01/10/2025
My parents’ lives were nothing short of inspirational. After nearly 62 years of marriage, they passed away on April 21, 2017, within just an hour and a half of each other. My dad left us at 5:46 p.m., and my mom followed at 7:14 p.m. I remember hearing them talk about their wish to go to Heaven together so many times over the years. I always thought it was a beautiful sentiment, but I never truly believed it could happen. Yet, even in our sadness, our family feels blessed that they were able to fulfill that wish. Three words sum up my parents’ lives: Faith, Family, and Happiness.
My parents met in 1955 through mutual friends in Florida, where my father was stationed with the Air Force. One day, my dad needed to move his car, and my mother offered to ride along. After driving around the block and parking, my dad reached over, held her hand, and gave her a kiss on the cheek. He told me he didn’t know what possessed him to do it, but my mom later said she thought he was being a bit “forward.” However, just three weeks of long walks around a nearby lake and deep conversations later, they were married on June 19, 1955. Both had grown up on farms and knew the struggles of poverty—my dad in Arkansas and my mom in Nebraska. In 1956, they moved to Texas, where my dad took a job at Dow Chemical. My sister was born in December of that year, and I followed in January 1958. Throughout our lives, our parents stood by us in every venture—whether it was good, bad, hard, or easy. My sister and I were both on the Drill Team in high school, and my mom never missed a single practice. She always wanted to know exactly where we would be during the halftime performances at football games. Despite my dad working shift work, he never missed a single game. Their devotion to each other, to us, to their grandchildren, and finally to their great-grandchildren was unwavering. For them, it was always about family.
When EMS brought my father home from the hospital, the first thing he did was take my mother’s hand in his. A day later, they both passed away, still holding hands. From that moment on, they were never separated. The funeral home honored this by keeping them together, and a double funeral was held. I have no doubt that they entered the gates of Heaven hand in hand, free from pain. That belief is what keeps our family going. We loved them deeply, and we know we will see them again one day.
This is the legacy of my parents, shared by Donetta Nichols.