11/20/2024
⛔️⚠️ A message from Bob’s family ⚠️⛔️
UPDATE 11/19/2024
I post this update with a very heavy heart and my sincere apologies to those who have to find out through this message. Bob passed away in peace late Saturday night, November 16th, after suffering an intracranial hemorrhage.
We have done our best to contact as many of you as possible but the list of people who knew him is exhaustive and we wanted to update this to reflect our current situation. There will not be a funeral but we plan to update you here with any information on a memorial service. For now the family remains in a state of shock and are taking as long a period of grieving as necessary before making any arrangements or plans.
We thank you for all the love, support and prayers as we deal with this great loss. We so appreciate the many kind words and condolences but we have been overwhelmed with all the people reaching out to us. Please understand if we are unable to answer or respond to your calls or messages. We love you all and in time we will be able to gather together to remember such an amazing man and celebrate his life and legacy.
Below is a piece written by Bob’s daughter that expresses the grief we share with all of you.
XOXOXO
The Bare and Swindle Family
I had to wake up today in a world that continues to exist without my dad in it. While life on earth will go on, it feels a little less kind to me.
My dad was a good man. It seemed as if the very fibers of his heart were woven from compassion, his eyes were primed to see only the goodness in the things and the people around him. He was the helper, the fixer, the giver and never expected anything in return.
These sentiments are not just mine but echoed back by those who I have spoken with. “The patience of a saint” “A gentle soul” “He changed my life” “He saved my life” “The kindest man I have ever known”.
Dad talked about how excited he was to go to heaven often enough that my sorrow is not for him… but for myself, for my family and for the entire world. Him leaving us is an irreplaceable loss, but the love and memories he left behind will forever reverberate through those of us blessed with knowing him.