Jamir Hezekiah

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She gave him chance after chance. Silently hoping he’d wake up one day and see the damage he was doing. But he never did...
06/30/2025

She gave him chance after chance. Silently hoping he’d wake up one day and see the damage he was doing.
But he never did. He kept hurting her, kept lying, kept treating her like she was disposable. And when she finally left... he had the nerve to act surprised.
No, she didn’t leave because she stopped loving him.
She left because she finally loved herself enough to stop bleeding for a man who never brought her a bandage.

These men want a soft, feminine woman but don’t understand that softness isn’t just about how she looks or acts on the s...
06/30/2025

These men want a soft, feminine woman but don’t understand that softness isn’t just about how she looks or acts on the surface. That softness comes from feeling safe....feeling emotionally secure enough to let her guard down and be vulnerable without fear. It comes from knowing she’s valued, respected, and protected not just physically but emotionally too. You can’t demand tenderness, sweetness, or femininity from a woman if you’re not willing to be the man who provides the foundation she needs to feel that way.

Emotional security is the cornerstone of softness. It’s what lets her relax, trust, and show up as her true self without putting on armor every day. Without that safety, a woman has to stay guarded, tough, and on edge because life has taught her to protect her heart. No matter how much a man wants that gentle, nurturing energy, if he’s not creating the space for it, it won’t exist. Softness isn’t a gift she can give freely when she’s constantly worried about being judged, dismissed, or hurt.

This emotional security means consistent respect, honest communication, and unwavering support. It means showing up when you say you will, listening without interrupting or invalidating, and choosing her feelings as important as your own. It means being patient when she’s scared or uncertain and strong enough to carry her through those moments without pushing her away. It means understanding that real strength is not about controlling or dominating.....it’s about holding space for her to be vulnerable and beautiful in her imperfections.

So if these men want a soft, feminine woman, they need to start by being the kind of man who makes her feel safe. They need to realize that softness is not something you demand....it’s something you earn by being present, trustworthy, and emotionally available. Without that, all the words and desires in the world won’t bring her down from her walls. She’ll stay strong and guarded because that’s the only way she knows how to survive.
Softness is a gift that comes from security, not pressure. And that’s a lesson every man who wants that kind of woman needs to understand deeply.

A good woman will never walk away from you without first trying to save the relationship. She doesn’t leave because she ...
06/30/2025

A good woman will never walk away from you without first trying to save the relationship. She doesn’t leave because she wants to run from problems...she stays because she believes in what you had, what you could still have, and she’s willing to fight for that. But here’s the thing...she will only leave when she knows she has done everything she can on her part. When every effort, every conversation, every tear, and every late night of wondering if things can change has been spent. She gives all she has before she walks away.

You might think she fights with you a lot, but that fighting is not about trying to break you down...it’s about trying to hold on. It’s the way she shows how much she cares, how much she fears losing something she loves deeply. Sometimes, that fight feels exhausting and painful because it’s rooted in hope....hope that things will get better, that you’ll see her pain, that you’ll meet her halfway. She’s trying to fix the cracks before they become canyons, trying to patch what feels broken before it’s too late.
But when she’s done fighting, that’s when you know you’ve lost her.
Because all the love she had for you....the love that once made her stay up late thinking about the future, the love that made her forgive, the love that made her believe....has quietly slipped away. It’s not something she chooses lightly or suddenly; it’s something that fades when the weight of disappointment becomes too much to carry. When she no longer feels safe, seen, or valued, the love inside her heart dries up. And once that love is gone, she can’t give you what she no longer has.

At that point, it’s not just a relationship ending....it’s a chapter closing on someone who once believed in you and in what you had together. So if you want to hold on to a good woman, don’t wait until she’s done fighting. Pay attention to the battles, listen to the pain beneath the words, and meet her with the love and respect she deserves. Because once she’s walked away, it’s not just about winning her back....it’s about facing the reality that she gave you all she had, and then chose herself.

If he cannot plan a date, then he cannot plan a future. It might sound simple, but it’s a truth wrapped in much more tha...
06/29/2025

If he cannot plan a date, then he cannot plan a future. It might sound simple, but it’s a truth wrapped in much more than just picking a place or setting a time.

Planning a date isn’t just about logistics; it’s about showing that he values your time, your happiness, and your presence enough to put thought and effort into the moments you share.
If he can’t do that, if he can’t be intentional in the small things, how can you trust that he’ll be intentional with the big things....the life you build together, the dreams you chase, the promises you make?

A date is a small glimpse into what he’s willing to invest in your relationship. It’s a test of care, attention, and respect. When he plans a date, he’s saying, I want to make you feel special. I want to create memories with you. I want to show you that you matter.
But if he can’t even put in that effort, it often means he’s not ready or willing to show up for the future either.
Because a future takes planning, commitment, and a consistent willingness to nurture the bond...not just when it’s convenient but even when it’s hard.

If he’s not making the effort now, don’t mistake it for being too busy or distracted. That’s often just an excuse. The truth is, if he really wants you and wants a future with you, he’ll find a way to show it. If he can’t plan a simple date, it says a lot about how much he values the relationship and how seriously he’s taking the idea of building a life with you.

So don’t settle for less than a man who shows up not only in grand gestures but in the everyday acts of love and care. Because planning a date is just the beginning. It’s the foundation of a future that’s worth believing in.

When a man is unhappy with himself, he’ll project that pain onto the woman who’s trying to love him. It’s a harsh truth ...
06/29/2025

When a man is unhappy with himself, he’ll project that pain onto the woman who’s trying to love him. It’s a harsh truth but one that’s often overlooked. Instead of looking inward and facing his own demons, he takes the frustration, the anger, the insecurity out on the person closest to him....the woman who shows up with love, hope, and vulnerability. She becomes the mirror for his dissatisfaction, the outlet for his unrest. And in doing so, he ends up ruining her happiness, not because she’s done anything wrong, but because he can’t find his own peace.

It’s heartbreaking to watch because the woman doesn’t ask for his pain or his burdens. She steps in with open arms and an open heart, hoping to build something beautiful together. But when a man is wrestling with himself....his failures, his fears, his worthlessness....he can’t give her the love she deserves. Instead, he pulls her into the storm, making her responsible for his emotional chaos when that should never be her job.

This projection creates a toxic cycle where love gets tangled with resentment, trust gets replaced by doubt, and happiness becomes a fragile, rare moment that feels like it’s slipping through their fingers. The woman ends up carrying more weight than she should, feeling broken and confused because she can’t understand why her love isn’t enough to fix what’s wrong.

But here’s the truth she needs to hear......she is not the cause of his unhappiness. His inability to find peace inside himself is his battle to fight, not hers to carry. And no matter how much she tries to save him or fix him, she can’t heal wounds he refuses to face. Real love isn’t about sacrificing your happiness for someone else’s pain. It’s about two people who are whole enough on their own choosing to grow together, not dragging each other down.

So if you’re the woman trying to love a man who’s unhappy with himself, remember this.....you deserve happiness that’s not conditional on his mood or his struggles. You deserve a love that lifts you, not one that pulls you under. And sometimes, loving yourself means walking away from someone who can’t love you the way you deserve because he hasn’t learned to love himself yet.

Don’t beg, don’t force, don’t chase... It sounds simple but it’s one of the hardest lessons to truly live by. When you w...
06/29/2025

Don’t beg, don’t force, don’t chase... It sounds simple but it’s one of the hardest lessons to truly live by.
When you want someone, when you care deeply, the temptation to fight for their attention, their love, and their time can feel overwhelming.
But here’s the truth....love isn’t a bargain or a game where you have to chase someone down to prove you’re worthy. Love is meant to be mutual.
It’s meant to be easy in the way two people give and receive without counting or exhausting themselves.

Giving the same energy they give isn’t about being cold or indifferent. It’s about valuing yourself enough to protect your peace and your dignity.
It’s about recognizing when you’re putting in way more than you’re getting back and realizing that imbalance isn’t love....it’s a one-sided effort that drains you emotionally. You don’t have to beg for texts, calls, or attention. You don’t have to force someone to be present when their heart isn’t in it. And chasing? Chasing someone who’s running away only pushes them further.

When you mirror their energy, you’re not playing games. You’re being honest with yourself and with them. You’re saying that your love is real but it’s not desperate. You’re showing that you know your worth and that you’re not going to settle for less than respect, care, and genuine connection. Because relationships aren’t supposed to be exhausting. They’re supposed to add to your life, not subtract from your self-esteem.

So don’t beg, don’t force, don’t chase. Give the same energy they give and watch how quickly things become clear. If they match you, you’ve got something real. If they don’t, then you’ve just saved yourself from heartbreak and stress that you didn’t deserve in the first place. Love should lift you up....not wear you down. And the moment you understand that is the moment you start loving smarter, not harder.

Sometimes as an adult, you have to look yourself in the mirror and decide, This is the last time these people are going ...
06/29/2025

Sometimes as an adult, you have to look yourself in the mirror and decide, This is the last time these people are going to make me feel this way.
It doesn’t matter if they’re family, a partner, or friends...when certain people consistently bring pain, disappointment, or disrespect into your life, you have to draw a line and stand by it.
It’s one of the hardest choices you’ll make because society tells us to endure, to forgive endlessly, to keep trying, especially with family. But endurance without boundaries only drains your spirit and keeps you stuck in a cycle of hurt.

You get to the point where you realize that no one has the right to make you feel small, unloved, or less than who you are. You realize that the love and respect you give yourself can’t coexist with people who don’t value or honor you the way you deserve.
So you have to be brave enough to say, I’m done letting this affect me.
I’m done feeling anxious or upset because of how they treat me. This is the last time I’m allowing them to have that power over my emotions.

It’s not about being cold or unforgiving; it’s about protecting your peace and your sanity. It’s about reclaiming your energy from the people who waste it and redirecting it toward your healing and growth.
Sometimes that means setting boundaries that feel uncomfortable at first.
Sometimes it means distancing yourself or even walking away completely. And yes, sometimes it means accepting that not everyone you love will love you back in a healthy way.

But standing by that decision is where your power lies. It’s where you show up for yourself in a way no one else can.
It’s where you prove that your well-being matters more than keeping peace with toxic patterns.
Because when you finally say, This is the last time, you open the door for better relationships, healthier connections, and a life where you are truly respected and cherished.
So don’t be afraid to take that stand for yourself. Your peace is worth it.

It’s hard to admit when a relationship is no longer good for you. You want to believe in second chances, in healing, in ...
06/29/2025

It’s hard to admit when a relationship is no longer good for you.
You want to believe in second chances, in healing, in love conquering all.
But sometimes the love you have isn’t enough to fix what’s broken.
When the pain outweighs the joy, when the promises keep breaking, when the respect disappears, it’s okay to let go. Walking away doesn’t mean you failed....it means you chose yourself.
You chose your peace, your dignity, and your future.
Staying in a relationship that drains you only keeps you stuck in a cycle of hurt.
Sometimes the most loving thing you can do for yourself is to say goodbye and open the door to something better.

When a man finally realizes his woman is on his team, not his opponent, that’s when his life changes. A real woman will ...
06/28/2025

When a man finally realizes his woman is on his team, not his opponent, that’s when his life changes.
A real woman will pray for you, pour into you, speak life over you, and help you grow....but only if you let her.
Stop breaking down what was sent to help build you up. Choose partnership, not power struggles.

You can say you love someone, but if your actions don’t match your words, the love doesn’t mean much. Trust isn’t someth...
06/28/2025

You can say you love someone, but if your actions don’t match your words, the love doesn’t mean much.
Trust isn’t something you hand out like candy...it’s built slowly through consistency, honesty, and respect. When a man breaks your trust, it shakes the foundation of everything you believed in.
And rebuilding that foundation takes more than apologies...it takes proof. Proof that he’s willing to change, willing to be accountable, willing to put your heart first.
If he isn’t showing up like that, then no amount of sweet talk will fix the damage. Don’t give your trust to someone who hasn’t earned it. Protect your heart like the treasure it is.

Too many women settle for relationships where they constantly doubt themselves, where they’re told they’re “too much” or...
06/28/2025

Too many women settle for relationships where they constantly doubt themselves, where they’re told they’re “too much” or “not enough.” But love is supposed to make you feel safe, seen, and celebrated....not like you have to shrink or change to fit someone else’s mold.
If you’re with someone who makes you question your value every day, it’s not love....it’s emotional wear and tear.
A good man sees your light and helps it shine brighter. He doesn’t dim it to make himself look bigger.
You deserve to be with someone who lifts you up, who sees your flaws but loves you anyway, who fights for you, not against you. Don’t settle for anything less than that.

It’s hard enough to be vulnerable, to open up and show the parts of yourself that aren’t perfect. But when the person yo...
06/28/2025

It’s hard enough to be vulnerable, to open up and show the parts of yourself that aren’t perfect.
But when the person you trust to hold your heart reacts with frustration, anger, or indifference, it teaches you to close off little by little.
A man who truly loves you sees your emotions as a gift, not a burden. He doesn’t make you feel crazy for feeling deeply or needing comfort.
Instead, he meets you with patience, kindness, and understanding.
If he can’t handle your feelings, it’s not because you’re too much....it’s because he’s not enough. And you deserve a love that welcomes all of you, not just the parts that are easy to love.

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