01/29/2022
ABIDING IN CHRIST: LOVE IS NOT SELFISH; IT KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONG
John 15:9 (NASB), Jesus says “As the Father has loved Me, I have also loved you. Abide in My love.”
I Cor 13:5 (NASB) “(Love) is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered…”
Whether we realize it or not, we are all spiritual beings, clothed for now in a physical body. All of us are made in His image. (Gen 1:28) And all of us are on spiritual journey. And God loves all of us, believers, and non-believers.
Each time we exercise our free will, we take another step in that journey. I started my journey when I surrendered myself to Jesus and began eternal life with Him. The journey of finding our identity in Christ is a journey that frees us from fear and darkness, leads us into His love, to see His light.
But we don’t journey alone. Our journey intersects with some, like me and you, who are journeying toward God and seeking to abide in Christ. And with others who are actively trying to avoid God. Yet God still loves us, no matter where we are on our journey.
If all I had to do was accept God’s love and love the people who love me, it would be easy. But that is selfish. Jesus makes it clear that we are to love as He loves, generously, extravagantly…and sacrificially. He says in verse 12, “This is my commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you.” He goes on to acknowledge that this will not be easy, that we will be hated and have enemies. “But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you…,” (Matt 5:44 NASB) Jesus humbled Himself to die on the cross for us because He loves us.
In short, I am NOT to love selfishly, seeking my own way,, hold a grievance against someone, or keep a record of wrong. Quite the opposite. In order to remain on my journey with Jesus, I must give love as He does
Jesus does not ask you or me to do this in the flesh. He knows that we are incapable of loving as He loves, without the Holy Spirit as a Helper. He reminds us that He has already overcome the world. Yet, when I read a post on social media written by someone with whom I disagree, or who characterizes a group of people to which I belong as racist, sexist, bigoted, homophobes, my first reaction is rarely to respond lovingly or to pray for them. Instead, my pride raises its head, my ego puffs up, and I say “How dare so and so…..”
Then, the Holy Spirit taps me on the shoulder and reminds me where my journey with Him began. I am humbled as I realize what Jesus has done for me, how far He has taken me out of sin, fear, and darkness. How much He has forgiven me and changed me. And how far I have yet to travel, to experience His grace, to give of His love and light. It is when I am honest about my own fears that I recognize the fears with which others struggle. Like me, they fear loss, hurt, the unknown. Unlike me, they may not realize that they can rely on God’s love to protect, heal, and forgive them. When I am humbled, then I become like a beggar sharing what I have to give with another beggar and telling them where to find more.
God’s love is finite. I can’t lose it or run out of it. But it is not meant to bottled up. It is meant to be shared. The more I love freely, as He loves, the more love I receive and the more assurance that I have, not in my ability to give love, but in His ability to express it through me.
It is my choice to do this. I choose to abide in Jesus, to love as He loves, to let go of my grievances, and keep pointing the way out to those trapped by fear and darkness, praying that they will surrender and find God’s love and light.