03/21/2024
🙌💪😂Being unf**kwithable is being unapologetically you. Not pretending to be someone else … who might be liked more. Not hiding aspects of you … in case people don't like them. Not staying quiet on what you believe… in case people are offended. This means that you're not a people pleaser.
Unf**kwithable is a stance, an attitude, a way of being that is warm, calm, inviting, engaged, present, open-hearted, balanced, accepting, stable, composed, resilient, and vulnerable.
It is a stance that is so calm and so composed that you can’t be shaken, no matter what someone says or what happens. Like the centre of a hurricane, calm and centred while everything is swirling and spinning around you, not because you have taken yourself out of the situation, but because you have allowed yourself to be smack dab in the middle of it.
It is so open-hearted that it’s bigger than the opinions of others. It is so loving that its love envelops the other person and their opinions, seeing and understanding the biggest picture of what is and accepting it.
It is what happens when you don’t need validation, affirmation, or convincing from yourself or others because you confidently yet humbly stand in the truth of your awesomeness, that which can’t be questioned, taken away, doubted, or tarnished.
It is a when you have a balance of not being ashamed of taking up space (literal and metaphorical) in this life with no need to apologize for it, yet all the while not stepping on or pushing out others because there is no need to prove anything to anyone or to yourself.
Being unf**kwithable is being vulnerable and open, knowing that no matter how much physical, mental or emotional pain a part of you experiences, there is a part of you, a centre, a core, a deeper, higher, and truer you that can’t be hurt.
Yeah. Unf**kwithable. That’s who I’m becoming.