01/16/2024
I just went through a breakup and I wanted to
share a few things with you guys about how I
currently feel. Here it goes - Breakups hurt,
Breakups hurt a lot. You stay in a state of shock
for days and weeks, still imagining ways to go
back in time and remedy the situation or just
avoid it from happening altogether. Well, you
can't, no one can. In the end, it's important to
come to terms with the fact that it's over.
It's not going to be easy, it never is. All the
memories, all the moments, all the smiles and all
the tears just keep piling up. You'll feel distorted
in between, you'll phase out a lot without even
knowing why. But know this, coming from
someone who's still feeling the pain, this too is a
part of life. And like everything else, this too shall
pass.
Do NOT hate the other person, forgive them and
try forgetting them, irrelevant of why you broke
up, they were still a huge part of your life and
they shared infinite memories with you, hating
them will only hurt you, truly forgive them and
ask for forgiveness. No one is perfect, we all have
our flaws and our weaknesses, we all make
mistakes.
In the end, focus on your life, your friends, your
family. If you think of them, don't focus on the
bitter moments, focus on the positives because
this much negativity will only make you feel
darker. And before you know it, you'll be out of
that dark phase of life where it seems like your
entire life is over, it's not, you two will move on
at your own pace and on your own time. This too
shall pass.
You've faced bigger problems before, you're
stronger than this, both of you are. Life is
beautiful, everything around us is beautiful,
cherish the moments you have in your life, cherish
the luxuries, cherish the small things, cherish the
people who are still there with you. The world
won't stop for you, no one will. You'll be back to
normal in due time, because time heals all
wounds. Stay strong, everyone!..