01/06/2024
PLEASE KEEP ME ANONYMOUS
I just need advice, I met this guy on tinder, we talked at length and later met up, we were cool and he asked me out so fast after our second date, but in the course of our conversations and meetings, he has been very caring, would bring me fruits when i was sick and he was very calm... so i gave him a green light and we started dating. We started having s*x, i told him I wanted us to use protections and all, till it bursted and didnt tell me and within 1 month of our relationship, ive had an abortion, He changed too, would complain about everything, our s*x, my type of outfits, my posts online even old posts that was there before he asked me out Fast forward to two months into our dating, he had his birthday party, a day to his birthday... i was wondering why he wanted to have the party before his birthday but he told me that was what he wanted, so i attended the party with my friends on the 8th of this month, we had fun and all, i gifted him what i could... the next day after his party, which happens to be his real birthday, i expected we would be together but I didnโt hear from him I was so sad but my birthday but he told me that was what he wanted, so i attended the party with my friends on the 8th of this month, we had fun and all, i gifted him what i could... the next day after his party, which happens to be his real birthday, i expected we would be together but i didnt hear from him, i was so sad but my female friend had to cheer me up and took me to the karaoke that night, But i still wanted to hear from him so i sent him videos, and told him i wanted to sing for him.
The next thing he said was, see how bad i was dressed, and how late I'm out and he feels he is wasting his time with me and said a lot of things to me then broke up and block me on every social media platform, Ive been very sad, my birthday was on the 24th, he ruined all my plans that i had to go home, he didn't unblock me since that 9th till now I dont want him anymore cos he is a manipulator but a part of me still wants vengeance. For coming into my life, i was just healing from the previous pain, he gave me so much assurances then discarded me like a nobody's