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Elderly Care Services
Care Consultant Services Why did I want to become an End-of-Life Doula?

The fact is, I’ve been one for most of my life. My mom had a massive heart attack when I was twelve years old. She survived the heart attack but was limited on what she was able to do. Over the years, I documented twelve pages of health issues, doctor appointments, specialists, medications, and notes while caring for her until her end of life. When mom passed away, I realized the natural talent I

had for caring for people and helping them during difficult time. I searched to see if there was an opportunity for me to make a career out of taking care of people and an End-of-Life Doula is what I found. As my mom and I went through her life, one of the things that I noticed was that we were always making decisions in the middle of a crisis, which is never the best time to make a decision. Even when things were planned, I always felt like I wasn’t getting all the information to make the right decisions, didn’t always know the right questions to ask, the agencies to go through, or the resources that would have helped along the way. There should have been easier ways to get answers or someone that could help me get the answers. In August of 2020, I found Doulagivers and signed up to take the Doulagivers Specialist Courses. This included the End-of-Life Doula care (CEOLD), Elderly Care, and Care Consultant classes. I’ve passed the courses and am also certified through the National End of Life Doula Alliance (NEDA). Prior to Doulagivers, I had a 22-year career at Vanguard as a Project Manager and Graphic Designer. I managed the creation of top-quality print and electronic communications from start to finish within Vanguard’s Institutional and Retail Marketing arena. Worked closely with in-house creative teams and external vendors, I ensured projects were completed on time and within specifications. At my current position at the Lansdale School of Business, as the Program Chair of Graphic Design and Web Programs and Instructor, I develop and revise curriculum and instructional materials, train faculty to ensure effective delivery of curriculum, and maintain learning environments that exceed requirements at two locations. I actively participate in advisory committee and advisory board meetings, promote enrollment and retention initiatives, and represent the school at campus and community events. To maintain subject matter expertise in accordance with standards, I regularly complete professional development coursework and activities. As an Instructor, I teach courses such as Advertising, Typography, Photoshop, Illustrator, InDesign, Video Editing, Principles of Design and HTML. I encourage students to use their talents to create individual projects with an eye toward creating a meaningful portfolio that will help them attain employment. Instruction includes how to create advertising brochures, newspaper ads, reports, invitations, newsletters, and other printed and digital materials. Along with what I learned through Doulagivers, my background in Marketing Communications, graphic design, and teaching, I am able to offer other opportunities to help with planning and enhancing different aspects of my business and supporting the families and patients I help. Hosting monthly Death Cafes is another way I plan to help the community to understand that everyone can have a peaceful death and to not be afraid to talk about what they want when they are coming to the end of their life.

Here is to a great 2025! Happy New Year!🎆
12/31/2024

Here is to a great 2025! Happy New Year!🎆

As The Chapter Closes...

As we stand at the threshold of another year's end, our hearts hold both shadows and light. 2024 brought us moments that tested our strength, taught us resilience, and showed us who truly stands beside us when storms gather.

To those we lost - your absence echoes in the quiet moments, but your love continues to guide us forward. To the challenges that brought us to our knees - thank you for showing us we are stronger than we knew.

Some of us carry scars that the world cannot see, fought battles in silence, and found courage in the darkest hours. Yet here we stand, breathing, hoping, dreaming still. Tonight, we release the weight of what was, honoring both our tears and triumphs. They have shaped us, but they do not define our tomorrow.

As the sun sets on this chapter, we gather our hopes like stars, ready to paint them across a fresh canvas. Tomorrow brings not just a new year, but a chance to begin again - wiser, braver, and more grateful for each breath we share.

To 2024 - thank you for your lessons. To 2025 - we step toward you with open hearts, ready to write new stories of love, healing, and possibility.

May we all find peace in letting go and courage in beginning anew.

~ Etheric Echoes Etheric Echoes

~ Art by Manka Kasha

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12/30/2024

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The Universe is reaching out to you.
Always sending signs
to guide you
onto the right path.
Whether or not you choose to believe this,
is your choice,
And the Universe always encourages
freedom of choice.

But consider this;
Maybe the things you thought you
so desperately needed in your life,
but never attained,
Simply were not meant for you.
Perhaps the Universe had a different plan
and, what may have seemed,
like a random twist of fate
was actually a higher force,
pointing you in the right direction.
Maybe the Universe always had your back
and was encouraging you to stick to your
own unique life path.

And maybe when you deviated
from the route the Universe
was given the opportunity
to teach you the precious lessons
that enrich the human soul
and leave each of us wiser.
And maybe, just maybe,
everything was a gift
sent from the Universe
To you, their precious child ..

Serendipity Corner 🍃 C.E.Coombes

Artist Credit: Erica Berkowitz

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12/30/2024

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It has been one of the greatest and
most difficult years of my life.
I learned everything is temporary.
Moments. Feelings. People. Flowers.
I learned love is about giving. Everything.
And letting it hurt.
I learned vulnerability is always the right choice because it is easy to be cold in a world that makes it so very difficult to remain soft.
I learned all things come in twos.
Life and death. Pain and joy. Salt and sugar.
It is the balance of the universe.
It has been the year of hurting so bad but living so good.
Making friends out of strangers.
Making strangers out of friends.
We must learn to focus our warm energy.
Always.
Soak our limbs in it and become better lovers to the world.
For if we can't learn to be kinder to each other how will we ever learn to be kinder to the most desperate parts of ourselves...

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12/26/2024

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This is so true. Tell the people you love them now. ❤️
12/15/2024

This is so true. Tell the people you love them now. ❤️

Don’t wait til I’m gone
And then stand up to speak
About all the things
That you loved about me

Don’t sing all my praises
Through all of your tears
When I am no longer
Beside you to hear

Don’t leave all that love
Like a secret unsaid
But tell me tomorrow
Or right now instead

And I’ll tell you too
Of the things I admire
About who you are
And how much you inspire

I’ll speak from my heart
Whilst you’re still here to know
“You are” not “you were”
Or “it used to be so”

I’ll speak of your light
Whilst you’ll still hear the words
And not leave that love
In the darkness, unheard

So tell me tomorrow
Or right now - don’t wait
Because we don’t know
When it might be too late

Because we don’t know
When our time might be up
And we need to hear - while we are here -
How we’re loved.

~ 'Tell Me Tomorrow’ by Becky Hemsley ~ Becky Hemsley Poetry

~ Art by Marika Campeti

10/31/2024

Listen to this great podcast as Nikki the Death Doula, LLC interviews my friend and author Loretta Fox. Loretta’s book is about taking care of her mother and much more. Thanks for the shoutout on the podcast Loretta! You can learn more about the book at Lorettafox.com.

Sending hugs to everyone!
10/26/2024

Sending hugs to everyone!

You probably use hugs to express your love for your family and friends. Maybe you also use them as a way of saying hello and goodbye when you meet good friends. Perhaps you haven't thought further than that about hugs. I mean, what is there to think about? Well, there's a whole science behind them.

Here is the shocking truth about hugs: they can boost your happiness, reduce stress, improve your health, and give you a stronger sense of belonging. Yes, all this from one simple hug. How? Let me explain.

A good hug is the fastest way for you to get oxytocin flowing in your body. Even hugging yourself will do the trick! Oxytocin, also known as the “love drug,” calms your nervous system down and boosts your positivity. Here is how a good hug resulting in oxytocin flow affects you:

It lowers your blood pressure, making you feel less anxious and more relaxed.
It reduces the production of cortisol, the stress hormone, enabling you to stay more focused and get better quality sleep.
It naturally boosts your positive emotions and increases the release of other feel-good hormones, like serotonin, making you feel more upbeat and empowered.
All of this naturally puts you and your body in a happier and healthier state to perform. And this is before we even dive into studies that tie hugging to pain reduction, better relationships, and a stronger sense of belonging. It’s all good news when it comes to hugging.

If you want to supercharge your hugs and the benefits you and the recipient get, practice giving your best possible hug. Here is how:

Be present.
Don’t think about anything else except hugging that person when you hug them.
Hold them tight.
Give them a little squeeze to show that you care, that you mean it, and that you’re there for them.
Hug for at least 20 seconds.
That may sound long, but it’s well worth it. Studies have shown that the longer you hug, the better. If 20 seconds sounds too long to start off with, start with five. This is the minimum time a hug should last to get that oxytocin going.

Now go and hug someone!

“I have learned that there is more power in a good strong hug than in a thousand meaningful words.”

– Ann Hood
Artist unknown

Butterfly 🦋
10/26/2024

Butterfly 🦋

leave the old you and your old ways behind and look forward with the new you. a butterfly doesn't return to its former self or choose a life of crawling and cocoons once it has met the sky. it has wings now. it has been transformed. set free. someone once said "you can't talk butterfly language to caterpillar people." it simply won't be understood. you have have an entirely new language and an entirely new flight path. and your whole body, mind and spirit will naturally follow.

~ 'butterfly' by ullie-kaye, Ullie Kaye Poetry

~ Art by Duy Huynh

Dropping next week my wonderful friend Loretta Fox is interviewed on the podcast Good Grief hosted by Nikki the Death Do...
10/25/2024

Dropping next week my wonderful friend Loretta Fox is interviewed on the podcast Good Grief hosted by Nikki the Death Doula, LLC. Should be a great show! ❤️

Dropping next week. My wonderful conversation with author Loretta Fox on her book, caregiving for a parent and so, so much more.
Loretta Fox is the author of Walk Her Up the Stairs: A Caregiver's Healing & Spiritual Journey. She holds a B.A. in English from DeSales University, and an M.A. in Religious Studies from St. Charles Borremeo Seminary. She has been employed by two Philadelphia-based hospice organizations and is also a trained hospice volunteer. Loretta has worked in several spiritual settings, most notably in the Archdiocese of Philadelphia (Catholic) and as Administrator of Abington Friends Meeting (Quaker). She has worked as a care manager for senior adults and as a teacher. She was raised in Philadelphia, but currently lives in Maryland with her husband. More info can be found at LorettaFox.com.




10/23/2024

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I love that there are many options to help the earth. 💖
10/21/2024

I love that there are many options to help the earth. 💖

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10/10/2024

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Walking with grief.
Side by side we walked,
together grief and I.
Carrying my lifes remains
under a darkened sky.

I asked when it would leave.
If the sun would shine again.
I asked if it would heal,
if it could stop the pain.

Grief took its time to speak.
I often wondered why.
Many times we sat together
and all i did was cry.

Grief never ever left me.
and then one day it said.
"I am going nowhere,
so learn to live with me instead."

I then befriended grief.
It then began to talk.
I looked forward to its stories,
when side by side we'd walk.

Together we shared memories
that i had locked away.
Grief is now a part of me,
and i accept it's here to stay.

Author Joanne Boyle ~ Heartfelt

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