The Black Sheep Survives

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Conflict Analysis & Resolution, M.S. Conflict Consultant

02/02/2025

Newsflash: it’s all of our first time living. Nobody’s perfect and nobody’s expecting perfection. But OWN your mistakes, rectify your mistakes, don’t deflect and blame your mistakes onto your kids.

02/02/2025

Decenter Boomers

Why is it “work on YOUR anger issues” and never “I’m the one with anger issues and I’m projecting them on a stranger”
02/02/2025

Why is it “work on YOUR anger issues” and never “I’m the one with anger issues and I’m projecting them on a stranger”

02/01/2025

And also do it for yourself. Stop enabling this type of behavior across the board. The more enabling you do, the more stuck in programming you are. This is good practice to decenter parents. You’ll see a difference when you start to break from the programming.

02/01/2025

Stop protecting and coddling emotionally immature parents' feelings and start holding them accountable.

02/01/2025

You don’t want your kids to stop talking to you?

-be open minded
-be teachable
-be loving
-be supportive
-stop giving unsolicited advice
-stop sabotaging your kids
-be open to call ins
-shift and change

And most importantly, drop your pride and ego when you mess up. You’re human like everyone else and that means you have to do the labor of rectifying your mistakes and what that looks like. Stop deflecting and shifting blame regardless of your excuses.

02/01/2025

If you’re into cozy games, then you need Hello Kitty Island Adventure 🏝️

16 years with him 😍
01/31/2025

16 years with him 😍

01/31/2025

If, in a vulnerable moment, you offer me criticism instead of support, then do not be surprised when I disconnect myself from you.

01/30/2025

You can't love an unsafe person hard enough to gaslight yourself into feeling safe.

01/30/2025
No
01/29/2025

No

01/29/2025

Don’t be afraid to block people who annoy you. They can go too 🤭

Pick up a damn mop and start cleaning.
01/29/2025

Pick up a damn mop and start cleaning.

01/29/2025

It’s always “you need therapy” and never “I gaslit you, abused you, and I see the impact of my actions”

My hope is that in this space people can start to understand the complexity of unhealthy relationships, what they look l...
01/27/2025

My hope is that in this space people can start to understand the complexity of unhealthy relationships, what they look like, and how it affects us.

01/27/2025

Anyone else watching Severance on Apple TV?

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Who Am I?

Hi! I’m Roxanna.

Ever since I can remember, I enjoyed helping others and providing them with advice specifically tailored to their needs. I practiced counseling throughout my life. I utilize the gift of active listening which is a fundamental element of my work in advice giving.​

Since 2016, I’ve helped my clients break through the obstacles that hold them back in life. Life's too short to be unhappy, unsure, or unfulfilled. Allow me to help and assist you in developing more effective ways to handle these issues that are standing in the way of your goals.

I am a wife and mother to two rambunctious twins. I have my Masters of Science in Conflict Analysis and Resolution from Nova Southeastern University. I am also moving forward in my pursuit of obtaining my Ph.D. in Conflict Analysis and Resolution this upcoming year. I am a certificated mediator in Texas.