01/01/2026
Burned Haystack Dating Method (Stop over-explaining.
Stop chasing clarity.
Stop trying to regulate someone else's nervous system.
When someone shows you they can't handle boundaries, delayed responses, or normal life stress...
- believe them
Burning the haystack isn't being cold.
It's choosing self-respect.
It's protecting your peace.
It's making space for someone who doesn't collapse under basic reality.
If it's misaligned, let it exit without drama
The right energy rises to meet you — it doesn't need convincing