11/17/2022
Dear Bogey,
My sister and her best friend, who I am also friends with, have gotten into a fight and haven’t spoken to each other for a few weeks now. My sister jokes a lot with the people she cares about, and our friend is very sensitive. So, from my understanding, the fight started from a joke my sister made about our friend that she took personally. My sister doesn’t want to apologize because she doesn’t think she did anything wrong, and our friend has been ignoring her and avoids her at school. I got the two of them to talk to each other for one night when we went out to eat together, but I think that was only because I was there because they stopped talking to each other again afterwards. Their fight is affecting the rest of our friend group as well because they don’t want to go to events if the other is there, and they both barely use our group chat anymore. I’m frustrated that neither of them wants to be the bigger person since it has been almost a month since the fight happened. Sometimes I wonder if they even want to be friends anymore, but I still care about both of them, and it’s exhausting being the middle person. What should I do to help them get back together, if they even should be friends again?
Sincerely,
Tired Mediator
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