMG, they are spectacular. 🦋✨ Okay, that’s it for my visit to IG this time. (I do not miss social media AT ALL.) ♥️ Sending you love. Hope you are thriving! 😘 Come visit at Discord. 🪩👽🫧
12/19/2023
Stopped by FB for the first time in weeks... and had endless spam to clean up. NOT making me miss this place, Zuck! 🙄
12/14/2023
Okay… hear me out. My ads are suggesting Mala needs this ski-suit thing. We live at the beach. This is ridiculous, of course. 🐕📿🪩🫧👽 Hubs says it’s not a ski-suit, it’s a spacesuit. And now I KNOW we need to have it.
12/13/2023
I’m not mad at it.
12/01/2023
Happy happy happy birthday to the person who turned me into an aunt! , you are an incredible human, amazing father, and one of the wisest souls I know. Here’s to another trip around the Sun! ♥️ I love you!
11/20/2023
✔️ Let your muscle for the hustle atrophy. It’s not only good for you, it’s good for the world. 🦋
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11/16/2023
Meanwhile, at my account… 🦋 Are you enjoying my series? 🌙
11/15/2023
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11/06/2023
Graphic by . Suggestion by .gillespie. Highly recommend experiencing unconditional love by GIVING IT first. 💐💗✨
10/29/2023
Sunday is NEW TOY DAY for Mala 🐕📿♥️ (it’s also when we secretly retire a carcass from his impressive collection). He knows where we keep the new toys and when I say, “Guess what day it is!” in my Mala-mama voice, he loses his s**t, filled with glee for getting to choose his next victim. I open the drawer, he looks at the options, gives a few a good sniff, then makes his choice. He always gives the toy ONE GOOD SQUEAK to locate the squeaker, then he proceeds to conduct a squeakerectomy. He’s VERY skilled at this procedure. Proud alumni of and . 🐕📿
10/27/2023
That part. Treasure your nervous system. Give its vigilance some time off. Breathe. Hug yourself. Rest. Hydrate. Connect with nature. Just be… without judgment, without comment. You are enough. 💐🦋🫧
10/25/2023
It’s a leaf-shaped piece of a seashell that he has carried around for 10+ minutes, hubs says. 🥰🐕📿 I love love love where I live live live! 🌴☀️🌊
10/19/2023
He climbed up on the tower of pillows and blankets to stand on me and protect me… and then I gave him the KILL DADDY command. 😘🐕📿🤣 We have fun.
10/18/2023
10/13/2023
Be the lighthouse, not the liferaft. ✨ This is something I’ve been saying forever. We often see people out there in need of help and we get out in the water with them, hoping they’ll stop flailing. Hoping they’ll hang onto us. Hoping that our energy will sustain the both of us while we struggle back to shore. Often, in this scenario, we end up exhausted… and the person we rescued gets back out in that water again anyway.
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When instead we’re the lighthouse, standing still and consistently shining our light from the shore, we help illuminate a solution for all who wish to change course and head our way. We do not end this energetic encounter spent and frustrated. We remain luminous and strong. Role modeling through our subtle moves that everyone can get to a more stable place when they follow the light.
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How can you remember this when you feel compelled to dive into deep, dark waters?
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10/08/2023
Hubs took Mala Beads to the beach to experience fog. Luckily, all his favorite smells were still there (Mala’s favorite smells, not the hubs’). 🐕📿♥️ I love love love where I live live live! 🌴☀️🌊
10/05/2023
Another time I had bangs. Hapeville, GA. Obsessed with that rust s**g carpet.
10/01/2023
Okay, girl. 🤩 Git it! 😘 That’s me, age 17. 👯♀️
09/27/2023
Mercury’s day is for multitasking! 🎉👯♀️🐕📿♥️
09/25/2023
72 years ago, a couple o’ teenagers from Hapeville, GA got married right out of high school. I’m glad they did such a crazy thing. 💐💗
L-R: aunt Maxine, the grandfather I never met, momma, daddy, the grandmother I lived with for a time, uncle WL.
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09/18/2023
🕯️The hubs has been going through some health stuff. Today, he got some good news. PHEW! 🎉 Celebrating this big exhale with a photo of him from 22+ years ago, when I convinced him that TEDDY was the role he wanted in the Michigan community theatre performance he was doing before packing up and moving to Hollywood to do the showbiz thing (and to be with me). ♥️ I love you, honey. I’m so glad this scare is behind us. ✨⚕️🌙
09/15/2023
Have a Mala-balla weekend! 🐕📿♥️ I love love love where I live live live! 🌴☀️🌊
09/12/2023
I’m not kidding when I tell you how much I love this human. = pure superstar status. Thank you for always making me feel understood and unconditionally loved. Happy birthday, you Virgo goddess. Keep showing the world how much beauty you are capable of expressing through your inspired vision. ✨👑💗
09/11/2023
I can’t with all this love and sweetness. 🐕📿♥️
08/31/2023
Luckily, our baby is ridiculously well behaved, but this is so real I could not stop giggling.
08/27/2023
Look! I did a livestream! It’s been a while, so I’m rusty but I’m having fun figuring it all out again. HUGE thanks to for boosting my visibility, to for boosting my confidence, and to for boosting my accountability and F-U-N factor! ✨♥️🥰 What should my next topic be?
08/26/2023
Patiently waiting for me to stop working so we can play. 🐕📿 ♥️
08/23/2023
I love love love where I live live live! 🌴☀️🌊 ♥️✨🤩
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I can’t argue with any of these. 🤣 + CANNOT stop giggling.
Wow. 7 years. I remember hoping I could make it to 7 hours #sober. I was certain I'd fail before getting to 7 days. 7 weeks? Um... this was election 2016... no chance I'd stay sober facing this + the hubs in emergency surgery they weren't sure he'd survive.
By the time a benchmark like 7 months was hanging out there, I knew, #sobriety was (and is) my way of life. I'd done more than my share of power drinking in life. I built an empire on vodka and no sleep. And now I was finding out what loving myself more than needing to escape myself might feel like.
Every day, I learn more about how it feels to choose loving myself -- exactly as I am -- over escaping myself. Sometimes it's hard. Sometimes it's existential-crisis-inducing. Hence the Saturn image on this little celebration graphic.
Saturn has us do hard things. Saturn holds boundaries. Saturn says NO and means it. And every 7 years, we face a #SaturnSquare. It's a quarter-turn along the #SaturnReturn we'll be having down the line. These are major turning points in life. The times when Daddy Saturn squares us by the shoulders, shakes us, and sternly asks, "Are you living the life you came here to live?"
I am. More and more each moment of each day. Each beautifully sober -- and sobering -- moment of my life, I am closer to being exactly who I'm meant to be.
As with all Saturnian experiences, I am humbled and grateful to everything that has created and contained these #7yearsSober. So so so very grateful to be alive.
#IBelongHere #VenusRuledMoonBaby #BonnieGillespie #SelfManagementForActors #ChartHarmony #enoughness
Very special thanks to @communicatrix @markgantt and @bexweller. 💗💐👑
✨ MIXED MESSAGES — Do you have Mercury & Venus in the same sign in your chart? A lot of people do. This can cause you to conflate their signals. 🧲
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Here’s a quick way to know if you’re hearing your THOUGHTS (Mercury) or FEELINGS (Venus) in your self-talk and all that other fun brain chatter we all experience as we’re moving through life. 💡
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Notice yourself for a day or two. Are you more thoughts/Mercury or feelings/Venus? And might you want to experiment with shifting mindfully toward one or the other? 🌸
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#PlanetaryRemediation #ChartHarmony #BonnieGillespie #VenusRuledMoonBaby #44DaysWithVenus #AstrologyForCreatives #LiveYourChart #YouInTheStars #ExpansiveCapacity
Actors! Has Your Brand CHANGED? Bonnie Gillespie Can Help! :)
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Planning Your 2021 with The Astrologer's Daughter: Bonnie Gillespie LIVE!
Hi! I'm Bonnie Gillespie and you're probably a creative who'd love to stop being described as a "struggling artist" and start being called a "booking machine."
Welp, you've come to the right place. As we jam through the four pillars of Self-Management for Actors, you'll discover your most castable brand, identify the buyers who most need to know you exist, learn how to drop breadcrumbs down the path to your next tier (all while letting "them" feel like it was their brilliant idea), and never come off as icky like those non-ninjas who market AT people all the time.
If you're new here and you haven't yet read my top-selling book Self-Management for Actors, maybe you'd like to start by poking around through some of the most popular pieces I've written (or broadcast) that explain what I teach... and how jamming with me can change your career trajectory TODAY.
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Take a tour through the rest of this page to land on some really wonderful selections from the Bonniverse that will absolutely refine your tools and your mindset for having a joy-filled journey in showbiz!
JUST Getting Started
This business is intense and there’s a lot of noise out there about the rules (Psst! Here’s a tip: There ARE no rules! Yet… there are. Hmm…) so let’s start strong with this free five-part series.
I Think I Want to Be an Actor
3 Things NOT to Do Early on In Your Acting Career
How Long Does It Take to Hear Back After an Audition?
Beware the Dreaded STOPPER!
Why Formulas Don’t Work (for Long)
Getting Down with Brand YOU
Ready to take a deep-dive into understanding your most castable type and brand?
Why Is Everyone So Afraid of Branding?
Your Type Is a Shortcut — Use It!
Your YOUness Is Your Brand Bullseye
Understanding Your Brand Umbrella
Show Us How to Cast You
Your Resumé Is Not a List of Everything You’ve Ever Done
Starter Resumé (with free TEMPLATES)
Quick Fixes
I NEED an Agent!
Do you *really* need an agent? Maybe… maybe not. Let’s be sure you’re lining up with the RIGHT rep with, you guessed it, another FREE five-post training series!
How Do I Get an Agent?
What’s the Difference Between Agents and Managers?
The Agent WOW Kit — Is Yours Ready?
When to Pay Commission
Getting Auditions WITHOUT an Agent?
Footage That Fascinates 'Em
Inverted Pyramid
The Evolving Demo Reel
Footage Is Footage
Moving to LA
Moving to ANY New Market for Acting Work
When to Move to LA
What Do Working Actors Think About LA vs. NY? Or Elsewhere?
Casting Directors’ Top LA Tips
The Ultimate List for Moving to LA (Bookmark This!)
When It’s All Just TOO Much!
What?!? Another kickass series to support you when you’re feeling overwhelmed and wanna quit? You betcha!
Just Once More
When to Pack It In and Go Home
Feeling Overwhelmed? Here’s the Fix!
3 Biggest Actor Myths
Get Your Mind Right
I Wanna Jam WITH Bon!
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