The Black Sheep Survives

The Black Sheep Survives We discuss generational trauma, boundaries, & relationships out loud 🖤
Conflict Analysis & Resolution, M.S. Conflict Consultant

I hope this clarifies the distinction
12/30/2024

I hope this clarifies the distinction

12/30/2024

It’s interesting how one statement can send people into a negative reaction. You’re not entitled to a relationship with anyone else. It doesn’t matter who you are. Treat people right, lovingly, supportive, and caring especially if you want them around. If you mess that up and treat them with abuse, fear based tactics, and manipulation don’t be surprised when they choose distance. It’s really super easy.

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12/30/2024

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12/30/2024

If your best was abusive then you didn’t try your best

12/29/2024

“I joined this space because I’m the black sheep of my family”

Ok, but if you’re not actively doing the work of reflecting, undoing and unlearning generational trauma, breaking generational cycles, and noticing the impact you have on others then you’re going to have a hard time in this space. We own our stuff here. We have difficult conversations almost daily. We support each other and we get to know each other too. There are people on here that I’ve gotten to know for years.

12/29/2024

This space prioritizes adult children of narcissistic parents and their recovery. Some people are more than welcome to stick around to learn how to break generational trauma AS LONG as your intent isn’t to gaslight ACONS. This space is for us since most spaces already cater to parents.

If you want an estranged parent page, this isn’t a space for you even if you think you’re the black sheep in your family.
Roxie 🖤

PS. We can sniff your gaslighting victimhood bs from a mile away. We don’t care about your traumatic background when you’re actively passing it down to your own kids without a second thought. Think about the impact you have on others especially your own offspring.

12/29/2024

Your kid is not using you for clout if they are processing and healing from the trauma you’ve inflicted upon them

12/29/2024

Your kid is not abusing you by going no contact with you.

1 + 1 = 2
12/28/2024

1 + 1 = 2

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12/25/2024

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Celebrating in our pjs 🎄♥️
12/24/2024

Celebrating in our pjs 🎄♥️

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12/24/2024

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12/24/2024

If they turn up, then we all turn up 🔥

12/24/2024

Don’t gentle parent your parents today

I’ll leave this right here
12/20/2024

I’ll leave this right here

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12/19/2024

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Something that will always stand out to me is how fast people demonize and label kids vs taking the time to look at thei...
12/19/2024

Something that will always stand out to me is how fast people demonize and label kids vs taking the time to look at their environment and systems at play

You’re only compromising if both of you are giving something up. Compromising isn’t one sided
12/18/2024

You’re only compromising if both of you are giving something up. Compromising isn’t one sided

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Who Am I?

Hi! I’m Roxanna.

Ever since I can remember, I enjoyed helping others and providing them with advice specifically tailored to their needs. I practiced counseling throughout my life. I utilize the gift of active listening which is a fundamental element of my work in advice giving.​

Since 2016, I’ve helped my clients break through the obstacles that hold them back in life. Life's too short to be unhappy, unsure, or unfulfilled. Allow me to help and assist you in developing more effective ways to handle these issues that are standing in the way of your goals.

I am a wife and mother to two rambunctious twins. I have my Masters of Science in Conflict Analysis and Resolution from Nova Southeastern University. I am also moving forward in my pursuit of obtaining my Ph.D. in Conflict Analysis and Resolution this upcoming year. I am a certificated mediator in Texas.