08/23/2021
*This post has been edited. The 1st version was dictated so punctuation etc. has been corrected.
Europe, August 2021.
What an eye opening experience. I knew I would come back a changed person, that was part of the goal.
And it is not lost on me, that the trip I took was one of privilege. A river cruise down the Danube River visiting five countries.
Whenever you take a cruise, you're treated like royalty... Not your everyday experience. But what we saw and what we experienced really made me wonder how about my home country, USA, and what the hell we're doing.
I may be saw a dozen homeless people. Overall, the population was stressless. I did not see a competitive environment. It was not a lot of "new" buildings etc. other than fashions that were off the charts gorgeous. Food was consistently fantastic, very few overweight people, almost zero advertising, I really feel like my political views have shifted.
A bit about my travel mates. Seven people total, two married couples (on the right side of the aisle). My mate also on the right side of the aisle, myself decidedly left and one 24-year-old daughter obviously, clearly left side thinking.
One of my travelmates had a medical issue come up and after several days it was clear she needed some medical attention. She did not go to a doctor. She walked into a pharmacy / apothecary; explained her situation and received prescription grade medication to help her situation. In and out in 10 minutes.
In America, she would still be waiting for a doctor's appointment. Extremely inefficient. If America operated like that we would collapse as the democracy that we know. The difference between the haves and the have-nots would be slashed.
I think Bernie Sanders is a visionary. But if in fact we took care of ourselves, "cradle to grave" as socialism is declared to be, we would no longer be America as we know it.
We create industry, and pollution, and jobs for people which are not necessarily good and kind.
I am not a child of privilege. I am a child of "the dangled carrot".
I have always felt pressured to do my best and accomplish as much as I could, but with others expectations of me woven in, and with that weaving came blockage. "Don't do that do this".
One of my companions, Michael, who put this whole thing together, was raised similarly to me. Dysfunctional family, rural upbringing, saw and wanted more, got the hell out. The difference between Michael and I he didn't let other people stop him I did.
Michael is now in an industry of privilege. He has done well, and I am so proud of him. He has opened my eyes and expanded my world. And now, I'm wondering what I'm going to do with that world.
I would not trade this experience for anything! I've always wanted to go to Europe. Never had any thought of going to the places we went, and wouldn't change it for the world. I knew I would come back a new woman and it changed woman, and I feel that. What develops from here remains to be seen. Thank you Jeff for the opportunity.