01/06/2026
WHY MANY MARRIAGES FAIL TODAY AND HOW TO AVOID THEM.
One reason many marriages are struggling today is because we live in a world that keeps changing, yet we keep forcing marriages to run on old, man-made traditions values that no longer fit our reality and modern life.
That is exactly why God’s Word never goes out of style. It is timeless. It works in every generation.
Notice this. God never listed who cooks, who cleans, or who pays the bills. He never itemized domestic roles. When he blesses the man or the women, it's the home that gets blessed and not just one of them.
He said,
“It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”
Then the two become one.
That tells us something important.
The idea was never about fitting into rigid roles. The idea was to function as one in a way that allows each of them to give their best, serving each other according to their capacity. It's all about alignment.
A man is to know himself and choose a wife who fits into his life and has the capacity to help him in the areas he actually needs help. And a woman should choose a man she can genuinely walk with, not one she is trying to fix or reshape.
Now think about it this way.
Some men truly need domestic help. And there are women who have the capacity and the desire to do that joyfully. That is who they are. That is what they want. With that understanding, they thrive.
There are also men who do not need domestic help because they can do those things themselves or outsource them. What they need is a wife to build vision and wealth with. A woman who is career-focused, family-minded, and balanced. If that is her capacity and that is what he desires, they thrive too.
Different marriages. Same God. Same truth.
God intentionally gave a general principle, not a rigid formula, so we can apply it based on who we are, what we are called to do, and how we function best to bring Him glory.
The problem today is that many people have lost touch with this. So men and women who have no business being together get married. Then they start forcing each other to become who they want instead of honoring who God created them to be and this leads to frustration, resentment, and unhappiness.
You cannot do marriage without God’s wisdom. Human beings are naturally selfish. And it shows. Many people today enter marriage focused on what they can gain, not what they are called to give.
That is why you will never hear me call myself a traditional man. I operate above human traditions attached to marriage. I choose God’s truth over culture.
My name is Profit, and I am here to challenge how you think about marriage and help you enjoy it God’s way.
So let me ask you.
What are you going to do with this truth?
Cheers
Profit Eneh
