
07/04/2025
Peer pressure can affect anyone of any age because we all want to be accepted, or to be part of a group we admire. Giving in to peer pressure is usually more comfortable than avoiding it because we’re afraid of being different.
• Group acceptance. People have a natural tendency to conform. They don’t want to stand out, or they want to be accepted, so they listen to their friends, co-workers, and associates. Unfortunately, people around you don’t always support your goals or don’t have goals of their own. They may put you down for different reasons altogether. Acceptance is important, so join the right group that will influence your decisions in a positive way.
• Negative people. Many times we adjust our behavior and attitude to match those of the majority, and we don’t pay attention to our own feelings. If being around negative people gives you a pang, it’s the subconscious telling you it’s not right for you to be around them. You can’t change negative people, but you can try to distance them from your life.
• Network to your advantage. Get in with a different group of people. Start joining associations or get involved with people who are trying to do and achieve the same things you are.
• Who is your “tribe”? Your tribe is a group of people who have interests and goals like yours. Being with them allows you to be authentic, feel confident, and have the support of like-minded people.
Stay strong and true to yourself. If something doesn’t feel right, or you’re surrounded by negative people, take them out of your life. If you can’t do that (for whatever reason), then limit your exposure to them. Don’t let them cause you to stray from your goals.
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