12/25/2025
CHRISTMAS MEMORIES & OTHER THOUGHTS
By Steve Horton
December 25, 2025
A newspaper columnist writing a holiday message is a time-honored tradition. I remember growing up and reading such offerings in the Detroit Free Press.
Later, having taken up the mantle of journalism, I tried my hand at this custom off and on over the years. Perpetuating the idea of ‘hope’ and using the metaphor of a guiding light shining in the dark night has been an oft-used tool of the trade; after all, that’s part of the original Christmas Story, along with the overarching theme of salvation from sin and the promise of redemption. “Death where is thy sting?”
As I said in a column written years ago, my mental pictute of Christmas was formed from long-ago images and feelings that are tied to having grown up on a dairy farm in rural Michigan and the myriad of traditions and routines I experienced as a youngster.
They range from the chores done in the warmth of the barn on Christmas Eve to visiting our great-grandparents’ home earlier in the week to watching the children’s Nativity play to spending Christmas afternoon at Grandpa & Grandma Horton’s home—also a farm—joined by aunts, uncles, cousins, and Great-Grandpa Bement (Grandma Horton’s father).
I began this long-ago composition by noting that “On Christmas Eve we would hurry about with the milking, needing to finish up so we could get to church for the early service. The string of musical carols played on the radio; the songs were intermingled with the mooing Holsteins and accompanied by the steady beat of the milk pump.”
I recalled my great-grandmother’s small artificial tree she had on a stand in their living room (only it was colored pink rather than the normal green), my Grandpa Lloyd regaling us with his stories as we awaited the holiday feast, my impatience (shared by us kids) as the dishes were washed and put away before we could open the presents (no paper plates and cups or plastic tableware in those days), and the burning logs in the fireplace that added to the ambiance of the decorated room.
The column ended with this sentiment:
“The once vivid images those long-ago Christmases have now blurred into a pleasant, slow-spinning kaleidoscope of recollection. They help generate an internal light which reignites as each Christmas returns. I have little doubt that the spark that first ignited this personal light, our particular and special feeling about December 25th, originates from those tender years. How we experience Christmas as a young child—what we’re taught, what we see and sense—will determine our feelings about it in later adulthood.
“This internal light is perhaps the balance needed to offset the seeming chaos of all the external yuletide trappings. Without this counter influence, or with too little of it the season can turn into mere clutter and noise. But this inner light, when illuminated by all of the other symbols and messages of true meaning available to us, combine to give Christmas a radiant glow.
“The customs, traditions, and habits of our family are special to us, but probably pretty similar to what others did. We were farmers and lived in the country. For me, this upbringing and background will always be the prevailing image of Christmas.
“When I was young and still only saw the trees and not the forest, those annual seasons of celebration seemed to stretch out in an endless line of past and future. The inevitable differences that come from growing older never seemed to affect the core. But time did alter it; ever so gradually at first and then, seemingly in the blink of any eye, forever. Family members died, and the rest of us moved up a rung on the generational ladder. A way of life and pattern of routine that seemed enduring was, alas, fleeting and fragile. Now, as adults, the Christmas celebration centers on our children. Hopefully, the light being sparked within them will be as precious as the one first ignited within us.
“Of all the gifts under the Christmas tree, none match the gift of memory… the remembrances of those times we shared together. We’ll share some more again this Christmas—and add to our bounty.”
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Well, time passes as they say. I now have the title of grandpa and even great-grandpa at our holiday gatherings—one of them held this past Christmas Eve and the other this Christmas afternoon. I don’t know that the younger set will be overly interested in any stories I might wish to share but I’ll acknowledge that they welcome my presence; that Dawn and I are part of their image of this holiday and that we comprise some of their memories of Christmases Past.
And this is as it should be. We are part of the continuum, the custodians of tradition and observance; the torchbearers of the light…a light shining forth from original glow that pierces the darkness, our duty being to keep in glowing… a gift of life and all its possibilities given to us as babes in the crib, carried forth, and now being handed to a new generation.
The message of Christmas, its true meaning, will be passed on as long as we believe in and embrace the ‘light of hope’.