Soul Facing

05/04/2023

I'll be going LIVE at 8:15pm (EST).

Tonight's topic:
PI**ED OFF TO AT PEACE

Black Motherless Daughter,
Avoid Being Pi**ed Off! Let Me Show You How!

I look forward to seeing you there❤️
xo,
Salima

05/03/2023

I'll be going LIVE at 8:15pm (EST).
Tonight's topic:
PI**ED OFF TO AT PEACE

Black Motherless Daughter,
Get The Peace You Deserve...Let Me Show You How!

I look forward to seeing you there❤️
xo,
Salima

05/02/2023

I'll be going LIVE at 8:15pm (EST).

Tonight's topic:
PI**ED OFF TO AT PEACE

Black Motherless Daughter, Let's Talk About WHY you're PI**ED OFF!

I look forward to seeing you there❤️

xo,
Salima

05/01/2023

A Black Motherless Daughter is a Black Woman who lives in silence with the stress, shame, rage and anger of being rejected and abandoned by the Black Woman that brought her into this world.

I've been a Black Motherless Daughter since I was 6 years old, and for years I was PI**ED OFF about it...

I wanted to know WHY my mother walked away from me. (What did 6-year-old me do to deserve such rejection?)

I wanted to know WHAT in the hell made her think that s**t was a good idea?! (Ma'am, your little girl really needed you, duh!)

I wanted to know HOW she could sleep at night knowing that she just up and left her daughter like that? (Like, who TF does that?!)

I wanted to know WHEN her ass was coming back to get me! (Yeah, I'm 48 years old and she has NEVER returned)

I've asked myself these questions a gazillion times, I asked God these questions even more. One day (about 4 years ago), I got an answer from God, and it was very clear...
1. MIND YOUR BUSINESS
2. PEACE IS YOUR BIRTHRIGHT
3. IF YOU WANT PEACE, LOOK WITHIN

Initially, I was not pleased with those answers...because I felt like it didn't answer a damn thing. I kept going back to that first "answer"...MIND YOUR BUSINESS! And like a freight train, IT HIT ME...

PEACE IS MY BIRTHRIGHT! (also, my name means Peace, duh Salima!)
And I was only going to get it if I minded my business...btw, my business is ME!

I began doing "the work" and I began to understand that I was on a lifelong healing journey (you are never "healed", you are always HEALING).

I started realizing that I was no longer PI**ED OFF and that I'd be working for the rest of my life to remain AT PEACE...and for the record, I LOVE IT OVER HERE!

Sis, the time is now. You've spent your life being PI**ED OFF, it's time for you to be AT PEACE.
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Join me at 8:15pm EST this week (Tues - Fri) for a livestream that will show you how I went from being PI**ED OFF to being AT PEACE!

Before we go "live", I need y'all to do 3 things:

#1 Follow my page and feel free to join the private community {Soul Facing: Black Motherless Daughter (a healing journey)} so that you will be notified when the livestreaming starts!
#2 Type "I'M PI**ED OFF!" in the comments to let me know you'll be there!
#3 TAG, SHARE, REPOST so that every Black Motherless Daughter can learn how to go from PI**ED OFF TO AT PEACE!

I LOVE Y'ALL SO MUCH, SEE Y'ALL TOMORROW ❤️


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03/31/2023

THIS IS AN ALTAR CALL!!!

I'm going LIVE at 9pm (EST) in the community Soul Facing: Black Motherless Daughter (a healing journey)

If you're not part of the community, please join as this is a live that you don't want to miss!

Black Motherless Daughters - you are NOT required to forgive your mother. God requires us to forgive ourselves. Let's talk about it! See you soon❤️

03/21/2023

No matter what form it shows up as and no matter who it comes from...you do not have to tolerate it.

Understand that when you do tolerate disrespect, you're engaging in disrespecting yourself....you're teaching others that it's okay to treat you badly.

IT IS NOT OKAY.

Take a deep breath and realize that you were born worthy of respect and when you see that respect isn't on the table, you have an obligation to yourself to leave the room❤️


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03/17/2023

03/17/2023

Black Motherless Daughters - you cannot allow everyone access to you.

In our effort to cope with being abandoned/rejected by our mothers, we've all experienced allowing anyone/everyone access to us.

We didn't know any better. We were afraid and just didn't want to be alone.

We were never taught the art of discernment. Our environment taught us to people please, to go along to get along....to do anything to not be abandoned/rejected.

It's time we GET UP, STAND UP and fight for yourself to fully experience your birthright to limit, revoke, deny and/or approve anyone access to you. This includes your mother.

I need you to know that having access to you is a privilege and allowing anyone/everyone access to you is a contradiction of your natural state of peace, no matter who it is.

I'm Salima. I've created a safe + sacred healing space for Black Motherless Daughters.

Join me LIVE tonight at 8:15pm (EST)...we're gonna talk about Access.

https://fb.me/e/TGEIwdgI

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03/16/2023

03/15/2023

Black Motherless Daughter ❤️

03/13/2023

Are you a Black Motherless Daughter?

Have you ever experienced:
☎️a triggering phone convo with your mother after seeing one of those weird ass FB posts (you know the ones....where she's bragging about how well you're doing and how great of a mom she is + she tagged you in it....knowing damn well it's a whole lie + charade)
🫠dreading going to any family function because you know your mother is going to act a fool
😡waking up and the first glimpse of yourself in the mirror, you only see your mother + it pi**ed you off + scared you at the same time
😣struggling through thoughts of why your mother rejected + abandoned you (what did you do to cause her to do that)
⚔️a physical fight with your mother
🤼wrestling with feelings of hatred towards your mother
😕being confused about being a Black woman because you've never had a reference / guide for being a Black woman + can't reach out to the Black woman that gave birth to you for help

Sis, BREATHE.

Black Motherless Daughter, I need you to know
❣️YOU ARE NOT alone
❣️YOU ARE NOT at fault for your mother's greatest fumble
❣️YOU ARE NOT responsible for fixing the relationship that your mother broke
❣️YOU ARE NOT required to continue to live in silence with the stress, shame, silence, rage and anger of being rejected + abandoned by the Black woman that brought you into this world

I'm Salima. A Black Motherless Daughter, 43 years and counting.

I know what it is to live in silence with that stress, shame, anger and rage that comes from being rejected + abandoned by my mother.

I also know what it is to have peace/be at peace + to no longer live in the silent shame of having a mother who rejected + abandoned me.

Are you a Black Motherless Daughter? Are you ready to begin healing your "Black Mother Wound"?

Are you ready to
☮️Have peace/be at peace
🤔Understand why this happened to you + how it happened FOR you + what to do with it
📖Learn about the necessity of self mothering for Black Motherless Daughters

Black Motherless Daughter, it's time to heal our "Black Mother Wound", we are SO worthy (+ overdue) of a healing.

Like and follow my FB group Soul Facing. Share it with a sister who needs to be in this space.

Join me this week for a LIVE streaming series that you don't want to miss. Yes, we're talking about all things Black Motherless Daughter and what we NEED to do to heal ourselves.

Sis, it's time. Let's get to work.

03/11/2023

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